If nothing else I should have at least gotten one-on-one support services to help me in areas I was falling behind in. Particularly, mathematics. Of course my parents forced me to 'learn' by pinning me down and I had to recite the multiplication tables to them before they let me up. I eventually got so scared that the best I could do was draw a blank. I was later called 'slow' by them. I wasn't as smart, and I was embarrassed out in public often when they would tell people I didn't know my multiplication tables. After that my parents would keep me in remedial math classes hoping it would 'help'.
Later when I was in college and being tutored one on one out side of class the teacher just looked at me and said - "You know your algebra, you know your rules, you've just completely missed the basics and I don't know how that happened." I just said "I don't know either, but it's a long story."
I remember begging my parents to get me a tutor during junior high and they said no because they didn't want to waste their money on a lost cause. I guess by that point to them I was 'unteachable'.
It's just hard knowing that a little bit of this, a little bit of that, and everything else just compounded and the situation wasn't helped, it was just covered up for the longest time. As an adult, I can see where I will be struggling with this for the rest of my life.