How Do We Heal Ourselves?...

May I also add another aspect of this healing? I fell in love with another member from this forum, and moved to this state in order to be with this member. I started a new life and dealt with big changes in my life. It was a majorly life alternating decision to make. However, after a few months, it was evident it was not going to work between us. So, we split up and I moved to another city within the state. We decided to remain friends, however that also did not work out. I had to cut off all my ties from this member in order to heal up better. I really learned a lot about myself and relationships, and decided to move on. Right now, I am with somebody else who I have been very happy with, almost one year anniversary next month! It is ironic how life happens, and things will end up well despite all.

The only thing I have problem with is that there are other members who are so curious about me and this member, so they ask other friends or me about it. I am like it is an old chapter, closed and put aside. I hate it when I am moving on with my life, and people still think about me and this member and want to talk with me about it. Why are they so damn curious about it? I have had strange members asking me out of blue like a year after the split up. It's not that its a sensitive issue to talk about, but the fact that strangers want to know about our relationship? Get a life and stop obessing about other people's past.
 
Umm...When I mentioned about VPO experiences two years ago on other post. It will take me a long time to heal.

It took me two years hid in my home and I was frightened of these deaf community here in OKIE!

The Deaf Lady who loves being troublemaker has already destroyed my reputation. She lied to everyone that I am thief, lies, etc...all of her stories were all the lies! She has poisoned everyone's mind against me.

Sadly, this deaf lady is married and has beautiful home. Yet, she seems not to be satisfied with herself but enjoys to destroy my life for no reason at all! Like I said, its her evildoer!

Sadly, these deafies hasnt met or get to know me.

Anyways, about the healing part, I am seeking counseling. I play computer games and recently bought the playstation 2 so I can play hockey games. I plan to play diablo 2 game on pc computer.

I need start reading books again. One of my goals is that I plan to write a book about my VPO experiences, etc.

Whenever I feel down or depressed, I enjoy painting on the numbers like mountain, water, etc.

I also write journal book to express my feelings and plus I pray to God for helping me to go through alot of hurts.

I believe that God is the only key who heals our hurts.
 
Wow, I know how you feel Kuifje75, It's exactly the same thing with me here, when it comes to others who are sooo curious to know why I and this other member don't get along, I honestly don't know why I got myself into this mess, and no matter how many times I had apologize for something I didn't do to start anything, but this person wouldn't even let it go....It's just sucks and all I can do is ignore that person and move on!...:(



Coloravalanche,

I'm truly sorry you went thru this yourself there, alot of us had our reputation destroyed by troublemakers, but don't let them get to you no matter how big it may be or how much it was spread around in the Deaf community because they're the one who is stupid for believeing everything the others said about you or anyone for that matter!.... :ily:...

I had my reputation destroyed too, it may be because they are so damn jealous or has nothing better to do! .... :mrgreen:
 
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