How can I better understand what some of you say?

Now that's something I'd like to try someday... a long-term relationship before getting hitched, as they call it.
 
It wasn't until I was 31 that I finally got a long term relationship. I'm 36 now and not involved with anyone as of the moment.
 
I know a woman who renewed her relationship with a high school classmate. Not sure of details but somehow they were re-connected through the woman's adult daughter. This woman is in her mid-90's and she is dating her school friend from so long ago and having a great time, she always looks so excited and animated when she talks about him. They have also been traveling together. :D
 
Now that's a story worth posting. Hopefully I'll find my match, and be as excited as that.
 
Hi! Would you be willing to watch three videos of sign and say what concepts you think are being displayed? Sort of related to misinterpreting, as that's what my project is on!
 
Hmm. Gotta think about that, but I CAN tell you that right now I don't have the time, cause I have a lot to do. Contact me again after Christmas, and hopefully I'll have a firm answer for you.
 
You are all so positive :) I'm irradiated with sunshine every time I am on this forum haha.

markengland29 said:
I recently misinterpreted something someone said, because I saw it differently, and I suppose I shouldn't have jumped the gun, but it's done.
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I feel you man. I also misinterpret things; my girlfriend broke up with me over a silly argument I started (this happened in the last few days). Many people, me included, are prone to jumping to the wrong conclusions. Don't worry about it-- just keep trying to improve and you definitely will :)
 
Thanks. That's exactly why I'm not ready to date a woman just yet-- until I know the person better and won't be jumping to conclusions and ending up in a fight and/or domestic dispute, and mind you-- I'm not a fighter, but if threatened, I'm not afraid defend myself or any woman I may be with by any means necessary.
 
markengland29 said:
Thanks. That's exactly why I'm not ready to date a woman just yet-- until I know the person better and won't be jumping to conclusions and ending up in a fight and/or domestic dispute, and mind you-- I'm not a fighter, but if threatened, I'm not afraid defend myself or any woman I may be with by any means necessary.
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I'm sorry, I didn't mean to discourage you. I am very inexperienced when it comes to women; I just don't understand the way women think. I am trying to synchronize my brain waves so to speak-- to connect with them better.

Women generally don't come to you. You need to approach them. If you find a girl you like, say hi to her, try to strike up a conversation, and at the peak of the conversation (if she appears to be having fun), get her number, and most importantly walk away. Text her later and ask her out. :D
 
I was 21 when I lost my virginity, 25 when my daughter was born. I didn't wait til I was married but I did marry her mother. But she wasn't my first, think she was my 3rd or 4th? lol
Anyways, try it before you buy it, They are not the same....lol
You got those quiet ones who are a Tiger in the bedroom, the Loud obnoxious ones who are a dead fish, and then there is that private one that doesn't share anything...
and will fool you as well. Have fun, you live once, enjoy it. You may be healthy as can be, but that's not going to stop the bus from hitting you.
 
I'm almost 30, and haven't yet lost MY VCard, and until I find the right woman to do that to, I'll keep it as is.
 
Thumbs down BIG TIME. Women are not the owners of men... they are men's soulmates, and if they have the men's kids, they are their equals in terms of parenting.
 
markengland29 said:
Thanks. That's exactly why I'm not ready to date a woman just yet-- until I know the person better and won't be jumping to conclusions and ending up in a fight and/or domestic dispute, and mind you-- I'm not a fighter, but if threatened, I'm not afraid defend myself or any woman I may be with by any means necessary.
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If in doubt about what someone means, ask.

BTW, it's a huge leap from misunderstanding someone to "ending up in a fight and/or domestic dispute." I'd be concerned if you think a simple misunderstanding might require you to fight and defend yourself.
 
It is all about trust in the relationship and letting the woman and man be individuals in their own rights. We all get misunderstanding what we think or assume what the other person said. That is life. :(
 
It's not me I'm worried about fighting a woman-- I would never lay hands on one. It's more of a disgruntled ex-husband or an ex-boyfriend that concerns me.
 
Yes, it is life, but if I want to be in a relationship with a woman, I'd rather it be harmonious, and happy.
 
markengland29 said:
Yes, it is life, but if I want to be in a relationship with a woman, I'd rather it be harmonious, and happy.
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Being in a relationship is not that easy. You have to have two heads to make the relationship or marriage work so that you both can have happy or sad relationship. In the relationship is never perfect and harmony. Most men claim that men have to listen to their spouses and they will stay in the relationship for many years. Make sense, eh? :P
 
Yeah, kind of. Still not quite sure how to pick up a nice woman, but I'll say this, though-- there won't be any one-night stands and then finding out 3 weeks later the woman is preggers with the child.
 
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