Home Foreclosure Leads To Suicide

So Sad!! 2 to 3 years I will selling my big house *Country to smaller house at near City :D cuz mostly I am worry about Oil price :squint: Also I am single mom with huge house now .. Ouch! LOL

The market is very bad right now. I would wait few more years later then the market becomes better then I may sell my condo because I can't continue to work two jobs to pay the mortgage, condo fee, tax and insurance.

I really want to enjoy my life. Life is such short !
 
Has the forensic investigation proven that the woman shot herself? It's hard to shoot oneself with a long gun. Not impossible, but difficult. Do the husband and son have solide alibis? How do they know that the situation wasn't the opposite? Perhaps it was the husband who kept the mortgage default secret from his wife, then she found out and confronted him. Then, he shot her. After all, none of her friends or family report the woman discussing the problem with them. Also, she had scheduled repairs for the house. Why would she do that if she knew they were losing the house?

I'm curious to see a follow up report on this.
 
Good Point Reba....

Has the forensic investigation proven that the woman shot herself? It's hard to shoot oneself with a long gun. Not impossible, but difficult. Do the husband and son have solide alibis? How do they know that the situation wasn't the opposite? Perhaps it was the husband who kept the mortgage default secret from his wife, then she found out and confronted him. Then, he shot her. After all, none of her friends or family report the woman discussing the problem with them. Also, she had scheduled repairs for the house. Why would she do that if she knew they were losing the house?

I'm curious to see a follow up report on this.
 
Has the forensic investigation proven that the woman shot herself? It's hard to shoot oneself with a long gun. Not impossible, but difficult. Do the husband and son have solide alibis? How do they know that the situation wasn't the opposite? Perhaps it was the husband who kept the mortgage default secret from his wife, then she found out and confronted him. Then, he shot her. After all, none of her friends or family report the woman discussing the problem with them. Also, she had scheduled repairs for the house. Why would she do that if she knew they were losing the house?

I'm curious to see a follow up report on this.

Does life insurance cover suicide?
 
It is not my friend...general people. :) Yea...some have kids, and needed money to feed the kids and clothes too.

We put house on 1st on the bill to be paid every month. Then electric/gas then everything go last.

Oh wow, I can understand how much your friend is very angry and frustrate with the bank. Most bank apparently do not care what other people work very hard to pay the bills on time for many years then got lay off job or become serious sick as disability. They cant afford to pay the mortgage, food, oil heat, etc... It is very scared for anyone, it can happen to anyone.
 
Has the forensic investigation proven that the woman shot herself? It's hard to shoot oneself with a long gun. Not impossible, but difficult. I'm curious to see a follow up report on this.

We really need to hire hime, Matlock Attorney to do investigate.

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It is not my friend...general people. :) Yea...some have kids, and needed money to feed the kids and clothes too.

We put house on 1st on the bill to be paid every month. Then electric/gas then everything go last.

Yes, absolutely the mortgage is the top IMPORTANT bill than anything else !
 
IN America, no. I believe not. Only by accident, died to some reason, etc..not by suicide.

It's an exactly point why I questioned about.

Here in Germany - No... only accidents, illness, etc.
 
I don't think hubby killed his wife because wife told them that she is going to die?

Accord the article written that wife take care everything ... She haven't pay for long 24 months... It look like that wife used credit cards senseless ?

I guess that she killed herself to avoid her hubby's reaction after learn that they foreclosed on her house that day after wait for long 24 months via fax... It look like that hubby has no clue what and how wife did for long 24 months? She don't know how to face her hubby on this issues?

I personally don't understand why hubby let his wife take care everything which it suppose be for both to check each other what's going on on the financial issues?
 
The market is very bad right now. I would wait few more years later then the market becomes better then I may sell my condo because I can't continue to work two jobs to pay the mortgage, condo fee, tax and insurance.

I really want to enjoy my life. Life is such short !


:gpost:!!


Reason... I am staying here! Bec My 3 years old daughter continues speech therapy! So I am not ready to put my house market now!

Its heartbreaking to me that my horse and two ponies will be on sale a market soon because no way for me afford to boarding them while I will be buying a small house near Big City!

So Now I am cleaning up my things to selling. Next year removes the pasture to become the grass yard .. Make it looking good and selling some furnitures and farm machines. Then waiting for the house market is good then selling it!

Yep life is sucking short!
 
I'll butt in and answer some of your questions. Yes mortgage is a loan for home. Cost of land/property/per acre varies, depending on where you live.


It depends on the contract you signed with the loaner. It's usually over 10+ years. It's not surprising to pay mortgage for more than 20 years. However - the longer you pay, the more interest you're paying.


well it depends on interest rate, your credit history, # of payments, and terms of agreement with your loaner. There are bunch of terms like fixed rate, varied, etc. Deaf Mortgage will explain this better.

Mortgage term could be more as 30 years, some are 50 years, also interest rate for 30 years term aren't really bad, just depends on mortgage companies.

I just got learned from my parent and some of my families.
 
jiro123 did good job explaining. Kudo to jiro123.

Ok... I am adding few of my answers in simple forms. I have PM you for videophone one on one discussion in pure ASL. Its much easier to explain in ASL.

Read below for my answers in red. Remember this apply to USA. I do not know outside of USA's law and how they do their mortgage. Only in USA for now.

Hmm - to Deaf Mortgage, a question.

Um, a mortgage is a loan, right? How much, exactly, does land and property cost per acre?

Mortgage is form of a loan. Known mostly as home loan.

Well - each city, state have prices based on demand and popularity that people want to buy. If high demand, house price is higher, if the demand is low, naturally price will be lower. Each city will determine how much property tax based on size of acre house is attached to. In suburban, 1/4 acres or less is common with property tax a year $3,000. Depend on where. If outside in rural, property tax tend to be cheaper as $1,000 a year.

To determine how much property worth, you need to talk to Real Estate Agent. You can look up at this link Affiliates || Deaf Mortgage.net. The link will give you affiliated Realtors that work with deaf in fluent ASL.

But first - check with Mortgage banker or broker to determine your credit score worthy, income, and budget to determine how much mortgage loan you can afford then you can search with Realtor. It much easier to determine if you can afford a property before contact a Realtor.


How long until the mortgage is paid off? Does the monthly house payments make up the total of the house price itself? I remember my mom telling me something abt interest.

Mortgage has various loan terms. It can be 10 years to 30 years. Some lenders permit 40 or 50 years. I recommend stay away from 40 or 50 years mortgage because in some way it hurts your credit score. Most popular term is 30 years because of affordability and does excellent improvement on your credit score. Credit history and worthiness will determine your interest. If you have below credit score (FISCO) of 580, you will not get a home. Must have at least 580 FISCO to qualify. I recall I created a thread about how to dispute credit mistakes and how credit score works.


Let's use an example of a house costing 100,000 dollars. Use that example to answer my questions. Then tell me the grand total of, well everything lol - house, land/property, and mortgage loans, plus interest and then divide that to per-month payments.

Again - depend on where the property is. Property tax, house insurance, interest rate, and house associate fee (condo/townhome have associate fee). There are many factors that determine what the monthly payment looks like. You could buy a condo for $100,000 with 350 associate fee monthly. Same budget would be for $150,000 town home with 150 associate fee. Same budget for 175,000 single family home with no associate fee. There are so many factors to consider.

Maybe you would consider taking some home ownership workshop in order to determine what factors to consider before buying a home. Soon - DFEC will cover workshop. It supposed to launch DFEC by 4th quarter of 2008 then workshops in 2009. We havent determine how we will reach out the workshop. Maybe at Deaf Nation Expo or ASL Expo to at least offer the services of workshop. Its a huge project for DFEC to work on.


If you can take the time to explain clearly for me to fully get it, I'd appreciate it.

I am available for videophone appointment for anyone to understand how mortgage really works.
 
The market is very bad right now. I would wait few more years later then the market becomes better then I may sell my condo because I can't continue to work two jobs to pay the mortgage, condo fee, tax and insurance.

I really want to enjoy my life. Life is such short !

Yup, it went bad since 2-3 years right now, I'm expected that mortgage and real estate will recovery in around 2010, just my prediction.

I'm sorry if you have hard time with like that.
 
Kudo to you for explaining few things. Adding few to clarify.


It depends on the contract you signed with the loaner. It's usually over 10+ years. It's not surprising to pay mortgage for more than 20 years. However - the longer you pay, the more interest you're paying.

Traditional loan starts at 30 years and fixed interest rate. That is best traditional loan. 15, 20 are excellent but higher payment. If borrower can afford higher payment, then will do it. If cannot, 30 years.

well it depends on interest rate, your credit history, # of payments, and terms of agreement with your loaner. There are bunch of terms like fixed rate, varied, etc. Deaf Mortgage will explain this better.

Best to have Fixed interest rate because it stay the same interest rate from beginning to end of term the loan stated. ARM (Adjustable Rate Mortgage) interest will only stay fixed for few years then rest of the term adjustable accord to market. Only recommend this if plan to live in home less than 7 years. Or bad credit and need to rebuild credit back to in order qualify for 30 years. Often happens in refinance. I will not issue ARM if purchase home.
 
I just went :dizzy: after reading your post, DM but yea that's how it is with mortgage. This requires a fundamental understanding of this stuff and a serious planning before you do it. Even though mortgage is considered as a safe and stable loan (not subjected to volatile interest rates) compared to other types of loans.... it's very easy to get screwed by it. If you miss one payment or late to pay... you're in trouble and your credit history will get a punch in the gut. Another missed/late payment... you're screwed and your interest rate will skyrocket and your credit history is shit.
 
Mortgage term could be more as 30 years, some are 50 years, also interest rate for 30 years term aren't really bad, just depends on mortgage companies.

I just got learned from my parent and some of my families.

Anything over 30 years is a bad idea. It will hurt your credit score. Do not get a loan 40 or 50. That is for refinance to get out of trouble and lower monthly payment. I havent used this option.

We do know programs for refinance out of ARM and if loan is greater than house value. Depend on the situation of ARM after reset the interest.
 
Anything over 30 years is a bad idea. It will hurt your credit score. Do not get a loan 40 or 50. That is for refinance to get out of trouble and lower monthly payment. I havent used this option.

We do know programs for refinance out of ARM and if loan is greater than house value. Depend on the situation of ARM after reset the interest.

good to know for future time! If my loaner offers me something beyond 30 years, I'll say :nono:
 
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