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_xShipwreckx_

_xShipwreckx_

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I got in a fight with my bf today. God I hate it so much, I got the "You don't understand me" & "You don't know what life is like for me" speech. I'm just venting, but I hate it when he plays the "Deaf card"...I can't help it that things turned out this way. I can't help but feeling like an inconvience to him.
 
I hope things are OK now.... I am sorry to hear about the incident with your bf though.
 
_xShipwreckx_ said:
I got in a fight with my bf today. God I hate it so much, I got the "You don't understand me" & "You don't know what life is like for me" speech. I'm just venting, but I hate it when he plays the "Deaf card"...I can't help it that things turned out this way. I can't help but feeling like an inconvience to him.
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I hate to say it but after being with my hubby for 15 years...........he still says that to me. Get used to it. There will always be that difference between you. You both just have to figure out how to live with it.
 
Schermy said:
I hate to say it but after being with my hubby for 15 years...........he still says that to me. Get used to it. There will always be that difference between you. You both just have to figure out how to live with it.
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Really? I don't even want to think about that...This is pretty much the first time we've ever fought. I hope we can figure it out though, I love him too much to lose him over something like that & I hope he feels the same.
 
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_xShipwreckx_ said:
Really? I don't even want to think about that...This is pretty much the first time we've ever fought. I hope we can figure it out though, I love him too much to lose him over something like that & I hope he feels the same.
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If you love each other then you will learn to look past the differences between you. However, no matter what, it will always be there. I think that my hubby says things about it out of pure frustration. I don't think he really means to point out that the difference is there. You understand? Part of having a relationship is loving each other enought to see past and differences that you have that really don't "matter" to the relationship. As long as you have good communication with each other I wouldn't worry. :)
 
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