So laid back guys are no good?
Ever watched the movie, Reality Bites?

No. Not a big movie fan. I take real life as it is![]()
this is how smithr's mind works
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You spelled smithtr wrong.
yupPlus , is your mind a tiny black box?
I learned life by memorizing how it should go. Maybe later Matajan will get better at it if he keeps working to figure it out.

You laughing at me, or Matajan? Please specify.![]()
what you just said about matajan.
Ok then, but do you at all understand that by studying works of fiction you actually can learn about how human behavior works?
I agree at the moment he is doing a lousy job of it, but in theory he might improve with guidance and ridicule doesn't really do anything for either one of you.
agreed. but then - 50%.... we can help. 50%... he has to do it himself.
Based on his posts, it seems like Matajan's parents doesn't sound so fly and are pretty uptight. I wonder if they do know what is going on with their son?
I feel like the OP has a hint of how his mind works....
Art imitating life.
Parents pick a love interest for offspring.
Love interest is rich and went to a good college.
But...
Offspring rejects love interest.
DOES NOT COMPUTE.
Abort, retry, fail?
Retry.
Retry.
Retry.
Retry.