I once aw an old Black lady picking through a crash can for food and I asked her if she would like me to get her some food , the woman said yes and told where she lived . I showed up at her house next with a bag of food , there a as dozen fresh laid eggs fresh picked veggies and some cheese . The lady asked if I was a Native American and I said 'no ' then wanted to know if I was Spanish . The lady could not believe that a White woman took the time to help her .
When I still worked for the city, there were a lot of homeless some were true others were just bums who didnt want to do anything but get free handouts ( you can tell by the way they act) Almost every time we stopped to fuel up we had "Bums" come up asking for spare change all the time. Once my partner and I encountered a low life scum "bum" saying he was hungry and havent eaten in days and wanted $5 ( bold asking for amounts) so my partner and I just got paid, we told him...
Come inside and get you a sandwich, drink, snack and we will pay for it.
Would you believe this.... He flat out refused. Flat out said to us, I aint going to get a sandwich, ect...ect... I want the cash!
My partner got right in his face and told him to GTFO !!!! He wasnt buying him beer or drugs or any of that stuff... if he is hungry go get something or leave before we call the cops. That guy didnt stick around much longer.
Another time We were fueling and my old neighbor ( a postal carrier) was there (she has been there awhile before we showed up) there was another bum going around vehicle to vehicle asking for spare change. Well apparently she already gave this bum $2, as they said they needed buss fare to get to a doctor or something? Well, she observed this and ran outside yelling to everyone " Dont give that *explective* another penny" then she continued with " It doesnt cost no $50 to ride a GD bus from here to there and back, now leave or Ill have you arrested!"
we understand there are those in need, but to lie and get all you can is wrong, just be honest, youre poor, broke, homeless. but drugs...we are not supporting your habit.
One lady used to stand off the highway, with a sign saying she couldnt feed her kids. Someone called and she was arrested. Turned out she had a night job and made "very good money" but she did lose her kids over it to her ex.
Another bum doing the same claimed to be an ex vet...walking all goofy and crap. I used to drop extra change in his bucket until I seen him in the county just as fine as he could be. I confronted him and told him that the next time I see him panhandling Ill have him arrested ( Ive already took pics and video of him walking just fine with no issues) never seen him again.
I hate that most are able bodied, but because they dont want responsibilities and chose to be homeless but the ones who are truely homeless due to physical or mental states I feel sorry for.