Wow, interesting subject because this sounds almost the same thing happened to me. I remembered in deaf school, I had a gf during Jr. High and had to be secret. Her decision because they picked on her for her size. The same students picked on me for my being smart, can talk well like a hearing person.. You cant even tell if I am deaf or not! Anyway, back to this.. in other times, I wanted to date this other girl.. very popular and beautiful nice girl but she refused to give us a chance.. (she s stubborn type).
Well, since I had bad experience in wrong school, I was transferred to public high school over Christmas Break and never looked back at deaf residental school. Then suddenly, I got a letter from a girl from my old deaf school who wanted to date with me. She admitted to me she had crush on me and all.. then she became my gf while I was in public school. Much later, I think after I graduated, my ex gf whom I dated secretly told me so many girls in jr and sr high school were so upset that I left! I didnt know they all had crush on me! OK, I admit I am very good looking and I can see that in my school photos. I heard that my ex got jealous of that girl who send me that letter but also other girls. It gotten so bad that they had a huge fight. She said 5 of those girls fought at same time in the main lobby of the high school wing at the deaf school. I saw blood stains on this horrible 60s/70s green carpet (remember those days?), I gasped! I didnt know I was popular to the girls!! Yes, even the one I had crush on.
Then guess what?? After they went through this, they all became friends and HATED me for leaving the deaf school. I left because of the guys teasing me!
The gay men and lesbian women who went bad experiences are more likely want something alternative. That is understandable. Makes sense because I am still straight and "preferrely" hearing women--somewhat.
Please dont get me wrong. I found out after being in Central America how wonderful people there.. the deaf people loved me!! I saw how they are.. I cried and finally "came home" but to the right crowd.. not with the losers who are still living in my hometown. That is why I do not like those losers in Central NY region. I only have ONE deaf friend living in my area. He didnt tease me at all in school! Thats for a fact.
As for dating, hearing women in my hometown. I rather that than online women. I rather to see eye to eye and see how the personality are.
Well, to your surprise, the very same ex gf whom I dated secretly and fought with those girls passed away March 2003 and I missed her funeral. Thats because the deaf refuse to tell me whats going on!
I tried to be nice with them and offered skating party on friday nights after school. I mean I mainstreamed with hearing students and some deaf students. Some of deaf transferred from my old deaf school and carried on teasing! Jerks.
I do care about deaf but not those losers.
Here is a shocker... my ex whom I had relationship secretly wanted to finish college and marry me. But she was 2 months shy of graduation when she died of heart attack. I recalled in a conversation with her long before she went back to college in 1990s.. she said she still loves me and just needed to finish college first. Then forgotten about her when I dated others..
ILY RC!!!! I sure missed you!!!
You see, I still didnt dump deaf women.. I dumped losers! Those 3 are such losers.. Hey, they missed out guys like me!! Thats too bad!
There was a deaf loser who wanted to marry me just to get a house from her parents. I turned down her proposal! She went on marrying another deaf man who didnt know better. But um.. they are divorced now.. I rest my case!