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this is like between me and my best friend whose also deaf, but i'm like kind of confused in the situation..
i'll explain how we met first then maybe the story will become understanding.
I met him when i was in elementary school, i was in the 2nd grade, he was in the 5th grade. so we were about 2-3 years apart in age. We became best friends pretty fast. We would hang out alot, go swimming with our friends who are deaf, camping with a deaf community, and we would go to different schools together. (I used to go to St. Rita's school for the deaf for half of my 4th grade) but i started going to hearing schools until the 2nd semester of my 4th grade. But he and I still hang out. Also, another friend of ours likes my best guy friend. She is about 4 years apart from my best guy friend, and she really likes him..and i knew that since i met her when i was young. But then, up until a few weeks ago i started to like him, and he says he likes me too. But then he wants to keep it a secret because of our friend liking him alot and he says hes trying to protect me. Now i don't know if turning him down on that problem was a good idea. Because in some ways i still like him but i don't really want to keep it a secret. Whenever i talk to her, shes always saying: "you find guys your age to date. not older." in that way, she is still kind of telling me that she likes him too. I'm not quite sure how to handle this situation. But with my best guy friend telling me that hes trying to protect me kind of worries about me about our friend who likes him too.. but i don't really want to keep this a secret.
i'll explain how we met first then maybe the story will become understanding.
I met him when i was in elementary school, i was in the 2nd grade, he was in the 5th grade. so we were about 2-3 years apart in age. We became best friends pretty fast. We would hang out alot, go swimming with our friends who are deaf, camping with a deaf community, and we would go to different schools together. (I used to go to St. Rita's school for the deaf for half of my 4th grade) but i started going to hearing schools until the 2nd semester of my 4th grade. But he and I still hang out. Also, another friend of ours likes my best guy friend. She is about 4 years apart from my best guy friend, and she really likes him..and i knew that since i met her when i was young. But then, up until a few weeks ago i started to like him, and he says he likes me too. But then he wants to keep it a secret because of our friend liking him alot and he says hes trying to protect me. Now i don't know if turning him down on that problem was a good idea. Because in some ways i still like him but i don't really want to keep it a secret. Whenever i talk to her, shes always saying: "you find guys your age to date. not older." in that way, she is still kind of telling me that she likes him too. I'm not quite sure how to handle this situation. But with my best guy friend telling me that hes trying to protect me kind of worries about me about our friend who likes him too.. but i don't really want to keep this a secret.