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I was very sick for 3 weeks, now i am doing better bit since new med help me... that why i didnt online that much.. umm, today, i really PISSED OFF at stepfather.. my heart is really ANGRY with him... i asked him few weeks and few times, what do for my mom bday?? he keep on dont know dont know.. so i fed up and go ahead started my plan for my mom's specail bday tmw.. but happened i was very sick for 3 weeks, i had fight my health to heal before my mom's bday comming.. so i doing better bit and i go ahead without a med tmw, cuz of i need pick cake, and 50 balloons at party store, then zoom to Applebee's for my mom bday and dinner... Reason why i got piss off at stepfather, cuz of he tried force me to pick cake up today instead tmw.. i told him no i am not going pick cake, wait tmw, he say why not pick today, i say cuz of the cake is not ready until tmw at 3:30pm, he say come on and try call walmart, i told him hey who plan this shyt bday?? he say u, i say yea its me then be PATIENT til tmw period! dont mess up my plan period! i told him to stop agrue with me while i dont feel good... i was sooo ANGRY and cried, cuz of i am sick and he stress me out!!!! also i told him QUIT ask me for abt the cake cuz of i did asked him few times , he keep on dont know abt that.. so i once started my plan period! he gulped.. *sigh*

am i right thing to tell him?? (stepfather)
 
yeah, change the pills :) Your stepdad should have a respect from you. sigh.
 
mmmhhh I understand how you feel.

Your stepdad should respect you & your plan. He will if you tell him to respect you.
 
:werd: I know he shouldn't and not only that he needs to respect her boundries! this is her life not his! if he not wanna throw the party for her mom then tania wants to its her business!
 
Go tell him girl! Put him in his 'place'! Of course he shouldn't be giving you any hardship about what you have been doing making plans for your mom's b-day...guess he's missing out on being courteous and being helpful, etc.,...but don't let his ways get to you, just shrug him off when he's persistant and go about your ways in order to bring joy and happiness for your mom's special day!! :thumb:
 
Your step dad shouldn't be treating you like this when you've been sick for the last 3 weeks....He should given you all the respect and space to make a wonderful birthday party for your mom.....It's a shame he can't put his share in this too and be a bit helpful!

You did just fine Tweetybirdie....
 
i woke up at 6:45am, i was good moody , gave my mom a gift and card.. abt 1 hr later, stepfather came to my room, talked me, i was soooo PISSED OFF, he did again, stress me out... he tried made me pick the cake early.. i say why are u stress me out abt this cake??? he say cuz of wanna go MISSISSIPPI, i say oh well i did asked u few times, u keep on dont know dont know so i go ahead started my own plan for my mom bday party!!!! , we got agrued...
so sigh, GUESS WHAT? i got very very very very angry and hurt!!! he took her to miss this morning... i cried allll the damn morning... sigh.. i cant tell my mom what happened cuz of i dont wanna ruin surprise.. sigh.. right now they are in MISSISSIPPI! :fu2: :fu2: :fu2: :fu2: :fu2: at stepfather... now EVERYTHING RUINED MY FK PLAN!!!!! sigh... sowwy abt that i am very bad moody!!!!! *sigh*
 
:grouphug: Tweety..


He should have made it very clearly what he was going to do... and when your mom comes back, sit down with her and talk with her on how you felt.. maybe make a special day (new one) for you and your mom.. Hope things work out soon.. *dang him*

:ily: Wendy
 
WBHarley said:
:grouphug: Tweety..


He should have made it very clearly what he was going to do... and when your mom comes back, sit down with her and talk with her on how you felt.. maybe make a special day (new one) for you and your mom.. Hope things work out soon.. *dang him*

:ily: Wendy
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yea that why i am wait til they come home, on monday he go to work then i need sit down and explain her what happened.. i will..
 
OH THATS FUCKED UP! IM so sorry u went thru that sigh! he's WRONG to pull that shyt on u!!!!!!
 
If you have everything planned, why don't you go ahead and decorate the birthday party and surprise her when she comes home from Mississippi? Nothing has to be ruined. :)
 
Yeah, Tweety, it'd be nice to see the pics of the cake, etc. Then give your stepdad a dozen of your pills! :mrgreen:
 
Brian said:
If you have everything planned, why don't you go ahead and decorate the birthday party and surprise her when she comes home from Mississippi? Nothing has to be ruined. :)
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i dont wanna stepfather be in party since he ruined it.. so i think abt take my mom out lunch.. but i wanna today cuz of it specail for her bday today.. sigh...
 
Aww im sorry that your stepdad is soo lazy geez....
If i was you, id throw the damn cake in his face!! LOL!
Hope your mom had a great birthday anyway..
I was gone for several days so guess i missed this...
Hugs to you Tweety!!
 
Defee said:
Aww im sorry that your stepdad is soo lazy geez....
If i was you, id throw the damn cake in his face!! LOL!
Hope your mom had a great birthday anyway..
I was gone for several days so guess i missed this...
Hugs to you Tweety!!
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thats okay.. smile.. thanks.. hugs back to u!
 
Tweety,

I'm sorry that you felt that he ruinned it, but it seems to me, that perhaps he was trying to tell you that going to Mississippi was in the plans (and perhaps your mom told your stepdad that that's what she wanted to do) and to do the cake deal a little earlier. And it was difficult for him to tell you that since you were already moody and pissed off, and "yelling" at him. That's just my opinion. I'm sorry you seem to not have a very good relationship with him.

I think the best thing to do next time something comes up, and he ask you to do something that you were planning to do is to remain calm and ask "I planned on doing that tomorrow (or whatever later time), but is there a reason for your asking?"
 
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