Deaf parents lost 2 children in fire

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Friends help couple cope with tragedy
Two children died of injuries in fire
By TERRI SANGINITI
Staff reporter
04/03/2004

An outpouring of community support for the family who lost two children in a fatal fire last month in Bear is helping the parents cope with their loss.

In the last three weeks, friends, neighbors, co-workers and strangers have given more than $13,000 in cash and other donations to Lermande and Wubu Hendricks, whose 3-year-old son and 18-month-old daughter died of injuries after fire swept through their home in Salem Woods.

The couple, who moved into the home on Arlene Court with their family last May, said they are touched by the kindness. Wubu Hendricks said they would not have been able to manage without the support.

"We are taking it one day at a time to move on with our lives without them," she said.

LaMonte L. Hendricks and his sister Bailee Stevena died of injuries despite efforts by their 18-year-old uncle to rescue them from their home March 10. He received minor injuries. The family's 4-year-old cocker spaniel, Camby, also died in the blaze.

State fire officials determined the fire was accidental, caused by a failure in the home's electrical wiring.

Colleagues of Wubu Hendricks at the Delaware School for the Deaf collected $4,000 in gift cards and cash donations, Ed Bosso, the school's director said.

He said Henry M. Brader Elementary School in Glasgow donated more than $700 and an additional $300 was collected from two area churches.

"It's just been amazing," Bosso said.

New Castle County police Officer Romi Dunning, who launched a collection drive on her own in the Appoquinimink School District, said she had received more than $2,700 in checks and gift cards as well as new clothing, personal hygiene and household items.

Dunning said the donations left at the police station in Middletown have been taken to the Hendricks' friend and sign interpreter Pam D'Occhio, who also lives in Salem Woods.

"Every time I come into my office there is a new box or basket of donated items," Dunning said.

Louis Capano III donated a two-bedroom apartment to the family rent free for the next several months in the Valley Stream Village Apartments.

"When we heard the heart-wrenching story of this family's misfortunes, we didn't want them to have the additional worry of having a place to live during this extremely difficult time in their lives," Capano said.

Salem Woods residents Diane Peabody and Theresa Mushiatti said the tragedy has united the 750-home community, which raised nearly $6,000 the weekend after the fire with collection cans posted at the entrances to the community.

Peabody said 13-year-old Adam Caskey "walked over and donated all of his allowance he had been saving."

D'Occhio, who opened an account for donations for the Hendricks Family at PNC Bank, said with donations from Salem Woods and the School for the Deaf, more than $10,000 had been deposited in the account.

Funeral costs for the children were $13,000, Peabody said.

"We did not have life insurance for our kids because we never thought our kids would die before us," Wubu Hendricks said.


http://www.delawareonline.com/newsjournal/local/2004/04/03friendshelpcoup.html


*My friend forwarded the Email to me and they were RIT graduates. Very sad, very sad. :(
 
:( man, im speechless. thats really sad....
 
13,000? that's really alot...

in fact, I've heard similar stories where a cop was shot and killed by a theif who was trying to steal some food from a food market... the theif was caught stealing the food but he quickly ran out of the store and the cop ran after him, and when he caught him, the theif fought back and punched him and grabbed the pistol from his belt and fired the gun, and he feel to the ground, soaked in deep red fluid...other cops immediately caught him after the shooting, and he was laughing...like he has completely lost his mind. the cop has one young son and a pregrent wife who was goin to have a baby in a couple months so many ppl felt bad for her loss and tossed her about $25,000 as an deonation gift and they even invited her to the radio station about how much cash she've got lol she was pretty rich then...

and that story happened in charlotte where I lived.
 
OMG thats so sad!!!! :(

i send prayers to the family and the kids whose lives were cut so tragically short :(
 
awww that so sad.... :tears:

Losing Children is a very hard to accept....
 
that is SO sad!!!!!!!!!!!!

And I happen to know the director of the school he was my summer school english teacher and great man to know, its devasting to this happening like it is! I only can pray for the healing that iknow will be a long time coming. may they have a angels among them...... :(
 
I know it's so sad that I had nightmares last night. Kept waking up to check on my 3 1/2 months old daughter to see if she was alright. I cannot imagine losing my baby to something horrible even burned to death. I felt *soo* bad for them because I knew him from RIT. My friend also knew his wife who happen to be her old roommate at RIT, too.
 
Katzie said:
I know it's so sad that I had nightmares last night. Kept waking up to check on my 3 1/2 months old daughter to see if she was alright. I cannot imagine losing my baby to something horrible even burned to death. I felt *soo* bad for them because I knew him from RIT. My friend also knew his wife who happen to be her old roommate at RIT, too.

Oh Yeah, I can image to become too parnanoid to check on the children to see if they were alright. It is too scared to think about them everyday.

I do worry about my sons everyday. I always paged or call them to see if they were alright.

I remember, my Mom stated that she always worried about me until she died.
 
Being worried is part of mother's job description, even fathers, too. I used to tell my parents geez you worry too much! Well, gee I know what they mean now because I worry about my baby, too. Adults always look after their children even when children become adult. It'll always be that way.

It's a great idea about having pagers so your children can keep a contact with you so you'd know where they are, etc. A lot of my young cousins uses cell phone for the same reason.


At any rate, my heart goes to the Hendrick's and family. :grouphug:
 
My Deepth Sorrow for thier families who losing loving ones..
I can image, how much Katzie's felt presence about this situation and so same as me2 about it.
Really hate issues so many about the house is safety likely eg: wiring, lights, plugs and much more proven security safety ? Which one, Do you feel trust about the old or new house as such more safety??
If you condiser to buy a house and always be check the wiring and everything to see and to make sure that safety?
I've seen the news, so much really losing their homes and children died in the blast house. My kindness turns me into more deepest sorrow their losing love ones.
 
Wubu is a friend of my best friend! She told me what happened and I cried because they lost her beautiful kids. It was soo sad! I really do want to help but our finance isn't great right now. *drat* I will always think of them no matter what...Fire is really :devil:! 13,000 for funeral? Too much!
 
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