Bad day whine :(

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Today have such bad day :( Need whine...hope this okay...not usually so self indulgent.

First, my nose hurt very bad. Itch, can't scratch. Throb pain. Can't breathe. Big suck! Lose patience with nose pain. Plus still sick, feel poorly anyway.

Second, fight with Dallas still (again). Hate fight. Make sad, not much together time, hate waste time fight. :( Want no fight!!! How make stop fight?? Anyone know?? Love Dallas very much, tired fights. Wish I know how can fix. :aw:
 
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Nose will heal with time. Annoying now, yes, but it will get better.

Never fun to fight with loved one. Hard when you do not have together time. I know it is hard. When you love someone you just want to be with them. If it feel like they are not making you priority then this is even more difficult.

Is he under stress or pressure with work? Sometimes men lash? out when they have too much on plate to deal with. Trying to be everything to everyone. Add in loved one who needs more time and they can blow.

If do not want to fight then choose to stop. Kiss and cuddle instead. Happy is better than sad and upset. Find compromise.

<squishy hugs>
 
Your nose will heal in time, yes it's annoying right now but it will heal.

Fighting with you partner is stressing I know, if you find yourself fighting just take a step back or move to another room to cool down, then go ask him what's stressing him. That usually works on my end because many men are really bad for freaking out while stressed and he might just need someone to rant to or cuddle with but doesn't know how to ask.

Leave the room and give him time to brew over what you guys were fighting about. Might turn out good or bad but he just might need time to think.

And if that doesn't work, I play the tears card, Lee usually tells me what wrong after he sees that he hurt me somehow. This last option is not the best but it can work if it's the last resort.

Although I can only speak for myself but, if you need to whine or rant, I'm all ears/eyes.
 
I understand you issues problem on tough on health!!I hope be issues tough you
I Hope be you feeling heal!
 
Thanks everyone. Nose little better today. Still sore. :( Still fight. Yuck.
 
I fight with my hubby all the time and the make-ups afterwards are so worth it, if you know what I mean? hehehehehe
 
everyone have bad day u will be fine.. just don't itch your nose just leave it alone and 2nd.. dallas need to make time for you... but obviously he is cranky about something like me.. that scares me that I can be crazy obviously that's why i created this username :P
 
Sunny, me sorry you have bad day. I hope tomorrow better.
 
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