Hmm. I thought you more opinion this matter, pfh.
in the fact government marriages mean nothing. yes.
marriages are a ceremony that is a unity of two people with people to witness it.
They can go get married for all i care about, but goverment? who cares.
Yes, you're right that it is symbolic, but legal marriage also gives the rights for couples to make executive decisions about each other, be present in ER/hospital, financial benefits, etc. All of which is under the jurisdiction of government.
I know. Still too much governmental involvement for my taste.