Divorce and re-marriage displeases God

Oceanbreeze said:
I believe so, Cheri. I would suggest that you go to your Bible, and look up "divorce" in your concordance to see exactly what the Bible says on this, but I believe according to the bible, heterosexuals can marry only once. This is just one of many things I take issue with the Bible on.
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Exactly...

I has 2 bible histories/stories...

I also search the right websites...
 
^Angel^ said:
So, you're saying that it's ok for the husband to cheat on his wife that would be for worse?

And it's ok to abuse your wife. that would be for worse?...

Is that what you're trying to say as for better and for worse?...
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Good point...

Let me add the examples...

Did God allow hurting people to stay in their emotional pain rest of their live during marriage?

Did God allow people abusing their partners with physically and verbally rest of their live during marriage?

Did God allow to see their people whom he love are unhappy during their marriage life?

Did God allow to let poor people who were victimized by their partner during marriage life?

Did God allow the children who are being molested by an abusive husband or wife, stay and let it go on?

Did God allow people to kill their partner during marriage life?

Did God allow people to neglect their family to drugs, acholic, etc.?

then more list................


Would you still call it "Marriage is for better and worse!"?

For me, hell NO!


Did God say that people are allow to divorce and remarry? No! They only say that they hate divorce but they love divorce people...

Read those interesting link.
Check this link:
http://www.crossmarks.com/2bec1/c2b1.htm


"Marriage is for better and worse" - Sure, everyone have deep and up during their marriage life but not those list what I mentioned.
 
^Angel^ said:
But there more to what it say in the Bible....I'll wait for Roadrunner to say this cause he know more than I do....

Beside I believe in marriage for better and for worse but I'm not going to live for the rest of my life being abuse in front of my children and let them live like this for the rest of their lives or waiting to be killed and leaving my children with no mom?...

I don't think I want to live like that and beside there are alot of people who wouldn't either and God know what in my heart and knows what I've been thru....I don't believe on minute that I will be send to hell for divorcing my abustive husband and I don't believe that I will be send to hell to be remarried again....

Everyone believe in it differently and Ill leave that up to God to make that judgement .... ;)

That's all I want to say on this thread...
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Exactly what I thought so after what I withness my mother was abused by her husband. It´s horrible to see like this.

Best is out of abustive marriage... I´m sure that God would of agree to this.
 
Y said:
That's Wonderful !
That means she will NOT go to the Hell
if she happen to get re-married as long as she believes
and accepts Jesus. That's it :)
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That´s good point...

God/Jesus love what people are... They never say that they are not allow to divorce and remarry.

All sins SHALL be forgiven, that includes adultery.:)
 
Liebling:-))) said:
God and Jesus never say that she should not remarry.
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Matthew 5:32
"But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery."

Matthew 19:9
"And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery."

Mark 10:12
"And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
 
Liebling:-))) said:
...Everyone has the right to be happy that´s way what God/Jesus wants.
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Jesus wants everyone to have the joy of salvation, and to live holy.

I see nothing wrong if anyone want to remarry or live together.
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That is your personal opinion. That is not what God says.


All sins SHALL be forgiven, that includes adultery. :)
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If a person first accepts Jesus Christ as Savior. If a person confesses the sin, and repents (means quits the sin and turns away from repeating the sin), then Jesus will forgive that sin.
 
Reba said:
Matthew 5:32
"But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery."

Matthew 19:9
"And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery."

Mark 10:12
"And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
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1) Any single wo(man) want to married to a divorce wo(man), they both are guilty of adultery?

2) The cheater spouse found guilty for having fornication, will they get a blessing from God if they want to wed again?
 
Marriage is a beautiful word to God...

Divorce is a bad word for God...

There are many reasons in behind of divorce in the order: money, sex, spousal beater, adultery, etc...

Most of the pre-divorce "problems" can be work out by attending marriage workshops. It takes TWO to work out a marriage, not just by one person.

As for gawd-awful sin such as adultery which it requires the sinner to do more work such as repentance if s/he is willing to do it. If the person doesn't want it, that's his/her problem and then, call it quit in the marriage.

Remember, the cause of divorce goes back to the original root of between man and woman. A tiny speck of "problem" can grow blossomy into giant "problem"! Seeing a problem? What would you do? Fix it immediately before it becomes too late - leading the way for one of them to become unfavorable partner or divorce filing time!

The point is why marry in the first place? Sex, of course. The average duration of marriage is only 3 years. One of the factors is sex dissatisfactory. First year, they were "thrilled". Second year, they were "so-so". Third & final year, they were "puked". That's not what they should be. They should be in a real enduring love relationship such as companion, playmate, teammate, travelmate, workmate, etc. Not just "sexmate". Put "sexmate" on your lowest priority list. Then, find all of the priorities what you could have done to enjoy with your partner, besides rewarding sex. Is it hard? Depends on who is your partner and yourself that are willing to put every effort to work on the marriage. Those secret tips information came from many couples who had been married for over 50 years or longer.

~DV
 
Reba said:
Jesus wants everyone to have the joy of salvation, and to live holy.
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It´s still the same "joy" as "happy".

That is your personal opinion. That is not what God says.
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God never say they are not allow to remarry. Why should God punish innoncent people for divorce their partner thru grounds like what I responsed Angel´s post? I see nothing wrong when the unhappy and divorced innoncent people deserved happy to start their new life with new partners. They deserve my blessing if they want remarry again.
I can´t image that God demand only one marriage because he is not type like this. He loves us what we are. Our sins are forgiven because we are not prefect people.


If a person first accepts Jesus Christ as Savior. If a person confesses the sin, and repents (means quits the sin and turns away from repeating the sin), then Jesus will forgive that sin.
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Look, Jesus forgave people who nailed him on the status for no reason. That´s worst what the people did to Jesus but the people´s sins are also forgiven, too.
 
DeafVeggie said:
Marriage is a beautiful word to God...

Divorce is a bad word for God...

There are many reasons in behind of divorce in the order: money, sex, spousal beater, adultery, etc...

Most of the pre-divorce "problems" can be work out by attending marriage workshops. It takes TWO to work out a marriage, not just by one person.

As for gawd-awful sin such as adultery which it requires the sinner to do more work such as repentance if s/he is willing to do it. If the person doesn't want it, that's his/her problem and then, call it quit in the marriage.

Remember, the cause of divorce goes back to the original root of between man and woman. A tiny speck of "problem" can grow blossomy into giant "problem"! Seeing a problem? What would you do? Fix it immediately before it becomes too late - leading the way for one of them to become unfavorable partner or divorce filing time!

The point is why marry in the first place? Sex, of course. The average duration of marriage is only 3 years. One of the factors is sex dissatisfactory. First year, they were "thrilled". Second year, they were "so-so". Third & final year, they were "puked". That's not what they should be. They should be in a real enduring love relationship such as companion, playmate, teammate, travelmate, workmate, etc. Not just "sexmate". Put "sexmate" on your lowest priority list. Then, find all of the priorities what you could have done to enjoy with your partner, besides rewarding sex. Is it hard? Depends on who is your partner and yourself that are willing to put every effort to work on the marriage. Those secret tips information came from many couples who had been married for over 50 years or longer.

~DV
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Sure, the God hate divorce but love divorce PEOPLE:
 
Liebling:-))) said:
It´s still the same "joy" as "happy".
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Not exactly.
"Joy" from God is constant, and does not depend on circumstances or events. It is permanent.

"Happy" comes and goes, and depends on circumstances or events. It is temporary.

God promises joy to His people. He does not promise happiness.

God wants His people to live holy, more than happiness. Holiness pleases God; happiness is selfish. Holy people please God, and have the joy of God.


That is your personal opinion. That is not what God says.
...God never say they are not allow to remarry.
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That is not my personal opinion. Do you really want to know my personal opinion, or do you want to know what God says? My personal opinion is that people should be allowed to remarry. But God says to remarry is adultery. Yes, God did say that.


Why should God punish innoncent people for divorce their partner thru grounds like what I responsed Angel´s post?
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God is not "punishing" people. He is setting rules to protect marriage. It is people who punish each other. Innocent people suffer because bad people hurt them.

They deserve my blessing if they want remarry again.
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You can "bless" whomever you desire, but that doesn't change God's Word.


I can´t image that God demand only one marriage because he is not type like this. He loves us what we are. Our sins are forgiven because we are not prefect people.
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You don't have to imagine what God demands; He has clearly shown us in His Bible what He requires. God knows we are not perfect people. That is not the reason He forgives us. That is the reason that we sin. God forgives us because His Son was the sacrifice that paid for the penalty of our sins. If we accept His sacrifice, confess and repent (turn from our sins), then He will forgive.


Look, Jesus forgave people who nailed him on the status for no reason.
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Only Jesus had the right to ask forgiveness of His crucifiers because that sin was done specifically to Him. Jesus requested that God not put that sin on the account of the executioners. We can only forgive the sins that are done to us as individuals.

For example, I can't forgive a pedophile who kills a little girl in Florida. I don't have the right. Why? Because he didn't sin against me. Only that family and God can forgive him.
 
Tamara said:
1) Any single wo(man) want to married to a divorce wo(man), they both are guilty of adultery?
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If one or both of the people were married, it would be adultery.

2) The cheater spouse found guilty for having fornication, will they get a blessing from God if they want to wed again?
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No.
 
It is a sickness when your spouse hit ya.
You suppose to stay with your abusal spouse...
no matter what...

That is why you married for better or worse.

You suppose to work out the marriage...
and tell your spouse that he needs to
get help...
Call the police and tell them to put him
in jail or something...

And then get the family and friends involve
and try to help you and your husband.

USA is our village.. and we suppose
to look after one another....

That is why Terri's husband has great custody
of Terri... cause the family is no longer custody of Terri.
That is how powerful marriage is. The Judges can't interfere with that.

So it is wrong to divorce and remarry...
You can remarry if your spouse die.

Right? :ugh2:

And if your spouse cheat on you... then still you can't
divorce.... you have to work out and get him to
stop cheating.... Whatever you have to do... work it out.

If your spouse want to ignore the Bible and divorce you, then
that is wrong... but if you have to get a divorce than oh well.

My cousin's husband won't leave her.... My cousin can't
have children... she is barren. But her husband wants to stay in marriage.
I think it is okay to get a surrogate mother....
Cause Abraham;s wife Sarah allowed Hagar to be a surrogate mother...
that isn't really an adultry... But Hagar was in Union (Marriage like) with Abraham...

So anyway... my cousin and her husband adopted 2 children...
They don't want surrogate.
 
Yes, marriage is sacrifice, sad to see today people don't think this way.
 
Very good post! Of course, it TAKES 2 to make this happen. Unfortunately I don't believe in marriage... For a good reason... Divorce exists! It only makes attorneys richer, the more fight between couples makes two attorneys merrier!

I have been with same girlfriend for 5 years already, and had no plans leaving her. Even that we gave birth to our son!

Yeah, very true often sex is motivation for the marriage. Divorce often ends because of money issues (That is top reasons why divorce happens) So, seems greedy and lust makes marriage collapse.


DeafVeggie said:
Marriage is a beautiful word to God...

Divorce is a bad word for God...

There are many reasons in behind of divorce in the order: money, sex, spousal beater, adultery, etc...

Most of the pre-divorce "problems" can be work out by attending marriage workshops. It takes TWO to work out a marriage, not just by one person.

As for gawd-awful sin such as adultery which it requires the sinner to do more work such as repentance if s/he is willing to do it. If the person doesn't want it, that's his/her problem and then, call it quit in the marriage.

Remember, the cause of divorce goes back to the original root of between man and woman. A tiny speck of "problem" can grow blossomy into giant "problem"! Seeing a problem? What would you do? Fix it immediately before it becomes too late - leading the way for one of them to become unfavorable partner or divorce filing time!

The point is why marry in the first place? Sex, of course. The average duration of marriage is only 3 years. One of the factors is sex dissatisfactory. First year, they were "thrilled". Second year, they were "so-so". Third & final year, they were "puked". That's not what they should be. They should be in a real enduring love relationship such as companion, playmate, teammate, travelmate, workmate, etc. Not just "sexmate". Put "sexmate" on your lowest priority list. Then, find all of the priorities what you could have done to enjoy with your partner, besides rewarding sex. Is it hard? Depends on who is your partner and yourself that are willing to put every effort to work on the marriage. Those secret tips information came from many couples who had been married for over 50 years or longer.

~DV
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diehardbiker65 said:
Very good post! Of course, it TAKES 2 to make this happen. Unfortunately I don't believe in marriage... For a good reason... Divorce exists! It only makes attorneys richer, the more fight between couples makes two attorneys merrier!

I have been with same girlfriend for 5 years already, and had no plans leaving her. Even that we gave birth to our son!

Yeah, very true often sex is motivation for the marriage. Divorce often ends because of money issues (That is top reasons why divorce happens) So, seems greedy and lust makes marriage collapse.
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Um,,, you are marry in God's eyes. So when you lay down
with your girlfriend and have son with her, and made committment
to stay with her, that is like marriage... nah nah nah!!!!!

RIght? Just need to make it legal... by paper in a government way.
 
Make Attorney richer? Paying more taxes? whats point to it?


Miss*Pinocchio said:
Um,,, you are marry in God's eyes. So when you lay down
with your girlfriend and have son with her, and made committment
to stay with her, that is like marriage... nah nah nah!!!!!

RIght? Just need to make it legal... by paper in a government way.
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Yeah I lost my ass on August 22, 1998 in Las Vegas. And that being a good
lesson learned, I dont plan on losing it again.

Richard
 
WTF r u talking about?

BTW didn't you lose your hole?

Nesmuth said:
Yeah I lost my ass on August 22, 1998 in Las Vegas. And that being a good
lesson learned, I dont plan on losing it again.

Richard
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