Looking at others when you are with your partner..

hailstorm100

hailstorm100

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What do you think of it? I honestly think it is
not a big deal, unless they are going overboard
with it.. I don't have this problem, but I know
of others who have.
 
hailstorm100 said:
What do you think of it? I honestly think it is
not a big deal, unless they are going overboard
with it.. I don't have this problem, but I know
of others who have.
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It depends on whom I look at :laugh2:
*j/k*
 
don't bother me.. I know my man is a big old flirt, and I know who he's coming home with, so he can look, and I can look too :)

It's not like he's gonna go after them, ya know?
 
I think its absolutely rude! I went out with this guy , he alway used to say outloud "wow" "wow" at every girl he thought was pretty, it was so annoying. I felt like calling that girl over and say, hey! this guy has something to tell you LOL..
 
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I don't think it's really a problem, as long as my significant other isn't "oogling" the guys.

I've had problems before where I'd be at the mall and I see a woman walk by. I'm not staring at her or looking at her cuz she's hot, but because it got my attention... probably cuz of the flashy clothes she wore.

My ex-girlfriend would yell at me and accuse me of drooling over other women. She would even do it if I looked in another direction for some random reason and she assumes it's because of a woman. :roll:
 
I can look, BUT I do NOT touch. :)
 
Oceanblue7 said:
I think its absolutely rude! I went out with this guy , he alway used to say outloud "wow" "wow" at every girl he thought was pretty, it was so annoying. I felt like calling that girl over and say, hey! this guy has something to tell you LOL..
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you should have!!! to put him on the spot!!! :D
 
i have had it happen to me... when my date or s.o. were "roving their eyes" when a woman passed by and say "wow" with their mouths open... it was SO annoying especially when we were in the middle of a conversation!!! :squint: i almost slapped him to "snap" out of it... but didn't want to cause a scene :giggle:

my bf doesn't do it... one day i asked him why he doesn't do it... he rolled his eyes and said because they are not that important and don't mean a thing to him... because i am HIS MAIN FOCUS!!! :aw: :D
 
Oceanblue7 said:
I think its absolutely rude! I went out with this guy , he alway used to say outloud "wow" "wow" at every girl he thought was pretty, it was so annoying. I felt like calling that girl over and say, hey! this guy has something to tell you LOL..
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Yes, that is rude..
 
FeistyChick said:
you should have!!! to put him on the spot!!! :D
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Yes, Feistychick that would have been funny if I had done that put him on the spot LOL.. that was a long time ago... I hope to find a guy who doesn't do this one .. he be a gentleman :)
 
Oceanblue7 said:
Yes, Feistychick that would have been funny if I had done that put him on the spot LOL.. that was a long time ago... I hope to find a guy who doesn't do this one .. he be a gentleman :)
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Fiesty that would have been funny to put him on the spot at the moment LOL.. this happened along time ago.. now, I hope the next guy is a gentleman :)


hailstorm100 said:
Yes, that is rude..
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yes, it is rude.
 
My wife knows that I will only go home with her and she will only go home with me. I really don't care if she looks at another guy, just as long she don't touch. She is not allowed to visit ex bf cause I don't trust her exs.

Myself, I mostly check out what the gal is wearing and ask my wife if she would allow our daughter to wear that or if she would. I also notice how younger gals look older and older every year. Sometimes, I check out big titties. Those are just eye candy to me. I still love my wifes small titties and they are perfet.
 
My husband and I have no problem looking or "checking" out other people.

My ex-hubby used to accuse me of oogling at other men when we first started dating. I wasnt cuz as a deaf person, I used my eyes to see what's happening in my environment. However, at the time, I didnt understand it so I became paranoid about looking at other people and it got to the point where I was so afraid to look around. Sad, isnt it? I am so glad I left him! I used to feel guilty for something I wasnt even doing in the first place and looking back, that was a form of brainwashing me into kissing his ass. :ugh3:
 
shel90 said:
My husband and I have no problem looking or "checking" out other people.

My ex-hubby used to accuse me of oogling at other men when we first started dating. I wasnt cuz as a deaf person, I used my eyes to see what's happening in my environment. However, at the time, I didnt understand it so I became paranoid about looking at other people and it got to the point where I was so afraid to look around. Sad, isnt it? I am so glad I left him! I used to feel guilty for something I wasnt even doing in the first place and looking back, that was a form of brainwashing me into kissing his ass. :ugh3:
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Glad you got away from that! No need to live that
way! :)
 
I dont like my husband look at hot ladies. He don't like me look at hot mens. We are even so we respect each other.
 
It's okay to look but do not touch. My husband and I look at others every now and then. My ex-husband once told me about a woman where he used to work. He was telling me about her looks and the shape of her body. He told me that it's too bad that she's married. I was pissed. :pissed: He don't think of me or my looks. He's remarried now. NO, she's not drop dead gorgeous.
 
I really don´t care what my hubby look at girls outside, on TV or porn via emails chain, we received from our friends... As long as we didn´t touch them... just look is not harm. My hubby is fanastic of Meg Ryan and Elizabeth Taylor as the same as I am fanastic of Ben Alfeck and Pierce Bronson as well.
 
shel90 said:
My husband and I have no problem looking or "checking" out other people.

My ex-hubby used to accuse me of oogling at other men when we first started dating. I wasnt cuz as a deaf person, I used my eyes to see what's happening in my environment. However, at the time, I didnt understand it so I became paranoid about looking at other people and it got to the point where I was so afraid to look around. Sad, isnt it? I am so glad I left him! I used to feel guilty for something I wasnt even doing in the first place and looking back, that was a form of brainwashing me into kissing his ass. :ugh3:
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Did you know Jealous is a disease? Your ex-husband needs a professional help... Did you know that jealous hurt love and trust relationship.
 
i am sorry but it is a definate NO NO to look at other woman, I have had this issue with my partner ....... I know that a lot of it is my own insecurities.......... I don't feel confident enough to say " ohhh yeah, you look at who you want"
 
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