Tasha'sMom
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I need some snappy comebacks!!!
Okay, so I like to go to church, but I don't often go because my Deaf kid gets bored and I suck at interpreting for stuff like that.
The kids were away with their Dad, so I went alone on Easter Sunday. All morning, I had to deal with the sweet little old biddies saying crap like:
"How is your POOR sweet little girl doing"? as if she was dying of cancer or something - as if Deafness was equal to dying of a brain tumour!!! And when I would say, "Well, she's always out partying up a storm!" they would
look at me as if I was speaking Chinese... they just did NOT get it.
More stupid comments:
1. Does she speak? (she is fluent in ASL,the english is just party tricks)
2. Would an implant help? (NOPE. It failed miserably)
3. Is the implant working yet? (see #2)
4. I know they are doing wonderful things with science... (um, not in her lifetime)
5. So and so's have a relative/friend who finally learned to speak and or hear, maybe...
I mean, my kid... has more friends than anybody has a right to have. She is spoiled ROTTEN. She rides horses! She goes to two parties or more a month! She has boyfriends, and she's only five! Every time she goes out, she
comes home with presents!
I know, I know, I know, these old ladies grew up in a different time, but it makes me INSANE that they think it's okay to try to serve me up a heaping plate of MISERY at CHURCH when we are perfectly HAPPY!
I have moved on from Hearing At All Costs!!! Why can't they??? My child is PERFECT, God does NOT make junk!
Okay, so I like to go to church, but I don't often go because my Deaf kid gets bored and I suck at interpreting for stuff like that.
The kids were away with their Dad, so I went alone on Easter Sunday. All morning, I had to deal with the sweet little old biddies saying crap like:
"How is your POOR sweet little girl doing"? as if she was dying of cancer or something - as if Deafness was equal to dying of a brain tumour!!! And when I would say, "Well, she's always out partying up a storm!" they would
look at me as if I was speaking Chinese... they just did NOT get it.
More stupid comments:
1. Does she speak? (she is fluent in ASL,the english is just party tricks)
2. Would an implant help? (NOPE. It failed miserably)
3. Is the implant working yet? (see #2)
4. I know they are doing wonderful things with science... (um, not in her lifetime)
5. So and so's have a relative/friend who finally learned to speak and or hear, maybe...
I mean, my kid... has more friends than anybody has a right to have. She is spoiled ROTTEN. She rides horses! She goes to two parties or more a month! She has boyfriends, and she's only five! Every time she goes out, she
comes home with presents!
I know, I know, I know, these old ladies grew up in a different time, but it makes me INSANE that they think it's okay to try to serve me up a heaping plate of MISERY at CHURCH when we are perfectly HAPPY!
I have moved on from Hearing At All Costs!!! Why can't they??? My child is PERFECT, God does NOT make junk!