So, I'm having trouble with that friend that I posted about awhile ago.
We are always (and I mean always) fighting. Back in the old days he was a pretty good guy but now....it just seems like he acts really retarded all the time now. We're on break now....which is good....I don't have to deal with his inabilty to sustain an interesting conversation, and I don't have to deal with him acting like Officer Doofy all the time. So we were discussing a little development in the whole Dani-OB saga. (see my thread;"confused as hell, need advice" in The Closet for more info) See there was an incident between me and a couple of the girls in OB's apartment two weeks ago. I was freaking out about it, and contacted one of the girls in the apartment via IM. So then last Tuesday, out of the clear blue sky I got a phone call from one of the girls! So I go over to the apartment (kinda weird b/c both OB and Dani were there, and it was the first time I'd been over to their apartment without being all over them) Anyway the upshot of it was that the incident in class was a misunderstanding, and Tara wanted to be friends.
So I was talking to JT about that...I'm cautiously optimistic right now, but said that I might get up the nerve to talk to Dani about the crush thing being a huge misunderstanding. I also said that I wanted HIM to apologize for this incident where we were at the bus station after coming back from Boston. He flipped out majorly and insisted on calling Dani at her work b/c he didn't want to be stranded at the bus station and he thought that Dani could have helped us. I wasn't even thinking clearly (hey, I couldn't even hear...my cortical deafness had kicked in to the max) otherwise I would have knocked the phone out of his hands. Dani could not have helped us. Anyway, when I said that I wanted him to apologize (after all it was his idear, and his flipping out which caused the problem....and I really honestly think that it was THIS problem which caused the situion over in the apartment. OB said that Dani was WICKED upset about that) he flipped out and said he wouldn't do it. We argued for a while, about it and then he told me to leave. So I left. Then like fifteen minites later he shows up at my dorm room door. We got into another argument about the same thing. I think he should apologize to Dani b/c it was his idear and him freaking out prematurally that caused the problem. It wasn't MY idear...The incident would never have occured if he hadn't come along for the ride.....and I really do think that this was one of the big things that caused the girls in the apartment to think that I was acting odd. Any advice or other wise words? I really am getting really sick of JT and his being such an Officer Doofy type.
We are always (and I mean always) fighting. Back in the old days he was a pretty good guy but now....it just seems like he acts really retarded all the time now. We're on break now....which is good....I don't have to deal with his inabilty to sustain an interesting conversation, and I don't have to deal with him acting like Officer Doofy all the time. So we were discussing a little development in the whole Dani-OB saga. (see my thread;"confused as hell, need advice" in The Closet for more info) See there was an incident between me and a couple of the girls in OB's apartment two weeks ago. I was freaking out about it, and contacted one of the girls in the apartment via IM. So then last Tuesday, out of the clear blue sky I got a phone call from one of the girls! So I go over to the apartment (kinda weird b/c both OB and Dani were there, and it was the first time I'd been over to their apartment without being all over them) Anyway the upshot of it was that the incident in class was a misunderstanding, and Tara wanted to be friends.
So I was talking to JT about that...I'm cautiously optimistic right now, but said that I might get up the nerve to talk to Dani about the crush thing being a huge misunderstanding. I also said that I wanted HIM to apologize for this incident where we were at the bus station after coming back from Boston. He flipped out majorly and insisted on calling Dani at her work b/c he didn't want to be stranded at the bus station and he thought that Dani could have helped us. I wasn't even thinking clearly (hey, I couldn't even hear...my cortical deafness had kicked in to the max) otherwise I would have knocked the phone out of his hands. Dani could not have helped us. Anyway, when I said that I wanted him to apologize (after all it was his idear, and his flipping out which caused the problem....and I really honestly think that it was THIS problem which caused the situion over in the apartment. OB said that Dani was WICKED upset about that) he flipped out and said he wouldn't do it. We argued for a while, about it and then he told me to leave. So I left. Then like fifteen minites later he shows up at my dorm room door. We got into another argument about the same thing. I think he should apologize to Dani b/c it was his idear and him freaking out prematurally that caused the problem. It wasn't MY idear...The incident would never have occured if he hadn't come along for the ride.....and I really do think that this was one of the big things that caused the girls in the apartment to think that I was acting odd. Any advice or other wise words? I really am getting really sick of JT and his being such an Officer Doofy type.
so.. it's better to do stuff on ur own cuz it'll be peaceful like I did that many times 
same as here some ppl doesn't get that I'm legally blind... seems like that what I do same as Gem here... make excuses and ditch any of annoying people.