Hey Guys,
I posted here a lil while ago about a guy that I met recently. I am hearing and he is deaf and we dated a couple of times!
Now hes said he wants to stay friends
I dont get it.. we got on really well... we would text each other several times a day (nearly all of which was initiated by him)! Spoke on IM loads... He was also flirty with me at times and i made it very clear that I really liked him (I told him so).. then last week we had a really odd text conversation, which went as follows:
ME: Stay cool... cos ur lovely!
HIM: what does that mean?
ME: Means wht it says
HIM: Meaning yr not sure anymore? rather stay as mates for now?
ME: No I didnt mean that! I wanna be more than mates.. i really like you! What do u want? just to be friends?
HIM: Kind of Yea! Its just that i dont have many friends... i like you as a friend.. your wicked person to chat to and chill with...
I dont understand why he would ask me if im not sure anymore and if i would rather stay mates for now if all he thought we ever were was just friends!!!
His past gfs have cheated on him (he said it was because hes deaf)..i dont know if that is entirely the case... so he does have some trust issues! He once said that he didnt care about women anymore and that he was just going with the flow! But i did my best to re-assure him that my feelings for him were genuine!
So when he was texting me several times a day, EVERYDAY... i thought that I had finally got through to him and we were making progress... until he dropped that bombshell on me.. I AM GUTTED!!!!
I mean do people really make that much contact with someone they only want to be friends with?? I usually dont lol...
I dont know what to make of it :roll: Of course, I am going to continue being his friend cos he is such a beautiful person (even tho i find it hard cos i like him so much), but I dnt know whether hes just insecure...
Any Advice???
I posted here a lil while ago about a guy that I met recently. I am hearing and he is deaf and we dated a couple of times!
Now hes said he wants to stay friends
I dont get it.. we got on really well... we would text each other several times a day (nearly all of which was initiated by him)! Spoke on IM loads... He was also flirty with me at times and i made it very clear that I really liked him (I told him so).. then last week we had a really odd text conversation, which went as follows:
ME: Stay cool... cos ur lovely!
HIM: what does that mean?
ME: Means wht it says
HIM: Meaning yr not sure anymore? rather stay as mates for now?
ME: No I didnt mean that! I wanna be more than mates.. i really like you! What do u want? just to be friends?
HIM: Kind of Yea! Its just that i dont have many friends... i like you as a friend.. your wicked person to chat to and chill with...
I dont understand why he would ask me if im not sure anymore and if i would rather stay mates for now if all he thought we ever were was just friends!!!
His past gfs have cheated on him (he said it was because hes deaf)..i dont know if that is entirely the case... so he does have some trust issues! He once said that he didnt care about women anymore and that he was just going with the flow! But i did my best to re-assure him that my feelings for him were genuine!
So when he was texting me several times a day, EVERYDAY... i thought that I had finally got through to him and we were making progress... until he dropped that bombshell on me.. I AM GUTTED!!!!
I mean do people really make that much contact with someone they only want to be friends with?? I usually dont lol...
I dont know what to make of it :roll: Of course, I am going to continue being his friend cos he is such a beautiful person (even tho i find it hard cos i like him so much), but I dnt know whether hes just insecure...
Any Advice???