How do you feel if the guest come over.....

i think it is so rude

it did to me once when my family was having dinnner party my ex finacee show up unaccounce and i got embrassed by him rme
 
just don't open the door, just pretend you're not at home.

I did that to my Uncle, everyday he drove to Tunica casino from Germantown and then from Tunica casino to my house in Memphis...

And he claimed that he had to use the bathroom :roll:

I complained to my mom about my Uncle :pissed: , because I
was babysitting my nephew who was a baby, and
I didn't like the way he kept ringing the door bell and
waking up my nephew from his nap :zzz: and I don't
appreciate him using the house as a toliet.

My mom said but it takes him a hour to drive from Tunica to Germantown everyday, and he loves to gamble.

And I told her that there are gas stations and other place that have bathroom, even Walmart got bathroom.

I felt that my Uncle disrespect me and my nephew and my mom wasn't even at home... so now he stopped using bathroom at our house. Whew.
 
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Go and buy this door mat, they will get the message FAAAAAAASSST!!!!!!!!
*chuckle*

Anyway My parents flew all the way from England to surprise me TWICE!!!

It would be better if friends ring me first, sometimes they told me they tried to ring me SMS text messages since I didn't carry mobile phone with me all the time, they gave up and paid a visit to surprise me, I said really have you? I went to check the mobile phone, yes it has 3 or 4 messages left from same guests!!!

Sometimes friends turn up unannouncement from time to time.
 
For families, I don't mind they can come over without call me but sometime they would call me to make sure if I'm at home or not. Because they are my family

For friends, it did happen to me and it drove me crazy for them to come over without call me because I am too busy to clean or do something but they got in my way so I always told them to call or page me to let me know if they can come or not because I think that is kind of rude for them if they come over all the times, but if it is just few times to come to surprise me, its fine!
 
For me, it depends on who they are and why they're here. I live in the dorms. It's common for people to stop by my room cuz it's only a few floors away. However, if I was living in an apartment... I would prefer most visits be announced in advance by email or AIM. I might have a few friends who are welcome to come anytime.
 
since i live new apt, i already told my friends pls pager or IM me on sk2 and ask me before they come to see me cuz of never know i am busy or sick or have plan..
 
DoofusMama said:
I rather to have people call first or ask a day before..
so it give me chance to clean up the mess..
our house always mess everyday.. 6 kids thats why..

whats more.. kids' behavior or outbrust.. or having bad day..

if people often stop by without call or ask.. it ticks me off.
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:lol: same here always messy room urs 6?! mine only 2 :lol: they just like to make pretending like store I was purchasher older daughter cashier, younger daughter packing things in bag, and many, so neat of them! if someone coming unexpected, unfortunately, I would not open the door theres no doorstrob, yeah, i aint gonna to get doorstrob i dont have friends around here nor expect to visit, only on call/email like mother in law to let me know and I will watch out :dunno:
 
in my home country there no tty nor pagers before they usually visit unexpected not bother if none home :aw: but like far away other city comes they used to send a telegram. now my mom and some others got cell phone/SMS I think they same visit unexpected just used to :) my mom has just told me that my good friend left a message on mom's door she was working another job in the evening, i see same time
 
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