Why do parents snob and wants me find wealth girl?

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My parents who are member of ivy league, country club, and elite club. They seems ask me if I find any girl who is wealth and intelligent girl, sometimes I do not, I am good hearted to find but I can not because I am pretty scared of bring up about meeting people who are not rich. They had high expectations and want me meet rich girls. I had experienced I go party at mansion or club, meet lots of girls but sometimes are really strange like they talked like stuff politicians and money.

if I tell my parents I dated girl who is not rich or not intelligent, it would embrassed. they would accept if I date girl who is rich and smart but why do americans do? remember my parents side descend from europeans but not in england. like you see movie?
 
Maybe they think if you marry a rich girl there won't be any chance she just wants you because your family has money.
 
matajan said:
My parents who are member of ivy league, country club, and elite club. They seems ask me if I find any girl who is wealth and intelligent girl, sometimes I do not, I am good hearted to find but I can not because I am pretty scared of bring up about meeting people who are not rich. They had high expectations and want me meet rich girls. I had experienced I go party at mansion or club, meet lots of girls but sometimes are really strange like they talked like stuff politicians and money.

if I tell my parents I dated girl who is not rich or not intelligent, it would embrassed. they would accept if I date girl who is rich and smart but why do americans do? remember my parents side descend from europeans but not in england. like you see movie?
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Find the true love, simple as that.
 
Your parents wont be living with the girl, wont they? So, I say find someone that YOU love, not them.
 
shel90 said:
Your parents wont be living with the girl, wont they? So, I say find someone that YOU love, not them.
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maybe they want him to find a rich girl to support him so they dont have to pay for him trolling places like AD posting a million threads about finding a rich girl.
 
ncff07 said:
maybe they want him to find a rich girl to support him so they dont have to pay for him trolling places like AD posting a million threads about finding a rich girl.
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I was about to post the exact same thing earlier lol.
 
matajan said:
My parents who are member of ivy league, country club, and elite club. They seems ask me if I find any girl who is wealth and intelligent girl, sometimes I do not, I am good hearted to find but I can not because I am pretty scared of bring up about meeting people who are not rich. They had high expectations and want me meet rich girls. I had experienced I go party at mansion or club, meet lots of girls but sometimes are really strange like they talked like stuff politicians and money.

if I tell my parents I dated girl who is not rich or not intelligent, it would embrassed. they would accept if I date girl who is rich and smart but why do americans do? remember my parents side descend from europeans but not in england. like you see movie?
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if your parents are the upper crust then why did they let you go to gally? you will have to put a bag on your head when you go to the country club. or get your roommate to ear a wig :fly3: and introduce him as your rich beech
 
matajan said:
My parents who are member of ivy league, country club, and elite club. They seems ask me if I find any girl who is wealth and intelligent girl, sometimes I do not... like you see movie?
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you are watching too many movies or reality shows on those "rich" people.
 
If you want to marry a wealthy well educated women (not girl... urgh )
I'd recommend that you stop posting threads "phishing for girls" and buckle down on your school studies so that you get perfect 4.0 GPA on all classes etc.

If a women was interested in you - and they found all the posts that you write here about looking for girls etc ... it is a HUGE turn off and they would dump you before even agreeing to go out. Not only that, they'd tell all their women friends to stay away too.

You sound like all you are interested in is a women who is rich, goes to a "fancy" or prestigious university, is super "hot" etc ... who cares who they ARE as a person .. you just care what they are.

Honestly, by the posts that you've been writing about looking for someone to date/marry etc ... it's abundantly obvious that you're not really ready to look for, or get into a serious relationship.

Focus on school, get top grades, get a good job, be a respectable person, stand up for what YOU want instead of worry about what you're parents want for you - you are an ADULT for heaven sakes!...
...then once you've done all that you'll be able to properly find a women that may meet some (or perhaps most/all) of your "criteria for a potential future spouse"
 
Anij said:
If you want to marry a wealthy well educated women (not girl... urgh )
I'd recommend that you stop posting threads "phishing for girls" and buckle down on your school studies so that you get perfect 4.0 GPA on all classes etc.

If a women was interested in you - and they found all the posts that you write here about looking for girls etc ... it is a HUGE turn off and they would dump you before even agreeing to go out. Not only that, they'd tell all their women friends to stay away too.

You sound like all you are interested in is a women who is rich, goes to a "fancy" or prestigious university, is super "hot" etc ... who cares who they ARE as a person .. you just care what they are.

Honestly, by the posts that you've been writing about looking for someone to date/marry etc ... it's abundantly obvious that you're not really ready to look for, or get into a serious relationship.

Focus on school, get top grades, get a good job, be a respectable person, stand up for what YOU want instead of worry about what you're parents want for you - you are an ADULT for heaven sakes!...
...then once you've done all that you'll be able to properly find a women that may meet some (or perhaps most/all) of your "criteria for a potential future spouse"
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You rock Anij!
 
not again.

dude, we're humans. money is just papers. clothes is just fabrics, fancy places is just building on the grounds is where we live on- earth.

must be upper class? so what.

you continues doing that, ladies aint come to you. if you lie, they wont come to you at all!

be honest, man
 
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