Gossiping doesn't belong here!

Mookie said:
Don't you know that there are lots of juicy rumors in AD?

Always check on Blondies' posts...
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Pardon me?...
 
I think it is stupid when people are inspired by me and they gossiped about me at the same time.

If you know someone who is gossiping, tell them to get the fyck out of your life.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
I think it is stupid when people are inspired by me and they gossiped about me at the same time.

If you know someone who is gossiping, tell them to get the fyck out of your life.
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You may not have started the rumor. However you started to mention something oddly then people spreaded quickly about your comments....
 
I can't help being who I am or saying thing I wanna say.
That is why I want friends who don't gossip, so I can express myself.
It is so stupid to make sure I don't say or do anything to cause attention.
That is why I stay at home most of the time, because I'm so sick and tired of immature people keep gossiping, because they don't have a fycking life.
They need to get a life.
Keep their dumb nose out of my business.

I hate people.

Because when my mom invites guests over they would stare at me and they heard all the bad stuff about me... And focus only on that....
And when I told them I went on hawaii cruise, graduate from college, and all...
They were shocked and jealous.

Gossipers end up alone.... They don't have friends.
 
My whole family gossips about each other all of the time but it's nothing bad. :)
 
But there are people who want to use gossip as a weapon and see to that people be afraid to be around you.
Even though it doesn't work....

Somebody gossip about me and try to destroy my life and see to that I don't get friends. I was trying to figure out why people won't leave me alone, I ended up with many friends trying to help me.
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racheleggert said:
I am tired of hearing gossiping here.... sometimes I don't know who some people are talking about.....

If you want to :gossip: go to your nearby deaf club..... Thats why I barely go to deaf community events.

Dear Gossipers:
HAUL YOUR ASS TO NEARBY DEAF CLUB!!!!!! ALLDEAF ISN'T A RUMOR MILL OR RIGHT PLACE TO RUMOR!!! YOU ARE SEEKING ATTENTION AND LOVE TO RUIN PEOPLE'S REPUATION. THAT IS SO IMMATURE!!!!

to ones who don't gossip, I don't mean to post but I want to send message to gossipers. I agree with people that AD is not right place to gossip or rumor about people that we all may not know or haven't met before.
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Hi Rachel, I agree with you, some ppls "Gossiping around" isn't good for insulting on ppls, simple ignore gossipers, too many young ppls just idoit and lame gossiping around should be thrown into mental wards to stop gossiping around.

I don't trust any gossipers at all and just ignore them.
 
Gossipers will always be gossipers no matter what.... It's the path they choose and it's a sad life really. Simply choose the friend you want to be wit and stay with them. To talk to the gossipers, avoid any conversation about urself, try to talk about today weather even or what happened on tv last night. I do that all the time 'cause i come across alot of gossipers tryin to get juice out of me. Bad luck. Not gettin them out of me.
 
Cheri said:
Rumors happen every where, no matter where you go, there always going to be people talking about you, or anyone else for all that matters. I've had some people trying to ruin my reputation, If others want to believe it, then it's up to them. I am not going to waste my time trying to clear my name. I know who I am, and my real friends know who I am, that's all I care about, If people want to live on gossip and rumors, let it be, They're the ones who are acting immature.


I wouldnt let it bother me, and you shouldn't either. Be proud of who you are and what you became. ;)
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:applause: :applause: AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :hug: :hug: :ily: girlfriend!!! Good statement Cheri, everything you have said is true!!! You know who you are is right, I definitely know who you are :angel: !!! Gossiping hurts, it can lower self-esteem, and it can destroy friendships.

Last week, a deaf man, who goes to the same deaf church I go to, went to where my husband works, and told my husband I am having an affair with another man. My husband was so upset, he paged me on the SK2 let me know he was coming home, that he had something to tell me. When he told me what this guy said, we immediately called our priest who is deaf also, and had a nice long talk with him. All in all, our priest told us exactly what Cheri said in her posting!!! That we regard it as gossip, someone who is looking to make some trouble in our life, and we are to just say "thank you for the information, I am working now, this isn't the right time to be discussing this" . This way it doesn't provoke the person that has started the gossip. So that is what I am doing, just ignoring this guy, but, I did ask the priest to have this man keep his distance from my husband and I. Which he did politely. What we have to do to keep peace and harmony amongst all of us!! :roll:
 
CODAchild said:
:applause: :applause: AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :hug: :hug: :ily: girlfriend!!! Good statement Cheri, everything you have said is true!!! You know who you are is right, I definitely know who you are :angel: !!! Gossiping hurts, it can lower self-esteem, and it can destroy friendships.

Last week, a deaf man, who goes to the same deaf church I go to, went to where my husband works, and told my husband I am having an affair with another man. My husband was so upset, he paged me on the SK2 let me know he was coming home, that he had something to tell me. When he told me what this guy said, we immediately called our priest who is deaf also, and had a nice long talk with him. All in all, our priest told us exactly what Cheri said in her posting!!! That we regard it as gossip, someone who is looking to make some trouble in our life, and we are to just say "thank you for the information, I am working now, this isn't the right time to be discussing this" . This way it doesn't provoke the person that has started the gossip. So that is what I am doing, just ignoring this guy, but, I did ask the priest to have this man keep his distance from my husband and I. Which he did politely. What we have to do to keep peace and harmony amongst all of us!! :roll:
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With mr Cooney ?? :jaw: rub on his jock and picky from his nose :lol:

I did not heard anything about you or Manny.
 
Mookie said:
huh oh...(rans away..................................
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Where do you think you're going?....U have nowhere to go anyways! :smoking:
 
^Angel^ said:
Where do you think you're going?....U have nowhere to go anyways! :smoking:
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Hey! I'm blonde too. I say you, me, and cheri round 'im up and give Mookie a good :whip:
 
Yup, believe it or not same in hearing world! Deafies and hearies are no different when it comes to gossip! If you want to avoid gossip, move to either New York City, or Los Angeles! There is too many people living there so gossip wont matter much compare to small town like Truckee, California or Old Forge, New Yawk! Any small town, hearies tend to gossip! There is gossip mill in every bars, townhall, even churches too!
ANyway, I hate gossip anyway...

Cheri said:
Rumors happen every where, no matter where you go, there always going to be people talking about you, or anyone else for all that matters. I've had some people trying to ruin my reputation, If others want to believe it, then it's up to them. I am not going to waste my time trying to clear my name. I know who I am, and my real friends know who I am, that's all I care about, If people want to live on gossip and rumors, let it be, They're the ones who are acting immature.


I wouldnt let it bother me, and you shouldn't either. Be proud of who you are and what you became. ;)
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That's why I live in Seattle! Gossip doesn't go very far in big cities! :P
 
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