2-Year-Old Gets Drunk; Baby-Sitter Charged

[diehardbiker]

I disagree with you!!! Have you heard of Mr. Mom?

I babysit kids sometimes, and I dont' get drunk!

Men and babysititng never mix.

Men were not born to babysit.

Men were born to work then provide for the wife and the kids.

Kids are the woman's domain until the kids get bigger , older and the kids start to pick up the skills then it is time for the father pick up where the mother left off to pass on his skills , wisdom and advice as well as some... " tough love " discplince as needed.

 

[Angel]

Men and babysititng never mix.

Men were not born to babysit.

Men were born to work then provide for the wife and the kids.

Kids are the woman's domain until the kids get bigger , older and the kids start to pick up the skills then .....

It is time for the father pick up where the mother left off to pass on his skills , wisdom and advice as well as some... " tough love " discplince as needed.

Umm Pardon me?...

Some men are good babysitters, and RR is one of them, he babysit my boys while I'm working out of town and he make sure they're in school and also clean the house too, so I'm sure there are men out there who does the same thing as RR ....

 

[FreeWoman77]

my girls's father has watched our girls, sheesh @HEATH, and where bible says that?

 

[Heath]

I disagree with you!!! Have you heard of Mr. Mom?

I babysit kids sometimes, and I dont' get drunk!

Yes I have heard of that and I don't agree with guys being Mr. Mom welcome to the world of liberal values.

Normally men don't baby sit and my family has asked me to baby sit on several occassions. I am an uncle to many kids. I told them no and I am Deaf too and they can always hire a teenage girl in need of money or substitute something for the teenage girl to babysit.

The reason I said no because that is one area where everything will go wrong when I am trying to do the right thing plus I do not want my sister or my brother's wife to accuse me when the kids are in the emergency room for an injury at the hospital and the family gives me the " guilty and annoyed look "

For example the kids know I am Deaf then they can go upstairs to play then God forbid they put a No. 2 yellow school pencil in the electrical socket !!! or the kids don't want to do their homework and want to play then they open the window then try to climb on a tree branch to go outside and play with the neighborhood kids only to be injuried falling down etc. No thanks man ... my nephews and nieces are better in the hands of a woman as a woman knows instinctly what to do and guys do not have that same instinct and drive that a woman has towards children. Kids will be kids , man !!! They get into everything.

 

[LakeTahoe]

You are totally

My ex boyfriend watch my son, he was just fine and had no problem...we have SK2 if there is any emegerncy. Just be yourself!

Yes I have heard of that and I don't agree with guys being Mr. Mom welcome to the world of liberal values.

Normally men don't baby sit and my family has asked me to baby sit on several occassions. I am an uncle to many kids. I told them no and I am Deaf too and they can always hire a teenage girl in need of money or substitute something for the teenage girl to babysit.

The reason I said no because that is one area where everything will go wrong when I am trying to do the right thing plus I do not want my sister or my brother's wife to accuse me when the kids are in the emergency room for an injury at the hospital and the family gives me the " guilty and annoyed look "

For example the kids know I am Deaf then they can go upstairs to play then God forbid they put a No. 2 yellow school pencil in the electrical socket !!! or the kids don't want to do their homework and want to play then they open the window then try to climb on a tree branch to go outside and play with the neighborhood kids only to be injuried falling down etc. No thanks man ... my nephews and nieces are better in the hands of a woman as a woman knows instinctly what to do and guys do not have that same instinct and drive that a woman has towards children. Kids will be kids , man !!! They get into everything.

 

[Eve]

Don't worry Heath, I won't ask YOU to babysit. Of course there are plenty of men out there that are reliable, you just don't seem to be one of them.

 

[LakeTahoe]

Great point Eve!! Good one!

Don't worry Heath, I won't ask YOU to babysit. Of course there are plenty of men out there that are reliable, you just don't seem to be one of them.

 

[Heath]

Don't worry Heath, I won't ask YOU to babysit. Of course there are plenty of men out there that are reliable, you just don't seem to be one of them.

Yeah, some guys are not cut out to do that kind of job and you caught what I was trying to say. I was thinking of how to explain it better. You said it all.

I am reliable in another areas. You can ask me for help or I offer help because of my experience.

If I got married. I would make sure the baby sitter is a female and not a guy. I am more comfortable with a woman or a teenage girl with small children than I would be with a guy. I am not saying anything bad to the guys here. That is just how it is. A woman naturally knows what is up with children.

 

[Eve]

A woman naturally knows what is up with children.

You obviously have never met my husband's ex-wife.

 

[FreeWoman77]

You are totally

My ex boyfriend watch my son, he was just fine and had no problem...we have SK2 if there is any emegerncy. Just be yourself!

exact, i have sk2 during i was working he may contact me any needed, but funny of him, once he imed me that girls made room messy i could not find the f*****g TV remote, have u seen? what a typical man

 

[Gemtun]

A woman naturally knows what is up with children.

Are you kidding me????!!!!!!!!!!

There are as many as women as many men who dont know how to take care of kids. I have seen many mothers who have no business being mothers in the first place while I have seen many wonderful fathers.

Gender does not play a role in whether that person makes a great, caring & responsible parent.

You obviously have not gotten out much.

 

[Gemtun]

If I got married. I would make sure the baby sitter is a female and not a guy.

I truly feel sorry for your future wife - it is clear that you will be a hands off father. How pathetic. You have to forgive me but I have to be very blunt here - I truly hope you wont have kids one day. Kids need BOTH parents period.

 

[Heath]

I truly feel sorry for your future wife - it is clear that you will be a hands off father. How pathetic. You have to forgive me but I have to be very blunt here - I truly hope you wont have kids one day. Kids need BOTH parents period.

Stratching my head here....

I never said I would be a hands off father... Yes, It seems cold that I would be a " hands off " father and very much a traditional father, call me old fashioned, I don't care and I would be for sure involved in making sure my kids are alright and when the time is right then I will teach and pass down skills onto my kids. Many guys have done fine with their wife at their side and the kids grew up to be fine and good individuals with their fathers who had a hands off policy enforced. I would not get involved unless it absoutely is needed.

 

[Gemtun]

Stratching my head here....

I never said I would be a hands off father... Yes, It seems cold that I would be a " hands off " father and very much a traditional father, call me old fashioned, I don't care and I would be for sure involved in making sure my kids are alright and when the time is right then I will teach and pass down skills onto my kids. Many guys have done fine with their wife at their side and the kids grew up to be fine and good individuals with their fathers who had a hands off policy enforced. I would not get involved unless it absoutely is needed.

Guess you were born too late - this is 2006, not 1950's or earlier eras where fathers were not involved much and believed that only women are responsible for direct care of their kids.

Thank God my ex husband doesnt share your theory - he is a very much hands on father and my girls are thriving so much under his loving care.

 

[Heath]

Guess you were born too late - this is 2006, not 1950's or earlier eras where fathers were not involved much and believed that only women are responsible for direct care of their kids.

Thank God my ex husband doesnt share your theory - he is a very much hands on father and my girls are thriving so much under his loving care.

Just wait and see people will realize the old fashioned values did work !!!

 

[Gemtun]

Just wait and see people will realize the old fashioned values did work !!!

I dont need to wait and see as I am already a single parent and can see evidence from my ex husband as we have 50-50 physical custody of our daughters.

I have strong evidence with me everyday that hands on fathers are the best and that you cannot judge how good of a parent is by the gender alone but rather the actions/values/morals of that person period.

I think it is you that need to have your head & value system re-examined.

 

[IslandGal]

Are you kidding me????!!!!!!!!!!

There are as many as women as many men who dont know how to take care of kids. I have seen many mothers who have no business being mothers in the first place while I have seen many wonderful fathers.

Gender does not play a role in whether that person makes a great, caring & responsible parent.

You obviously have not gotten out much.

!!!

 

[Heath]

That is because obivously I do not pay much attention to parents and the children.

I am a man.

I just put in what I had to say. That is it.

When I am a father myself then that world will open up naturally, of course.

Being an uncle , I did see a few things that would be a real big help. I saw how my brother worries and talks about the importance of having a good paying job. I think finanical stress is universial for the guys everywhere, even the rich guys got finanical stress, of a different kind too.

 

[Gemtun]

That is because obivously I do not pay much attention to parents and the children.

If you dont pay any attention, THEN you have no right to make such judgements or conclusions without seeing any facts or evidence.

You need to pay attention before you think you are entitled to preach us. Leave this up to experts (parents) not someone like you who never pay attention yet make such unrealistic judgements.

For instance, I dont pay attention to baseball - thus, I know I dont have any good reason to go around making such strong judgements if I have not paid any attention or done my homework or actually experienced. I leave it up to baseball experts to teach me, not the other way around.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Just wait and see people will realize the old fashioned values did work !!!

disagree! Thanks God, you are not my husband...

:jaw: I can´t beleive after read some of your posts here...
I agree with others here about men and babysits... I have seen many men around who are good babysitters.

I can´t see any wrong to have male to babysit.