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do you think hugs say something? for some reason i can't stop thinking about a hug my guyfriend gave me. he came behind me when i was sitting down and put his arms around me. Which he scared me lol cause i didn't know who it was at first. I'm not sure if it was just a friendly little hug or if he was trying to tell me something more. i recently told him i like him ,and i told him i wasn't sure how he saw me. and he said he thought about it..i was like thinking ok whatever thats suppose to mean. Hes kind of hard to read cause hes a guniuely friendly person to everybody.
 
ella said:
do you think hugs say something? for some reason i can't stop thinking about a hug my guyfriend gave me. he came behind me when i was sitting down and put his arms around me. Which he scared me lol cause i didn't know who it was at first. I'm not sure if it was just a friendly little hug or if he was trying to tell me something more. i recently told him i like him ,and i told him i wasn't sure how he saw me. and he said he thought about it..i was like thinking ok whatever thats suppose to mean. Hes kind of hard to read cause hes a guniuely friendly person to everybody.
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Perhaps next time you see him, smile, say hi to him and give him warm hug? See what his reaction is? He did hug you, so maybe he will let u hug him next time. smile
 
:lol: Sometimes, men like to feel "affectionate" when huggin'.
 
if he said he did think abt it....it is hint that he cud like u....to me it sound like he do likes u...hope u guys hook up!!!!!!! :naughty: if he hug behind u....maybe he is shy to hug front of u...maybe he is trying to tell u something like maybe ask u out for a date or something *winks* :fingersx:
 
wow I see different view...

A lot of guys are friendly and like to hug us and also hug us unexpectly like that, too... We kiss each cheek 3 times... We know it's only friendship, not more than that.

If they like you more than friendship then they will show their feeling toward you and let you know how much they like you.
 
hmm... i am a huggie person. i do hug my friends like saying hi and bye.

if you really like him a lot, give him a harder hug and you may ask him for a date. :thumb:
 
Nah it doesn't always the case if someone wants you or not, I'm a huggable person and I loves to give hugs to anyone. That's just who I am. But, I don't give hugs to my friends boyfriends because, They (the girls) might wouldn't approve so I would just give them a handshake, or high five. They like that.

As you already stated that he is a friendly person, Does he always give hugs to everyone he sees? If yes? Then maybe your thinking of his hug was misleading.
 
Your question is not stupid :)
Only you know if this guy likes you or not. Time will tell. Hope things will work out for you ;)
 
sometimes he will and or if they want a hug from him. But hes never hugged anyone that i saw like he hugged me that night. No im not going ask him out on a date its up to him plus he just got out of a bad relationship in july or around the summer time. The weird thing is i dreamt about his break up before it even happened,and near the end of the dream i was supposably his new girlfriend. Which is kind of freaking me out since whats happening now and how i feel about him. I want to respect what he told me last year if he ever broke up with his ex which is staying single and just being friends with people. I don't know whats going to happen i'll just have to see .
 
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