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I DUMPED JOE!!!

Things went too far... you can read my blog on myspace what happened recently... so I had to dump Joe on wed night vis text message, and then came to my house thurs, and I explained to him all reasons I had to dump him... YAYYYY!!!! I am sooo HAPPY!! No more weight on my shoulder to be a babysitter.... He acts like 5 years old running out in middle of Mayor Chris Coleman's Inaguration ceremony.. **face become red**..

He also have more disorders like ADD/ADHD, EBD, OCD/ODD, PDD, Autism, and few other disorders that causes him to have not good social skills.. he also lacks living skills, and I do think he need to live at a group home.... Other reason I dont want to take advantage of him, and he is more uvenable (sp?) adult than me.. I only have deaf and blind, and I have high functioning living skills such as cooking, laundry, what many people would do. How can I commit him to go to group home?
 
Oh God . that very NEGATIVE things to say about him . what on earth matter with some of people..
 
I just let ya know what his problems is lately... that just I believe that he is more suitable for group home. whatever I write on myspace is my own blog, and what my life is like... Believe me that I am free, and much weightless, and none are on my shoulder.... so I don't have to be a "babysitter" for 20 years old who acts like 5 years old... that relationship was good at first, but as it progressed, and things turned bad, and found out the truth of Joe, which I tought that I knew him well in HS but it turned out I didn't until recently... I am sorry if my message is very offending but that how I can express my feelings and opinions.. what happened to 1st amendment??
 
Rachel I'm happy for you!! I have dumped guys before who were very immature & rude & some mean & it feels so good to have them out of your life once you have broken up with them!!

It is to me sort of like having weight lifted off you that you didn't know was even there! It is not an easy decision to make ever though but it is worth it.

You sound like you feel so much better so I am happy for you!! The last guy I broke up was because he was an idiot & being really mean. I dont think you were being mean in your post above I think you were honest & that is good.

So even though I am new here I saw your post about what he did to you & your sister & your decision sounds very wise I think!
 
Oh yeah and when I broke up with Aaron I posted a whole blog about him. It wasn't very nice but I was venting and sometimes it helps to get out your sadness & frustration that way. Probably I said things I shouldn't have said in it about him smelling bad and not looking good while wearing shorts. It was funny but not that nice but that is part of life. He was mean!!

I don't think Rachel is mean!! And anyway I think her boyfriend sounds like a group home might be good idea.
 
U made a right decision to dump him cuz u feel weight off and feel better.
 
Rachel,

I understand totally about your break up with him, and how you been through a lot with him. You did what your heart feels right at place. I'm glad to see that you're happy which that is very important is your happiness and everyone else too. Sometimes two people aren't meant to be. Take your time in finding someone you would want to share your life with. Hope you'll get a better chance at relationship next time. ;)
 
I want to say I'm sorry that things didn't work out for both of you. Remember I said I trusted your judgement? I knew you would. You did it for your own good. Don't do anything with this man because you'll get into more trouble than you've already had with this man. Eventually he'll figure it out or someone else will take care of him. I'm glad that you are ok. :thumb:
 
:angel: Rachel, I am so sorry about you and Joe, but, you had to do what your heart told you to do. Life is not easy at times, but, we have to do what is right for us, and move on. Just pray that God will be there for Joe to help him along those hard roads, so he can pick himself up and move on. I hope that you will find peace in your life, and focus on you right now and your work, and the rest will work itself out later.

God Bless and good luck for a new life. :angel:
 
Ahh.. Now you've felt much much better totally "I've dumped him" really huge annocement!

Pretty ironic first time I've heard you spoke here!

*hmmm* Impressive, what you did figures and work hard! By the way, congrats to you..
Now.. Take your time and slow down until when r u ready date another guy..
Wishes you have great luck!
Take care...
 
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