amylynne: No worries. There was misunderstanding from both sides.
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Thank you for your response. And for your sensitivity to and respect for the culture! I'm DEFINITELY learning what that means, haha.
Mewtilation: First of all, you complain about generalized questions, but they were specifically geared to be so in order to not pry into personal matters. That was done intentionally in order to show respect for individuals. In regard to your answers, please allow me to address the nature of some of my questions:
Question 2 - actually not irrelevant. The length of time you have spent in a deaf community (note - not asking how long you have been deaf, just in the community) determines how immersed you are in the culture. Some people have been deaf since birth, but only enter a deaf community once they hit college.
Question 4 - Actually, it doesn't sound stupid to me at all. I would respond to you that something that makes hearing culture unique is that music is an inextricable part of our culture. Everywhere you go - grocery store, theater, friend's houses - wherever, there is always music playing in the background. And growing up in a hearing family, one of our family habits was to listen to certain radio programs every morning. Concerts are a big part of hearing culture too; even if you never personally go to a concert, you will hear all about them from your friends or the popular media. It's part of that music-everywhere thing. Besides, the question was merely to ascertain, again, what your level of involvement in the deaf community is.
Question 5 - yes, I do realize that we are basically the same. However, there are some cultural differences. Again, this is not designed to only address the deaf community as a whole - it is meant to address YOUR deaf community. Individual groups/clubs have various cultures, and I would like to learn more about them. It's like asking a bike club what their ideals and habits are - yes, they are individual people, but there are cultural norms that differ. As you mentioned, there are deaf expos... I would love to hear more about that! What does a deaf expo look like? I have heard from previous searches that it is rude to turn your back on someone due to the visual nature of your language. I have seen many people get angry at being viewed as disabled by some (stupid) members of the hearing community, so viewing your deafness as a norm or an advantage and having others do the same - that's a cultural value. I realize that I am primarily highlighting differences here, but again, this is part of an assignment for a culture class. That's why I asked what makes deaf culture unique... to understand what those differences are.
Question 6 - this was more for people living in other countries. For example, in Mexico, sign language was only officially recognized by their government four years ago, and the general attitude toward the deaf is that they are mentally incompetent or socially unfit. The question is far less relevant in the states, so I can understand your frustration with this one.
Question 8 - Actually, that's the term I would use when addressing any culture. For example, it is culturally sensitive in some parts of Africa to only wave with your right hand, never your left. It is culturally sensitive in most part of the United States to not stare at people, while is some other cultures, staring is a norm. I realize that being deaf is not a handicap.
As for the rest of your answers, thank you so much! That is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for taking the time to answer me, regardless of the sarcasm attached. I really do appreciate your insights and opinions. And I'm sorry that you took offense to my wording or which questions were asked or anything else. I didn't intend my questions to be culturally insensitive (AGAIN, referring to cultural differences, not levels of competence), and I am very sorry that they were.
Reba: You make a very good point, and I am sorry for just barging into this forum and asking questions willy-nilly without taking the time to introduce myself or get to know the forum better. My apologies. Thank you for your insight.
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