WhisperHorse
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I was thinking about it a lot and a lot because I went up to meeting for my work, yesterday and today. That man named Joe is wonderful person, he told us everything like.... How to defend yourself, about out of the world, etc like that because I work for blind & deaf people to helping out.
He once told me, "we shouldn't label ourself or them like... 'Deaf', 'Blind', 'Retard', and such like that because we just have one thing for us to become that way. Our names that is who we are, not our labels." He's so wonderful, I like him.
Even, he stood up for deaf people and told hearing people the truth. He is a hearing person, but do know how to sign. I was like geez no way because no one could do that in my face, it's first time... He told hearing people, "Did you know that Deaf People are better than you guys in driving way?" Hearing people shaked their head and he said, "know why?" and there is silent... He said, "Because they use their eyes alot to being careful and more careful." And, he said that he's very proud of people who having one special on them or more than just one, like deaf or blind & deaf or whatever you could name it. Even he admit that he's proud of hearing people also. He taught us alot stuffs what he knew and wised about.
I know how and why people get angry about everything like that... When people want to do something other people, example; A mother killed her own baby. I could know why it happened and how... I do understand their problems. Because I learned that in that meeting and now I know why. You know that your brain have a million and million of "parts" in yours, that saving stuffs in to remember almost everything. Front of your head(Executive Functions) is part front of your brain that is more like thinking, emotional, etc and behind of your head(psychoanalytic unconscious) is part behind your brain near the spinal cord. Their function is that the stuff that you are unaware that will happen, like hurting someone out of the blue. One day, out of the blue you get upset or whatever that cause you to be out of the control and so they would get you in Psychoanalytic Unconscious that you might wouldn't think VERY CLEARLY and will start upset, screaming loudly, might hurt yourself, hurt other people, even kill and such like that. Once, someone is there and they will might get you distract or whatever like that, and you will think again in few minutes after that. It's very serious that it happen to many people, even us. Honest, many thing that I did learn about that stuffs and I do believe that cause people doing that to other people.
I did learn a lot and a lot stuffs from Joe, I'm really enjoying to learn about that. So glad to learn, too.
And one more thing....
You know BTK?
B- Bind = Bind
T- Torture = Punish
K- Kill = Kill
Joe mention that in the meeting to teach us one thing to understand. That man who was BTK to killing people which he already arrested in couple of years ago. He "labeled" himself as BTK. But, Joe made it clear up to us because it's sound right for us. Bind mean; throw you in the room or tie you up or whatever, Punish you know then it could lead to kill... Almost like that man did to his own victims.
Does it make sense? So thank you, and you could learn what I learned.
He once told me, "we shouldn't label ourself or them like... 'Deaf', 'Blind', 'Retard', and such like that because we just have one thing for us to become that way. Our names that is who we are, not our labels." He's so wonderful, I like him.
Even, he stood up for deaf people and told hearing people the truth. He is a hearing person, but do know how to sign. I was like geez no way because no one could do that in my face, it's first time... He told hearing people, "Did you know that Deaf People are better than you guys in driving way?" Hearing people shaked their head and he said, "know why?" and there is silent... He said, "Because they use their eyes alot to being careful and more careful." And, he said that he's very proud of people who having one special on them or more than just one, like deaf or blind & deaf or whatever you could name it. Even he admit that he's proud of hearing people also. He taught us alot stuffs what he knew and wised about.
I know how and why people get angry about everything like that... When people want to do something other people, example; A mother killed her own baby. I could know why it happened and how... I do understand their problems. Because I learned that in that meeting and now I know why. You know that your brain have a million and million of "parts" in yours, that saving stuffs in to remember almost everything. Front of your head(Executive Functions) is part front of your brain that is more like thinking, emotional, etc and behind of your head(psychoanalytic unconscious) is part behind your brain near the spinal cord. Their function is that the stuff that you are unaware that will happen, like hurting someone out of the blue. One day, out of the blue you get upset or whatever that cause you to be out of the control and so they would get you in Psychoanalytic Unconscious that you might wouldn't think VERY CLEARLY and will start upset, screaming loudly, might hurt yourself, hurt other people, even kill and such like that. Once, someone is there and they will might get you distract or whatever like that, and you will think again in few minutes after that. It's very serious that it happen to many people, even us. Honest, many thing that I did learn about that stuffs and I do believe that cause people doing that to other people.
I did learn a lot and a lot stuffs from Joe, I'm really enjoying to learn about that. So glad to learn, too.
And one more thing....
You know BTK?
B- Bind = Bind
T- Torture = Punish
K- Kill = Kill
Joe mention that in the meeting to teach us one thing to understand. That man who was BTK to killing people which he already arrested in couple of years ago. He "labeled" himself as BTK. But, Joe made it clear up to us because it's sound right for us. Bind mean; throw you in the room or tie you up or whatever, Punish you know then it could lead to kill... Almost like that man did to his own victims.
Does it make sense? So thank you, and you could learn what I learned.
Those kids who were murders, some mothers developed a disease called postpartum depression or variety of mental problems, They need to be under supervision while caring for their own children. I am aware that most of the time spouse seems to ignored the signs, then it becomes too late--after a child's life been taken away. If someone has a years of mental problems, postpartum depression, even if medical issue was given, but still need to be supervision. I am aware of the area of the brain become anti-social, and a person becomes aggressive and violent and can lead to murder of someone else's life. The point is, those people who have mental problems would not be the stable person to raise a child or any other children.