Marrying a Prison Inmate.....

Weird story. I have to agree with sallylou that there is some seriously codependent women who can be manipulated by words.
 
CJB said:
Certainly possible. People fall in love through letters and email all the time.
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I agreed very mcuh that people can fall in love through letters and emails all the time. It happened to me several times. :shock:
 
I wouldn't understand as well.... and I also wouldn't marry a prison inmate.... But it's their choices, not mine.
 
CJB said:
There's a small chance they may have just fallen in love. I don't want to judge the inmate either until I know for sure he hasn't been falsely accused.
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My uncle is in prison for murdering his WIFE (he admitted to it) He is in San Quinton State Prison in California....

His girlfriend that he met through one of those pen-pal things visits him at least once a month for a week from ENGLAND!!!

She is separated from society to the point that the woman refuses to read the newspaper because of "the negative lies" She doesn't own a T.V. and music is for the irreverant. She is also a hardcore Buddhist.

The last time I saw her she was telling me how completely in love she was with my uncle and how she wished she could marry him (the thought playing in the back of my mind was: "and become dead wife #2?") I pity her even to this day because of that... and she wanted to be 'my buddy' I think she is just vulnerable and alone

sallylou said:
Psychopaths are really good at charming and manipulating people. For whatever reason, these women are buying the con. If an inmate is a psychopath (many are), he will only use people without any conscience. If your friend is involved with an inmate, you'll need to be around to pick up the pieces. No about of talking will convince a friend in this situation, though. The woman has to decide for herself that she's done being victimized, just like in domestic violence. It's hard to watch a person you care about put herself in these situations.
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I believe my uncle brainwashed her into thinking that he was a changed man... he regrets doing it... and wishes he had another chance.... (the man is a bipolar sociopath. I'm not just saying it, he has been diagnosed) All in all he is a liar and she is either stupid or naive to believe him.

I pity any woman that feels the need to marry an inmate (more specifically one like my uncle) I know I kinda ranted here, but if it helped at all, great! if not, i'm sorry.....
 
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