Not only have I - I also have the ringtone WOOT!
As for a guy on guy music, look up Girl, I F&*%ed Your Boyfriend. I forget who sings it, but it was listed under Gay Pride Music on iTunes when I was looking up Darren Hayes stuff.
But the hard part for women is discerning the gays by the following:
Bisexual
lipstick lesbian (easily passes for straight)
tomboy - boyish but has no real desire for a same sex relationship.
and all out dyke - plays the man role in the relationships.At one time this girl at work worked alongside me and the more I looked at her and talked to her I saw a reflection of myself in her. I thought my god this could be it! This could be the one. Then poof one day she was gone.
I think even though she already had a mate there was an interest in me as well as I am sure she saw a bit of herself in me as well.
Then another time I was training this other girl, she was OK looking but too young for my standards so I never pushed the subject. Turns out she had quite a crush on me, I even got told I was cute and funny.
For some odd reason there is this handful of GLBT at work but yet they never actually associate with eacher other while there and they never openly admit it as a group. But two or three out of the bunch will independently openly admit their homosexuality.
My philosophy is, the longer you live with one foot in the closet, the harder it is going to be to open up as people get to know you and expect you to be straight when in fact you are not.