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SherryCherish said:
finally, got my son! (did gave him a longest hard hug), he seem he likes school. I feel alots better, that he is doing ok there.
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Hallauah! I'm glad you happy seeing your son arms around again...

See.... *wink*, your son really loved this school so much... I bet his school have lot fun activites for your son. That great start edcuation! :thumb:
 
DoofusMama said:
Awww.... kids are sure growing up fast...... like my 6 kids.. they grew up so fast.. Allen already turned 3 last june.. Marshalee already turned 1 last August...
Pretty soon.. you wouldnt believe the kids grow up and get marry or having babies.. you will be grandma.. its like start over to have a kid..

:hug: cherish the treasure moments...
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*nodding agreement* Very true...

I remember my boys since they were darling babies... I hold them in my arm and kiss them... and see their happy faces on their first kindergarten and then first school day... I can understand how you feel, SherryCherish
 
Doofus, I know.. I am not ready for that LOL When they gets older. I want my cherish moments with my kids before they get grow up. Wouldn't never forget or regret at all.

Bearmom, yeah, at least all of us have to learn to let our kids go in some reason. When they get older, you have to let it go completely. Which is hard part. It great to see them grow up tho.

Bullymom and Liebing, thank you.. I would the same to give kiss and hugs everytime i drop my son off and pick him up LOL.
 
Oh Sherry :hug: I know just how you feel. When both my daughters started their first day at kindergarten, it broke my heart to let them go. They had gotten so big on me so fast!! Even though, both girls were ready to take that first step into starting school, I wasn't ready for the emotions that overtook me. Oh did I cry!!
They loved school, I was so happy when they got home from school. The years just flew by Sherry, and there was never one ounce of regret, as I should have done this, or I should have done that. Because my oldest is now 26 years old, she has decided to go back into school again. She is going to Simmons College for her nursing degree. Her first degree is in Social Rehab, and that she received from Assumption College, both in Mass.
My youngest is now 21 years old, attends Endicott College, she will be graduating right on my birthday in 2006 (nice birthday gift!!)
It will be an emotional roller coaster Sherry, but, at the same time, you are going to be filled with so much pride!!!
Congratulations on joining the us Mom's who have been through the same thing as what you're going through now.
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Congratulations on your son's first pre-school education. I'm sure he'll be fine. I know we all feel the same when our children started school. And at the same time, we can feel proud because the schools provide them the need of education. Again, congratulations. You're a good mommy. :)
 
CODA,

Wow, u should be proud for ur both daughter. Yeah i'm very excited for my son go to school and he will learn alots things from there. I ain't regret that i did that. Just hard part for me to let him go at 3 age. Beside, I want him to improve his needs, education, development, communication, and sociality. It was hard, and I cried. I will be little hard for awhile, so far he likes his school. Which is good. Got any grand kids yet?

Whitewolf,

yup its all good for kids to go school. I think that early age is good to start. Wish my stepdaughter go to school, she gonna be 4 yr old. But, her mother won't take her to school. If she is our full custody, will send her school right away or daycare. Cuz 4 yr old kinda is good start to do it now than wait next year.
 
SherryCherish said:
Whitewolf,

yup its all good for kids to go school. I think that early age is good to start. Wish my stepdaughter go to school, she gonna be 4 yr old. But, her mother won't take her to school. If she is our full custody, will send her school right away or daycare. Cuz 4 yr old kinda is good start to do it now than wait next year.
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Cute. I first freaked out when my daughter was 4 1/2 and started Kindergarten, because of some kids who are 5 years old and much older than her. But as a rough and tumble little girl, she got along well with those kids. Now she's 12 and giggles when she looks back. :eek2: Second my son started fine. Now my daugher is in middle school at 7th grade and my son is 5th grade, I still......freak......out. :o Heh. I don't know. Maybe of injuries we had when we all were in schools. <sigh> I want my babies back. We can't turn them into babies again. :D
 
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i know how u feel.. i put my son in therapy at 1 1/2 yrs old. I was so sad and it was so hard for me.
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i didnt want to leave him there but know he have needs that need to be met and look at him? he had improved so much!
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I am thankful for the therapy. Now he is in 1st grade and is doing well in school!
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I have only 1 child.. When she started pre-school (that was in Montgomery, Al).. I had mixed emotions all in my head saying "what if....." I felt guilty for putting her to pre-school.. she cried every morning for 2 months.. she was trying to tell me something happened at school.. you know what.. I had a bad feeling so I decided to leave work early and go by the pre-school.. found that the teachers were very very mean to my daughter.. they were screaming at her at close range.. Ohh I was pissed off!!! I walked in and told the teachers to NEVER NEVER do that again to my child or any other kids. Well, as I was looking around.. all the teachers were black, most of the students were black.. my daughter was just one of the few whites.. I figured that it was all racism and I took her out of the school and refused to pay for the care. No, I'm not a racist, just the fact that they were. I cried and cried and cried and told my daughter I was soo sorry for not listening. she was 3 and a half at the time.

So we moved back in my hometown.. she started school again and loved it! I learned the hard way to study more about school education and meet the teachers, principal, nurse, first! I always asked the principal to give my daughter the best teachers. He'll do just that for me. I know how that feels going thru those stages!
 
LuckySmiles- My son been gone ALOTS theraphy and eluvations since, but already found something and that suit him into right path as his needs. That why had to send him early to school to start. So far my son love school, i dropped him off this morning, he was all SMILE and walk to teacher. He normally cried with strange if parents or grandparents leave him alone there. But he don't. That why i was alike :eek2: and shock. I feel abit emotion today but not as bad like yesterday LOL. I'm glad my son like school tho.

Rebel- geez, i would be in ur shoes, worry and have it check it out if something wrong. One time i watched Maury show other day, they show the videos of school of teachers and aides beat disabilities kids, it scare out of me big time! Got me worry abt my son alots. That why i'm still overwhelming have my son at school this moment, like i say myself, give it few weeks and see how it goes. So far its 2nd day, he is doing well. I still keep in my eyes. I'm glad that you and daughter out of there, and go different school. I did have met all my son's teachers, speech, couselor, principal, aides.. which glad i did. We know our KIDS best than others. Since they don't raise our kids, but we re. We have sometime to feel trust in our kids in some ways. We have OUR RIGHTS whatever we want for our kids.


Whitewolf- yeah we can't keep them as babies but i still call my son my baby no matter what. he always been!
 
eternity said:
you all are weird. It's normal for kids to go school for first time.
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:squint: Whoa.. That's sound rude to say that. Do you have the breakdown when you send your daughter to school? :-o It sound like you doesn't care about your daughter? Don't you??

I always love my baby boy, he will be my only child and every steps he has went thru, his first walk, I cried, his first crawl, I cried, his first word Mama, I cried, his first milestones, I cried, and I put him to school and I cried.. I am sure every mothers have the same emotions I went thru. It broke my heart when I send my 3 years old son to school in August and I just bawled my eyes out all day... I am sure it is normal for all first time parents to share those emotions on their first day.
 
CrazyMomma, i felt the same way, when my son learn sit up, crawled walk etc, everything first time.. its normal..


Here the pix of my son of first day school (taken yesterday)
 

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SherryCherish said:
CrazyMomma, i felt the same way, when my son learn sit up, crawled walk etc, everything first time.. its normal..


Here the pix of my son of first day school (taken yesterday)
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awww he's so cute!!!!
 
ingore enternity her comments are always rude anyway she has no respect...


anyhow glad to hear that your kid enjoyed his first day, lilo's like my kid and whenever we have a first day her first thing she did on her first time was going up the stairs and going down for the first time shes' such a darling now shes asleep on the lanai :) lilo's a dog but is my kid in every way ! i love her all the same :)
 
Aww Sherry.. I guess we were in same boat as our kids went to therapy. :)

My son was diagonsed with Sensory Integration Disorder and Development Delay. At first my family dr and the teachers at therapy thought he was austitic. That's why he was put in for therapy. Later TJ was finally evaluated at Dennis Development Center in Little Rock. They determinted that what he have is not what we thought but instead SID and Development Delay.

I hate to put TJ in therapy as he is my only child but he have special needs. It was so HARD on me.. I cried every day for first week then I got used to taking him to Therapy. Now I am happy that I got TJ the help he needs and he look normal to me but will never outgrow SID. :( I still love him no matter what. He is my only BABY and always will be!!!! :)
 
thanks Rebel

Java, aww.. thats cute!! alots of precious moments...

Ginger.. I'm almost same shoes as you. Yeah it was hardest for me cuz, we don't want to know what wrong w/ our kids but it don't tell us that we re bad parents. Way it is, and that happening. But as long our kids re happy and, that make us feel that they re happy kids that's counts. We always love them no matter what. But they need some special needs that would help improvement for their needs. Such like you said, delay development, my son has that too.
 
no dont think you are a bad mother.. its not you.. it could be environment, genetic, anything that can cause your kid to have development delay.

Why TJ got SID and Developement Delay is from lead poisoning at my old apt where i lived for 6 yrs. I didnt know lead poisoning can affect unborn child and too late. I didnt know? i felt so guilty about it at first but I know that now im not to be blamed for it. Just be happy that u have ur child with you and think of this.. your son is special.. ever thought of that? i always thought TJ is special child to me ..I lost 3 babies.. so TJ is an only child i ever will have as I am tied now. I will not plan on having more babies as i dont want to go thru pains of losing another baby. I cant bear it.. :(
 
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