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My mother requested having a DNR since she has a terminal illness that is considered a communicable disease. She has a blood borne infection. She got Hep C through a transfusion done at a hospital after getting a massive infection due to hospital error. The CDC was called out in her case. She was given 7 units of blood. Seems that at least 1 of them had Hep C. She now has cirrhosis of the liver. Any time we have an open sore or anything, we have to double bag it and drop it off at the hospital or doctor's office. She's tired of the extra work for me. She has said that if it's anything that does not involve her liver or respiratory system, then we can take care of it, but once it moves to the respiratory system of liver, then just to let her go. I don't see it as assisted suicide. It's nature taking it's course. I do know that others feel differently about that. Heck, my own brothers do and they are totally against my mother's wishes. But then, the younger of my brothers was also the one who told her when my father died, "Well mom, now that dad's dead, we need to put you into a nursing home so we kids can have our freedom." After mom slapped him, I kicked him real hard and punched and broke his jaw. Mom was 52 when he died. That is not old. Mom feels that if we did not have the DNR, then too much would be done and she would be in more pain and be more and more dependent on me for her care.
If it comes to that, I hope your mother will go peacefully and with little pain.

