fear of settling down

The*Empress

The*Empress

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I keep making excuses not to settle down...
I am afraid that once a man comes into my life....
then he will want to marry and settle down...

I on purpose push away men...

For example...

I ignored a guy who l know like me, and he was hurt real bad.

and another example...

I met a goodlooking man at Gallaudet, and I on purpose
told the security guard "he raped me." And then told him
that I reported on you. And then he demanded, "don't talk to me,
don't touch me, and don't mess with me again!"

Then the other part of me, wish I hadn't report him...
I was regretting.
But the another part of me, glad I did that, I don't have to settle down,
I just push him futher away from me.

Right now that man is married and got children... whew I am glad
it wasn't me... but I don't know.

I just not ready to settling down...
there are so much for me to see out there in the world...
I know I am 34 years old... my clock is ticking....
but there are so much for me that I want to do....

I went to Hawaii, Alaska... I went to New Orleans to eat at nice resturant there.... I wanna learn more by taking more college classes...
I love my independence... :wiggle:
 
Hey Miss P(censored)!

WHO says you MUST marry somebody that you would settle down with?

PLUS I HATE women who calls cops and made up the rape stories against men! HOW COULD YOU SNOOP THAT LOW WITH THIS POOR INNOCENT GUY???? GLAD YOUR NOT MY REAL FRIEND!

I HOPE you met this guy again and owe him serious apologization!
 
Why those two guys acting like they were making nests...?

Why they asked me if I know how to cook?

And I was thinking oh oh, they want me as their wife...
 
I wanna know WHY you made up the rape story against innocent guys? This question is more serious than just want to if you know how to cook?

Do YOU THINK by answering yes or no would have unwanted response and force you to marry him? I think you need to check your own head and find out whats really wrong with YOU!
 
It is very bad, and illegal, to make a false rape report.
 
I did it to hurt myself....
I was in love... but
I wanted to concentrate on getting career and college degrees,
it was more important to me....
But I feel that I won't get the career and the college degrees
cause I feel that that man is in my way....

I had to get him out of my way...
so that I can easily get the career I always dream of...
And guess what, I had internship at B.E.T.

But during those internship at B.E.T., I was
so unhappy... I cried and cried...

I just don't understand why I can't be happy with just doing
internship at B.E.T.

And then I figure, I really do need love... I need
love...
but the other part of me say, "nooooo, stay at B.E.T.,
forget that guy, too late you're already report on him that he raped you."

So I walked out B.E.T. and begged that man to take me back...
I need you... I am so sorry, I apologize... I was going crazy over
this guy... I just couldn't put myself together...
Yeah I did lost my head....

I learned my lesson, and I realize that I really do need love...
but I keep deny it.....

So I was thinking, why not next time be with a guy and love and
then have internship and career at the same time?
That way I can be happy all at one time. Right? Or would it be
too much to do, have to make time to do one thing or the other? :confused:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
I did it to hurt myself....
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Very selfish. You hurt him and his family more. You wasted the time of police.
 
I agre with everyone's comment... U're lucky he didn't sue you for false charge on him...
 
But I am only human...
it was the year 1997, when Clinton got caught cheating...

And I felt love and man are not important...

I felt it was a waste of time, thought all men would cheat.
 
Reba said:
It is very bad, and illegal, to make a false rape report.
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I agree....making a false police report is a misdemeanor of the law. You are lucky he didn't press charges against you, Miss P.
 
reason why he didn't press charges on me, because he thinks he probably force himself on me. I don't know either.
 
u must be a REAL bitch to report a false rape on someone who barely even tried to sexually harrass you. I would never forgive someone once again if they ever made a false rape on me which would definetly ruin my life and to my family as well. One of my friends reported a false rape on one of my best friends years ago and I wanted to have alittle piece of revenge on that bitch for messing up my friend's life and he was going to KILL himself for sure...damn so anyway, what you did was absloutely one of the stupidest things you would ever done...
but your right your human but not a VERY smart human would even report anything like a false rape to the cops to waste time on the man and the cops and the family, etc...it's just...stupid, honestly just stupid.
 
I think you better make yourself more clear.

Are you saying that you accused someone of rape and they didn't rape you?

I want to make sure I am reading this right
 
bbnt said:
I think you better make yourself more clear.

Are you saying that you accused someone of rape and they didn't rape you?

I want to make sure I am reading this right
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It isn't worth trying to figure it out, cause I was confused myself.
 
i want a wife, and a family but at the same time im terrified to get married
 
AJ said:
i want a wife, and a family but at the same time im terrified to get married
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A lot of men have babies out of wedlock.
Some of them can be a good father and pay child support on time.
Visiting children every week or day.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
A lot of men have babies out of wedlock.
Some of them can be a good father and pay child support on time.
Visiting children every week or day.
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i do really want a wife. i want to be a womans husband.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
why you need a wife, what do you expect from a wife?
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i dont need a wife...i would like to have one. because i want that safe feeling...knowing there's a woman out there who loves me so much that she would settle down with me and have children with me. and confess her love to me in front of gods eyes.
 
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