Anyone hate being middle child of family?

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Anyone here is middle child in family? Anyone here feel like they are black sheep in the family?

I HATE BEING A MIDDLE CHILD IN THE FAMILY!! I do feel like I'm black sheep... I dug up my alumni matar newspaper, and I read a article on sibling rivarly, and it define first, middle, and last child of the family....

I noticed that my mom care more about my siblings than me... I noticed she pays more attention when they have chat, or whatever... if I say something then she just ignore me mid-sentece, I am so :pissed: and I just walked away from her.. sometimes later on she say "what did you was trying to tell me" as if she is trying to restart conservation, I said too late, you chose to ignore me...... I told her I think I may have bore her already, and I don't want to talk about same subject all over again.. I am sick of it... I did showed her article, and what my sister learned in school was right, she just don't care.. she was like :gives: and I said oh whatever I don't care at all.... Maybe I should be her mirror and she will realize.
 
Thanks heaven I was born second so I'm not a middle child.... :P
 
I'm the middle child of 3 sisters. I've always been the blacksheep in the family. My oldest was my mom's favorite.. well, i can't say that.. I just felt she was. my youngest gets all the attention. me and my other sis that's in the middle as well has always felt left out and not loved enough. My middle sis basically had to do everything on her own and succeeded.. She didn't get much help from her mom and my dad. I was told that My dad didn't want me when he found out that I'm deaf. My mom was soo busy working full-time 60 something hours a week.. so I hardly had a mother-daughter chat. Til the end, my mother told me that she never had to worry about me growing up cuz she knew I was a good kid and wouldn't give her hell. She loved me so much and wish she had learned sign language. I told her its okay, she's forgiven. Actually.. as of today, I still feel that way being the blacksheep in my family.
 
middle child of family feel being neglect? :dunno:

I'm eldest sister of 4 siblings but I didn't receive love attention from my parents enough to compare with my siblings. My parents doesn't bother to get know me better but get my one year younger sister to translate for me because she's one who understand me than my own parents.

I feel being neglect by them to compare with my siblings because they all are hearing, they can communicate with... It's their lazy to try to communicate with me.

My maidname is well-known black sheep in the family (since Dad's grandparents & siblings). I'm too different as them. Their manner behavior are too different as mine... I guess that's how I was brought up by stricter discipline at boarding school which different as my parents. I spent many years at boarding school than at home. :dunno:


I am doubt it's something do with "middle child of family" ?... I don't think so... :dunno:
 
I am the oldest but do feel left out cuz I am deaf. My mom give so much attention to my brother who was in the middle and only son and my younger sister. :pissed: I am still left out but after my mom dies and my aunt took over and I feel good around her. She is love of my life. I will always cherish her. But at the same time I am sad that my mom is gone. I do missed her terribly.

This is what my mom told me long time ago. My mom was the second child of my grandparent's kids. My grandparent have 5 kids. My aunt who lives about 1 hr from me got all the attention cuz she was the oldest. My other aunt who was youngest who live not too far from my mom's house get all the attention. Then my uncle got attention cuz he was the only boy in the family. My other aunt got attention cuz she was in the middle of the sibling. So my mom was left out. I hope I make sense to this for all of you. :D
 
I'm middle child.. oh yea.. I'm black sheep in their flock.. Sad!

Now I have three children... noticed two older kids are both black sheep..

Made me wonder why, two blacksheep in my flock ?
 
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