Well, don't be so sure that he/she is stalking you. I've been accused of stalking when I wasn't. It just happened to be a small world or we both happened to be thinking the same way. This gal I knew was with this guy I knew. Both of them were close friends of mine. However, I did have a crush on her for a bit at that time. Anyway, she would be at the mall and I'd show up at the mall not knowing that she was there. She saw me and was surprised to see me there. This happened several times. I had a feeling that she was thinking that I was stalking her so I decided to lay off from visiting the mall for a while. That's when I decided to go visit a local bowling alley to play a few round of my favorite arcade game. I arrived there and there she was waiting in line to play with her friends. Oops! This happened several times at various places that I never even knew that she was going to be at. There was a couple of times when I was joking around and mentioned a place that she might have gone to and it ended up being true. For instance, she IMed me saying "wazzup?" After a while, I asked her what was up and she told me that she was full from eating. So, the first thing that came to mind was "Ahh... eat at CiCi's Pizza recently? Heh!" (CiCi's Pizza is a local pizza restaurant that's a buffett place with good food.) It turns out that she did go there recently. A few weeks later, she brought up the issue of me stalking her and told me never to talk to her again. Boy, that got out of hand. I never even did any of that intentionally! Over a month later, she finally gave up and apologized because she knew she should have trusted me. Now, we're still friends.