Many people deny themselves who have a drinking problem

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Symptoms

You might not realize that you have a drinking problem. You might not drink every day, or you might not drink large amounts when you do drink. You might go for days or weeks between drinking episodes. Many people say they are "social drinkers" because they do not drink every day. But even if you don't drink very often, it is still possible to be abusing alcohol and to be at risk for becoming addicted to it.

You might think you can quit drinking at any time. Many people who have alcohol problems do quit for periods of days, weeks, or even months before they start drinking again. But unless you can consistently keep your drinking under control and not fall back into unhealthy patterns, you need help.

Signs of alcohol abuse

You have problems at work or school such as tardiness, absenteeism, increased injuries, and decreased performance related to alcohol use.
You drink in dangerous situations, such as before or while driving a car.
You have blackouts—this means that after a drinking episode, when you are sober again, you cannot remember what happened while you were drinking.
You have legal problems because of your drinking, such as being arrested for driving or for physically harming someone while intoxicated.
You get hurt or hurt someone else when you are drinking.
You continue to drink despite health problems that are caused or made worse by alcohol use, such as a peptic ulcer.

Your friends or family are worried about your drinking.
Signs of alcohol dependence or addiction
You crave alcohol and are not able to control your drinking, even when you want to.

You have withdrawal symptoms such as nausea, sweating, or anxiety when you cut back or stop drinking.
You must drink more alcohol to feel the same effects.
In spite of the signs, you think you don't have a problem.
Friends or family members are worried about your drinking.
You have physical signs of alcohol dependence, such as blackouts.
You hide your drinking or hide how much you drink.
You are not comfortable in situations where alcohol is not served.
It is common for people who have problems with alcohol to have mental health conditions, such as depression or anxiety. People who abuse alcohol are more likely to also have a problem with other substances, such as tobacco or illegal drugs.

If you think you might have a drinking problem, take a short quiz to evaluate your symptoms:

Do you have a drinking problem?
Symptoms of alcohol abuse in children and teens sometimes are different from the symptoms seen in adults. For more information, see the topic Teen Alcohol and Drug Abuse.

Complications
Long-term heavy drinking damages the liver, nervous system, heart, and brain. It also contributes to high blood pressure, stomach problems, interactions between medicines and alcohol, sexual problems, osteoporosis, and cancer. Alcohol abuse can also lead to violence, accidents, social isolation, and difficulties at work and home.

Drinking alcohol can cause unique problems for teens, older adults, pregnant women, and people with other health conditions. If you are pregnant, you should not drink any alcohol, because it increases the risk of developmental problems in your unborn baby.
 
Well, indeed. That's true. My oldest brother is an drinker in his lifetime and he refuses to acknowledge that he has a 'problem' Been in and out from AAA meetings, hospitals after he was admitted with overdose and had his stomach pumped out. His calcium strength in bones is weak and tends to break easily. Liver and Kidneys are not functioning normally.

I haven't seen him for about 5 years and my Dad was telling me that he drank again after he was discharged from hospital with kidney problems.

Still drinking continuously since he was about 18 and now hes about 65.

Still I don't give a fuck about him when hes dead, in my opinion.:pissed:
 
Well, indeed. That's true. My oldest brother is an drinker in his lifetime and he refuses to acknowledge that he has a 'problem' Been in and out from AAA meetings, hospitals after he was admitted with overdose and had his stomach pumped out. His calcium strength in bones is weak and tends to break easily. Liver and Kidneys are not functioning normally.

I haven't seen him for about 5 years and my Dad was telling me that he drank again after he was discharged from hospital with kidney problems.

Still drinking continuously since he was about 18 and now hes about 65.

Still I don't give a fuck about him when hes dead, in my opinion.:pissed:

It is really sad when a person does not want to help. He/She know, we love them but they did not want to help themselves.
 
yes it is very sad to see people drinking, and or continue to ignore their own health due of drinking/drugs....

I just can NOT stand to see one of my relatives drinking.. one booze and soda I can't stand to drink but if i had no choice to drink that soda I will take it but I can't the taste of soda it is NOT a soda anymore. my psychologically is very very sensitivity!

My sister is addictive to her drinking.. Other day my mom stopped by and told me someone found her pass out on the sidewalk... That's it! We know it is not a good sign. There's Nothing we can do. we already *draw a line* to help her in past.. SAD--- she was SOBER and CLEAN for 8 or 9 years then relapse! she was lot better when she is sober! She knows she can't have my kids visit her or see my kids Unless she's Sober first.. she HATES that but had no choice!


Wendy
 
It is really sad when a person does not want to help. He/She know, we love them but they did not want to help themselves.

Yes, its sad. We had spent our resources, love, commitment and financially to help him. At end result, he doesn't want to participate in family life and has moved up north. Sometimes, he pops up to see my Dad just to ask for money He is not interested in saying hello, my dad. I missed you. How are you and have a nice chat over cup of tea. At often, he cornered my Dad just for money to feed his problems.

My Dad is 80 years old, pensioner with failing eyesight and gone deaf due to age.
 
I know some people who drop dead after they quit drinking. I wonder if they would be still alive if they were still drinking?

I am adult child of alcoholic but never saw my dad's drinking, he quit two year before I was born but I deal with my family dysfucntion thanks to his drinking problem before I was born. His parents and grandparents and many before them were alcoholic and they died young. I know it runs in blood so I am so thankful I do not have drinking problem and never been drunk before in my life. I know I can become alcoholic if I drink so I avoid it.
 
i do drink lots with alcoholic but i would becareful on my sezuire but i will drink least once not lots.

mostly people who been still drink lots in younger ages know that not easy for that and got drunk! but that very rough to stop drink!

you heard about famous rich man in the ship Onassis who been still drinking lots for more than decades and wont get stop drink but still drink lots know its so rough for him! till he died in 1975 i think so im not sure but i got video called Onassis:the Richest man in the world its so amazing movie but i watch this movie and no CC but im ahead watch dont worry about that
 
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