Are You Ready For Marriage ?

[Cheri]

i have to concur with you... i notice it too... most people who got married at a very young age ended up getting divorced as opposed to those who got married at a late age like in their late 30's to 40's stayed married-- they seemed more stable/compatible, very happy and settled too... it is very rare for those who got married at a very young age to stay married... and be happy too.:

Yep, I noticed it also, because younger folks don't completely reveal their true colors until after they're married, they put on an act like I wanna get married, I wanna be a wife, and live happily-ever-after then boom they're married everything changes down the roads, and realized that marriage is hard, they don't have the freedom to do what they want anymore, they're stuck with the same guy for the rest of their life, and that's what frighten them, that's what I believe. I think they think being a housewife is a fun, but don't realized it's hard work, it's commitment.

So, I agree with you, about the certain age range 30's-40's are more maturity and wiser to have a stable long lasting marriage than the age range of 20's.

That's one reason why I waited on marriage when I was younger, It took me six years to say yes to one of my ex, but then just in a several months later I found out he cheated, that's how I learned that he isn't ready at the age of 23, either am I. If I never found out his true colors, I would had a bad marriage.

 

[CCfan]

No, I don't-- I can't do anything, because I haven't find a girlfriend
yet. I glad I don't have a girlfriend or marriage, because there is a
commitment for a marriage. You know, of course, my single is fun, but sometimes, my life is hard without my girlfriend. Oh well. But for now,
my life isn't hard.

 

[SpiceHD]

marriage... thats hard question when u cant even tell if u have a true love anymore.... u cant tell if ur partner is the one u will spend lifetime with. i want a marriage yes but am i ready?..... i dont know. and i dont think ill ever know.

 

[PePe LePew]

Hi Cheri

I agree with you on this ...Comin' Soon (How Do I Know If It's Real Love ?), I will bring it here when I get the chance ... You are right about faithful to one another and to love one another thru health and sickness or for rich or poor,
til death do us apart growing old and die together...Good one Cheri, we all wants to spends the rest our life with one man as long he's good, ha ha!

I believe marriage is a commitment, a vow that should be taken seriously, such as being faithful to one another, love one another, be there with them through heath and sickness, rich and poor until death do us apart. That's why I never got married because I haven't found the one that would be that everything to me, I've been engaged three times by three different men but never made it far, I wanted someone that would be total honest with everything he has to give me, would love me for eternity, would be there for me through thick and thin, would love me through heath and sickness, being faithful to me, if he is all that, that's someone I would want to spend my entire life with, a marriage is not something you can say "I do" for temporary, marriage is a lifetime commitment, a lifetime of love!

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Well, my hubby & I only saw each other 13 times before get married. (He is in Germany as I was in England)... We are still happily married ever since... It will be 22nd wedding anniversary this year.