Death of a good friend :(

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LuciaDisturbed

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I was saddened to hear the news that my good friend Tim has passed away this morning. The exact cause of the death is not known, and an autopsy will be done to find out the exact cause of death.

He was supposed to marry another good friend of mine, and they are expecting a baby boy in September, Tim is the daddy of the baby.

I used to hang out with Tim and another friend all the time when I was younger, before I left Milwaukee for good. His mother also helped me out when I finally left foster care for good and needed help learning how to live on my own.

Tim, you will be greatly missed! Rest in Peace!

RIP - May 3rd, 1982 - June 16th, 2009. He was just too young, only 27 years old...:(
 
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I'm sorry for your loss, Lucia. If you wanna talk, feel free to IM me. I know how you feel. :hug:
 
holy crap! 27 years old?? wow...... my deepest condolence, Lucia :grouphug:
 
Thanks everyone. Unfortunately the funeral is in Milwaukee and I am all the way down in Texas, so I most likely may not make it to the funeral unless I come up with the money somehow or find someone to pay my way to Milwaukee.
 
Jiro said:
holy crap! 27 years old?? wow...... my deepest condolence, Lucia :grouphug:
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Yep. He had a whole host of health problems but no one is sure of the exact cause of his death, it was quite sudden, I had only spoken with Tim last Saturday night and he was just fine, he had just gotten home from being at a festival all day. There are rumors floating around the Deaf community about how he died but none of them makes sense right now and I am having difficulties understanding what his fiance was trying to tell me on AIM because she does not have good English skills, she is VERY ASL reliant. Right now she and Tim's entire family and my friend are all over at Tim's aunt's house for a gathering in his memory. As soon as Tammy gets home or maybe tomorrow we are going to talk on VP and clear up what she was trying to tell me earlier by actually signing. All I could understand on AIM was that Tim had died, everything after that I could not understand. I also am going to get in touch with Tim's mother tomorrow.

Thanks for the hugs, Jiro.
 
Oh dear! He is too young to die... :(

I´m very sorry about the loss of your friend. Please pass my sympathy to his family.

R.I.P. Tim :(
 
I'm sorry about your loss :(

There's not many words we can express so here's a :hug: for you too.
 
I need to correct one thing - I had mistyped Tim's birth date and a friend brought that to my attention. His correct birth date is May 3rd, 1982, not May 2nd. I've also edited my first post to correct the birth date, just so there's no confusion.

Thanks for the condolences, everyone. I appreciate it.

I am off to bed as I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow. I don't want to go but I gotta go. I've been crying on and off all day today. Every time I think about the baby Tim's fiancee is expecting this September, I cry because now the baby will never ever get to meet and know his daddy. This is their first child. It's not fair.
 
One of my friend's lost her husband last Wednesday in tragic car crash. She's alone now too with 2 children :( (3y and 7y). Life just sucks in such cases!!!! :(

I hope your friend will be able to be as strong as possible as to not loose the baby due to stress... Hope she has family/friends by her side when needed!!!

:hug: JL
 
He is too young! I'm sorry for your loss.
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thats awful Lucia, please take my condolensce as an extended empathy, i mean his family's loss of teh father to the expecting, how dreadful, i know that feeling of now know a close relative whom died before i was born, all my life as i sometimes still wonder, what was my grandfather like? my parents, parent werent old at all so my childhood has some missing relative, its not painful but an unexplained/unexplainable hole, also of this one of Tim being a young adult was robbed of a chance to experience fatherhood, real sad. like you said its no fair, totally not fair, but here's a note to say im sorry and i kind of know. take care and to your freind too.
 
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