Barbaro
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Her doctor hasn't yet convinced her?
It's like an alcoholic; they have to be ready to make the changes. Until then, they will either get defensive or ignore your advice.
When she seems ready, then you could offer to share tips and recipes with her.
Just my opinion.
I don't know if she had listened to him or not. She doesn't talk much about it at all. She had a surgery last year, and she seems not to be concerned about it. She still goes out with her husband. Oh, gosh. Her husband is obese. He can walk around, but he sort of limps right and left, because he has a huge belly. The problem is she can be persistent, so I really don't think she is interested in changing her diet nor her husband's diet. I do feel sad for them, to be honest with you. I have been watching her eating lots of breads, pasta, very heavy tomatoes, and anything brown and yellow. I haven't seen her eating green stuff lately. I am not the only one who gave her a few healthy recipes a while ago, but she just is not interested in using them.

We have been off the fast food junket for years now, which was a really hard thing, too, being socialized as to the convenience, etc. And now it's even harder, as we age and don't want to be standing in kitchen doing more involved cooking preparations. Energy just isn't there. But we resist frozen meals for the same reason we resist fast food -- too high salt and/or high fat -- and really not healthy. We don't have serious allergies to grains, etc., so we are fortunate there. We are not diabetic nor do we have high cholesterol, so we are managing. :P But it took a few years to really change from how we were raised, with the conditioned ideas of what constitutes a healthy meal, the portions, salt/sugar, etc.
Didn't know that. Would never occur to me to pay to have our soil tested if we decided to garden (we don't; not enough room or large enough area, with enough sunlight). I doubt anyone we know has their soil tested and we eat what surplus our gardening friends share with us and we are just grateful. Just not something that would occur to us, soil testing...
Each to his/her own, I guess...