Missing my cat Drake :-(

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ladysolitary85

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So awhile back I posted a pic of my maincoone cat Drake, with my ex's black and white cat Moo. I'm really sad because I had made the decision to leave him with my ex because his cat and my cat are best friends and I didn't think that just because things went bad with me and my ex, that they had to be separated. Living with my girlfriend I couldn't bring him along. I said my goodbye to him and left in July. The reason why I couldn't bring him was because there is too many cats here already. I miss him so much though, but I know hes happier where he is. I miss that he would jump on my shoulder and lay with me. I miss that he will give me kisses and cuddle with me. He was my buddy.

All I needed was to vent about it and just let it out.
 
Aw hugs to you! I don't know what to say because you said Drake can't live with you, but I hope you feel better letting you emotions out. Maybe one suggestion, maybe one of the cats living with you now will be sweet enough to cuddle with you. I don't think Drake would mind.:hug:
 
Thanks :) yea my girlfriend's cat Milo (orange cute kitty) comes and cuddles sometimes, but only on his time lol. He tries, its just a adjustment for me.
 
ahhhh it is painful with giving up pet animals,our cat love my husband so much unfortunatly hates my guts yet he owe his life to me,i gvie that bloody cat all love food etc yet he hates women,my other cats love me very much...i hope you get cat access soon
 
Well, believe our cat "Mr. Sid: wouldn't give a damn if I went to hell and back....just as long as his bowl of full of Meow Mix and his treats in the AM....(as if I'm giving him a treat just for waking up!)....He has his good and bad moods, beats up my doggie at random...jumps on and off the bed during the night and waking me up, gets into the candy and dog treat bowl and plays with them all over the house.......gets pissed off whenever I have to go somewhere, hides into one of the cabinets, and jumps out at me whenever I have to go looking for him, thinking that somehow he must have gotten outside.....

He's a mess!...But at times does atempt to give me a kiss...(say what?)...probably just becuz he's done something that he knows he shouldn't do...Ah well....my boys and I do love that Cat anyway. :laugh2:
 
I know how you feel. I remember my last childhood dog staying with my parents and how I missed him.

He lives to be 17 and even got to know my children! But I did keep in mind he had a great life with my parents and was happy, so it was the right thing for him, as I know you feel about your cat.

You can always keep your memories, and I know from experience, you will have other pets in your lifetime that you love just as much.
 
Thanks everyone, I'm just kinda a mess and I know its selfish on my part. My ex sent me a picture of my cat yesterday and caught me off guard I broke down. Trying to deal with this loss.
 
ladysolitary85 said:
So awhile back I posted a pic of my maincoone cat Drake, with my ex's black and white cat Moo. I'm really sad because I had made the decision to leave him with my ex because his cat and my cat are best friends and I didn't think that just because things went bad with me and my ex, that they had to be separated. Living with my girlfriend I couldn't bring him along. I said my goodbye to him and left in July. The reason why I couldn't bring him was because there is too many cats here already. I miss him so much though, but I know hes happier where he is. I miss that he would jump on my shoulder and lay with me. I miss that he will give me kisses and cuddle with me. He was my buddy.

All I needed was to vent about it and just let it out.
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That was an unselfish and very kind thing to do, and it was done with much love and consideration for the cat. Too bad there aren't more people like you.

Laura
 
Lau2046 said:
That was an unselfish and very kind thing to do, and it was done with much love and consideration for the cat. Too bad there aren't more people like you.

Laura
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Thanks Laura :) it was really hard, I'm still kinda feeling heartbroken but I know he's happy and that's all that matters to me. Hes not at a shelter (I rescued him, he was there for 6 months poor guy!) I know my ex will take care of him and loves him too. I just didn't think it was right to not only make the poor boy go through a 2 hr trip to living in a new place with 3 other cats roaming around, while leaving Moo (my ex's cat) feeling alone without her buddy. She used to be very independent and now she's like Drake's big sister. I can't separate that bond it would be wrong.

So my girlfriend told me once we've saved up for our own place ( we have roommates atm) we can look into a pup. She already has a cat and I love cats but I think a pup would be a great new experience to have again.

Just trying to stay strong and think positive about Drake.
 
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