For those who are fatherless (don't have a father)

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Whoever don't have a father in life-
What do you wish to do with if your father have been existed?

I havew always wish that I could do things with my birth father but he chose not to be in my life....... So let it be that because I already found someone else.....
 
racheleggert said:
Whoever don't have a father in life-
What do you wish to do with if your father have been existed?

I havew always wish that I could do things with my birth father but he chose not to be in my life....... So let it be that because I already found someone else.....
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I grew up not having known my biological father. He abandoned my Mother and I when I was 6 mos old. Years later, we found out he had died. As to the question, I don't know what I would've wanted from him. I had a father figure in my life, so the need for a "daddy" wasn't there. In my mind, I already had a daddy. I suppose I just wanted to satisfy curiousity as to what my bio father looked like.

:dunno: I really have no idea.
 
Honestly, I was born in the world to my mother without father.. Since my mother won't tell me everything about my real natural father who he is whenever I grew up.. I realized that my mother kept her serect herself and she kept me away from my father's family side... that's how she is in her way.. Yes I angry at my mother since she and I are not close eachothers since i was born. But I have no worry nor stress over that situation.. why should case after my biologcial father? No, because I don't feel being a VICTIM anymore..Simply as let their life go, meanwhile I wanted to move on my life with new chapter everyday! I aint compliant about my natural father who being fatheless to me whole life.. let it go!, I am being A MAN and REPONSBILE of childern! I am glad that being father to my sons. I forbiden me throw sons away from my whole life!. I dont want them become fatherless when they grow up.. I am happy and my sons are happy about being not become fatherless or childless eachothers.. Because my childern love and thinking of me their father as long as I love them and thinkng of childern on my mind around everyday! NO ONE CAN APART ME AND MY CHILDERN INTO PIECE!
 
Yeah, I wish my dad stay alive and see all the grandchildren.. :D

Happy Daddy's day ... :ily:
 
Happy Father's Day..
As my son who does not have father since he s adopted by me. His real parents are decesed (by killed). I am not trying to find someone to replace for my son. I am always there for him no matter what happen. I am between father/mother since I am raising him myself since he came into my life after I adopted.
 
There be more kids without a father thanks to george bush who keeping the military in iraq!
 
ravensteve1961 said:
There be more kids without a father thanks to george bush who keeping the military in iraq!
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Eh, yeah...

True.

But, lets not inject politics into this. You'll derail the thread.
 
Since my father died when I was young I never really got to know him. I have a step father that's more like a real father and he's even better than I could ever ask for but I still feel a little empty inside. I always wonder what my real father was like and if I'm just like him or not. It's always nice to remember that I'm not the only one out there in this position.
 
My dad passed away two years ago due to heart failure. Age 81. I do missed him very much. Feel empty inside. He was a wonderful provider for my family. Good memorizes. I love you, dad.
 
I don't feel alike celerbate for my adopt Dad who did abused me horrible.. should I say Happy Father's day.. Hell bastard! I disowed him since 20 years from now..

I would love to celebrate for my birth Dad and want to have him know that he has wonderful 3 grand-children here.. I'll pray you could change your heart and goes out for our family reunion soon. I love you...

I give my husband all the best father's Day... which my 3 children are celebrate and wonderful gift to my husband "Poker Games". Pretty cool.
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I'm sorry if this kind of kills the mood of the thread, but I have nothing to positive to say of my father. He is a horrible person, and was never there for me when I was growing up. I owe so much to my mother for supporting me and putting me first above all, when my dad left. To me, my mom deserves another Mother's Day.
 
cental34 said:
I'm sorry if this kind of kills the mood of the thread, but I have nothing to positive to say of my father. He is a horrible person, and was never there for me when I was growing up. I owe so much to my mother for supporting me and putting me first above all, when my dad left. To me, my mom deserves another Mother's Day.
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I agree with central34. My father disappeared from the picture when I was few months old. It's good, really. Mum did the best she could do under the circumstances despite many great stress, but she did it! :)
I did have a surrogate father of a sort when mother became involved with this guy. They're not together anymore. But he still makes the time to take me out and stuff, which is nice.

I consider myself quite lucky.
 
My son went to his girlfriend's Uncle yesterday. They had BBQ party for the Father's Day. It is very hard for him to see those families have the fathers to celebration "Happy Father's Day".

He disowned his father since December 1999. It will be adjust for him to have a new step-father, American Chopper.

By the way, Happy Father's Day !! I missed to see my Dad yesterday. I had to work from 9am to 10pm Saturday and Sunday. :( Hope, my Dad loves my greeting card.
 
My dad died in year 2000, and he may not be the best dad in the world, but he did be there for me, sometimes. Better than no dad at all.
 
My Dad left when I was almost 5 yrs old and then one day I had a talk with his daughter from his 3rd wife. It was so nice to chat with them on the phone but never with my Dad. I found out that he dont like my family so that is why he left. Then one day I had a chatted with him on the phone it was so strange cuz I dont know him well but knowing that he does loves me. After that no contact but just moving on with my life and making sure that my son do have a father in his life with his Dad. I dont want him to have no father since I dont understand what Father is all about.
 
Ok for those newbies- I already posted about my "father" months ago. You can find it at http://alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=13457

I even don't bother to call my birth father at all yesterday, spent time swimming with my family in backyard pool instead. I wish my "father" would join us but he is in alaska til today and hopefully he come back tomorrow to Capitol or whatever they have going on.. I really miss him. Last time I saw him was June 8th... After I left the Capitol I cried abit because it was past 6 months we got to bond more well, and to know eachother more well-it was emtional (?) one. We would sit together in committee meetings, walked around the Capitol, sometimes have meal together, was there for me on my 1st day of job, great listener because if I have problens, I would talk about anything to him even personal issues. He also always make me LOL, I really miss him.. I pray that he's ok because when they had possibible tusmani, I got so worried... I will have to get more new pics of him...
 
my dad've left us when my mom got remarried and thinks that my stepfather is way better than he is but he's dead wrong...my stepfather is much worse and is much of an bigger asshole in the house so just now we are seperated from him since he has a violent temper and attacked my brother awhile ago so my mom's going through another divorce and is going to be very difficult for my mom...my mom's a very good woman and I love her very much as one of the best mothers anyone would ask for, but she keeps finding the wrong people in her life. I would never understand why such guys like my dad and stepfather always get drunk and smoke and bitch so much when they get mad so easily about pointless shit? anyway, I just know we are way better off without my dad or my stepfather and I don't think I would want to carry on their stupid legancy or whatever, because I'm myself and just like to be myself..nobody else.


so...fuck all those deadbeat self obsessed cold hearted bastards who aren't even meant to be fathers straight to hell.
 
i found my birth dad abt 4 yrs ago. and met him a yr ago, to this day well, we never got close cuz his gf of 13 yrs was interfering with us, my half brother and sister also was angry at thier * step mom* for taking him to fla. to live, he lost his dream home as he was forced to sell his home just so she can go and help her family, and to this day we all ( my half siblings) feel that Dad should not have to give up a dream like that. now to this day we have not heard from him, only maybe breifly as i talked with my Half brother and since then we haven't heard much, they changed e mail addresses and etc. which made me wonder what was going on. but still i say happy father's day to him cuz he made an effort to meet me as well as apologised for not being there over the yrs. but he never forgot me.

but i have a current Step Dad and has been a great man to meet with over the yrs. :)

love u Dad :)
 
i dont care and i moved on being fatherless. single moms does the father job.. :o
single mom rocks! :thumb:

i will only wished that i could know more about my father's background and histories...
 
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