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DeafMonkey, would u be willing to move to other place like a bit far from your mom?
 
PurrMeow said:
DeafMonkey, would u be willing to move to other place like a bit far from your mom?
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I was but no rides cause I dont have drive license that is plm with it but I am saving my money for trip to Australia. :) .. I can do ingore what my mom controlling me or treat me like a kid :)
 
Aww DeafMonkey :hug: I understand your frustration by wanting to try new things out of this life since you are old enough to be able to with or without your parents permission, some parents can be quite overprotection, I'm the same way too as a mother, I would hate the idea of my children moving out of state because of not being able to see them often as I would like to.....It's hard to make the plans on seeing them when money gets tight, and I would love nothing more but to spend alot of times with them, but also I have to relized that I can not hold onto my children, there are times I have to let them go and be happy where ever they go.... :(


My friends used to say " what your mom doesn't know, won't hurt her "....Even through I don't like hearing that because I'm a mom too and I rather my children telling me things just so I know they're okay... :aw:
 
^Angel^ said:
Aww DeafMonkey :hug: I understand your frustration by wanting to try new things out of this life since you are old enough to be able to with or without your parents permission, some parents can be quite overprotection, I'm the same way too as a mother, I would hate the idea of my children moving out of state because of not being able to see them often as I would like to.....It's hard to make the plans on seeing them when money gets tight, and I would love nothing more but to spend alot of times with them, but also I have to relized that I can not hold onto my children, there are times I have to let them go and be happy where ever they go.... :(


My friends used to say " what your mom doesn't know, won't hurt her "....Even through I don't like hearing that because I'm a mom too and I rather my children telling me things just so I know they're okay... :aw:
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yea i agree with u... true... when my god daughter get older so i cant do anything with her and let her go what she wanna go...
 
PurrMeow said:
Oh I see alrite.. ARe you trying to escape from your mother heh? JK
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nods I did escape from my mom when I was 17 yrs old hahah but I came back home no fun!
 
^Angel^ said:
Aww DeafMonkey :hug: I understand your frustration by wanting to try new things out of this life since you are old enough to be able to with or without your parents permission, some parents can be quite overprotection, I'm the same way too as a mother, I would hate the idea of my children moving out of state because of not being able to see them often as I would like to.....It's hard to make the plans on seeing them when money gets tight, and I would love nothing more but to spend alot of times with them, but also I have to relized that I can not hold onto my children, there are times I have to let them go and be happy where ever they go.... :(


My friends used to say " what your mom doesn't know, won't hurt her "....Even through I don't like hearing that because I'm a mom too and I rather my children telling me things just so I know they're okay... :aw:
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yeah when I have my own kids when they are older and I had to let them go cant do anything to contol them which said no you cant, you have to stay close to my home , won't let them go when if they are older .. it cant do anyghint like nothing can stop them. Have to accept when they are older. Something like that
 
DeafMonkey said:
nods I did escape from my mom when I was 17 yrs old hahah but I came back home no fun!
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AWWW well girl, psssttt u know why not try to move down south like Florida to drool men dancing heh??
 
GalaxyAngel said:
Liebling,

She doesn't want living w/her mother reason her mother kept contuine controlling her all the time and what she wants... DMonkey doesn't want dragging along her mother all the time what she wants for her.. She is Adult mature enough why necessary let her mother want her ... Oh tha... Oh tha... err no no you can't have... YOu can't have.. blah balh.. so many issues for her emotions unhappy not really good stable since. I'm very totally understand how much she felt that way.. Her dreams what she really her choice for course and other things nobody control her... Espically rest of her siblings are freed but not her.. She is 25 yrs old.. Excuse me, She can handle herself anything what she like to go....
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Yes of course I know... I tried to explain Cheri in my post how difference between parent´s rule and overprotected parents...

Brian misunderstand DeafMonkey´s post... I explained him that DeafMonkey said in her previous post that she wish to live with her mother but she CAN´T because of her overprotection way that´s why she rather to live by her own...
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Yes of course I know... I tried to explain Cheri in my post how difference between parent´s rule and overprotected parents...

Brian misunderstand DeafMonkey´s post... I explained him that DeafMonkey said in her previous post that she wish to live with her mother but she CAN´T because of her overprotection way that´s why she rather to live by her own...
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Liebling,

Ahhh Okay.. That explain.... Thx for your time..
 
GalaxyAngel said:
:squint:~ wha... so funny?
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haha I dunno why I giggles for no reasons.. cause your said " ahhh okay" almost like a expression face. Libleing was just try to explian to Cheri

sorry :angel: not :nana: devil lol :lol:
 
Take it from me, if your mother ever meets this counseller the liklihood of her saying you have a mental illness is 95%, because it's your problem and you can't handle it.

Seriously, the Deaf and Mental Illness Boards have some stock with each other!

This does happen to many people, and even if your parents can't handle the fact that your deaf and are disabled by corporations, others, etc......or if they are ashamed of you, it always comes down to being your fault.

My experience, but don't buy any of it!, because none of that crap is real! What's real is what you feel, and what you know!
 
Take it from me, if your mother ever meets this counseller the liklihood of her saying you have a mental illness is 95%, because it's your problem and you can't handle it.

Seriously, the Deaf and Mental Illness Boards have some stock with each other!

This does happen to many people, and even if your parents can't handle the fact that your deaf and are disabled by corporations, others, etc......or if they are ashamed of you, it always comes down to being your fault.

My experience, but don't buy any of it!, because none of that crap is real! What's real is what you feel, and what you know! The counsellers get their pay from gov't contracts, so they legally have to pertain or work according to the contracts, it's all hogus bogus.
 
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