How to Stop People from Gossiping?

I used to worry about rumors but then it just added more aggravation in my life. I stopped and then life has been peaceful. I would rather worry about my family and my own self. If people believe the gossip about me and use ti against me, then so be it. I gave up a loooonggg time ago trying to please everyone and get them to like me.

My advice would be *f*** them* and focus on your family and building a good life with them.
 
shel90 said:
I used to worry about rumors but then it just added more aggravation in my life. I stopped and then life has been peaceful. I would rather worry about my family and my own self. If people believe the gossip about me and use ti against me, then so be it. I gave up a loooonggg time ago trying to please everyone and get them to like me.

My advice would be *f*** them* and focus on your family and building a good life with them.
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That's true, and a wise thing to do....but if their property keeps getting damaged, then legal steps will have to be taken, or a restraining order. Sometimes that will put an end to it all, other times it doesn't. Depends upon how much the culprit thinks they can get away with. Am wondering if that's a reason that Sequois wants to move to another state?.....That's a pretty drastic and expensive solution...but sometimes the steps like that have to be taken to get away from some people that are sick and spiteful.
 
Uhhh, no. That's not why I'm moving out of state. I have other reasons, for one...Iowa is so boring and not much to do.
 
rockin'robin said:
That's true, and a wise thing to do....but if their property keeps getting damaged, then legal steps will have to be taken, or a restraining order. Sometimes that will put an end to it all, other times it doesn't. Depends upon how much the culprit thinks they can get away with. Am wondering if that's a reason that Sequois wants to move to another state?.....That's a pretty drastic and expensive solution...but sometimes the steps like that have to be taken to get away from some people that are sick and spiteful.
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True..that's not gossiping. That's stalking and destruction of property. A whole new ball game.
 
I think it is the best thing is to approach this person who you think he started it all but just checking with him if he is aware about the gossip and stuff that you and your gf are suspecting. If he happens to allege that he denies your allegation words against him. Just leave him alone. At least let him know you guys know and thougth or suspect about this situation. let's see if he stops doing it after you guys talk to him. If the words keep spreading out and mess up with your own personal stuff then make report to the cops. If just gossips are still around, just ignore them. True friends will come to you while fake friends would not come to you.

My reputable has been carrying over years and it may not stop. It's all about my wild youth years past that deaf world would not forget but some of them are not true. :giggle: Ironically, i have true friends who still come to me and know who i am is all i care about. But Seriously, anytghing that destroys the property is no joke, and have to report to the cops and let them be aware. maybe nothing work but better to have something information in the police system. =? I am so sorry about your both situation.
 
Frisky Feline said:
I think it is the best thing is to approach this person who you think he started it all but just checking with him if he is aware about the gossip and stuff that you and your gf are suspecting. If he happens to allege that he denies your allegation words against him. Just leave him alone. At least let him know you guys know and thougth or suspect about this situation. let's see if he stops doing it after you guys talk to him. If the words keep spreading out and mess up with your own personal stuff then make report to the cops. If just gossips are still around, just ignore them. True friends will come to you while fake friends would not come to you.

My reputable has been carrying over years and it may not stop. It's all about my wild youth years past that deaf world would not forget but some of them are not true. :giggle: Ironically, i have true friends who still come to me and know who i am is all i care about. But Seriously, anytghing that destroys the property is no joke, and have to report to the cops and let them be aware. maybe nothing work but better to have something information in the police system. =? I am so sorry about your both situation.
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We wouldn't bother because he's the worst guy in the world to deal with. He just enjoys blaming on her, it is not worth our time to deal with him and just move on and keep it quiet.
 
sequoias said:
We wouldn't bother because he's the worst guy in the world to deal with. He just enjoys blaming on her, it is not worth our time to deal with him and just move on and keep it quiet.
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I agree. Hope your gf have several true friends that is important. So that is all matter for now.
 
I always wondered; if people talk about me, but I never hear about it, should it bother me?
 
you can't stop, but you can make sure you have a good story about yourself , choose freinds wisely is a start
 
A good friend told me one time when I confided to her about some rumors that were circulating about me and it was upsetting because they were not true....she said...."everybody talks, even gossips....and whenever they run out of something to gossip about, they'll talk/gossip/start rumors about you"....

People also "assume" too much!
 
Someone I know back in college just love to talk about other people. I realized about if she is telling me about the stuff about other people, she could very well telling other people about me. I decided not to be her friend. Just avoiding her.
 
They are F*& LOSERS!!!!!


Then don't be friend with them again!! :)
 
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