Is christmas stressful for you?

Byrdie714 said:
Yes. And for some strange reason--he is getting into the Christmas holiday. :)
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So you have one other child?


I'm glad you and your son are getting into the Christmas spirit. In a sense, I do believe lost love ones are around during Christmas.
 
Babyblue said:
So you have one other child?


I'm glad you and your son are getting into the Christmas spirit. In a sense, I do believe lost love ones are around during Christmas.
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No other children.

I thought you were referring to my significant other.....
 
Byrdie714 said:
:) Thanks.

But for some reason--after today's discovery--I'm been experiencing sadness, anger, teary eyed, and everytime I see her gifts under the tree--I experience peacefulness.

I even went to the store and it seems that people's Christmas lights are more brighter than before.

All I can say is I CAN'T WAIT FOR CHRISTMAS MORNING! Hers is going to be the first I'm opening that day!
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That is wonderful, Byrdie. You have completed the stages of grief. You will no doubt experience a mix of joy and sadness at opening the gifts, but I suspect it will be a sense of wonderment that you had such a special daughter in your life for the time you did have her, and a bittersweet knowing that, no matter what, she will forever be a part of who you are.:hug:
 
Byrdie714 said:
I think what happend was that after her murder, I didn't want to celebrate Christmas that year.

I had my family at the time and they helped packed things from her room as I couldn't do it. Apparently she had Christmas gifts for me and they ended up getting packed.

It would be 7 years December 15th.
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Ah Byrdie,, Here big hug for you. Hugs. I know how that feels. I guess some of us will always have a little christmas blues for our loves ones.
 
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