Body Found in House Full of Garbage

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Good. Now, we're clear.
 
kokonut said:
Good. Now, we're clear.
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it was a sarcasm.... in case you didn't notice. :wave:

you didn't answer my question. so I ask again - "and who help them do that?"
 
Jiro said:
it was a sarcasm.... in case you didn't notice. :wave:

you didn't answer my question. so I ask again - "and who help them do that?"
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Sarcasm? Did you notice how I replied?

The subject was about forgiveness. You can provide help but unless you're that victim who were violated by that same person then other people are in no position to offer forgiveness for that perpetrator. There is a stark difference here.
 
kokonut said:
Sarcasm? Did you notice how I replied?

The subject was about forgiveness. You can provide help but unless you're that victim who were violated by that same person then other people are in no position to offer forgiveness for that perpetrator. There is a stark difference here.
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and Oprah was the victim of abuse. You do know that we're talking about her, not me. :)

You just admit that forgiving is fine and therapeutic. That is what Oprah is doing. To encourage women to do same. It's up to them to do it or not.
 
Jiro said:
and Oprah was the victim of abuse. You do know that we're talking about her, not me. :)

You just admit that forgiving is fine and therapeutic. That is what Oprah is doing. To encourage women to do same. It's up to them to do it or not.
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So, Oprah was a victim of that pedo on her show who committed unmentionable acts against Oprah when she was little? If that is not the case, she is not in the position to forgive him but the victim.

Souggy said "Oprah forgives pedophiles" (plural - how many are we talking about and who?).
 
Wow! That's terrible and sick...

I watched on Oprah's show today, and she talked about two hoarders. A psychologist in her auditorium said that some people have bipolar that could lead to be a hoarder. There are many types of hoarders such as they lost the love ones, stress from a job, hate themselves, lazy, and etc.

Maybe, many deafies have the hoard problem :roll: because I saw behind their background that have a lot of junk when I talked on the videophone, or even video clips from a deaf website. That's really gross!
 
Frisky & Souggy - Option: Ignore. Cover your eyes like one of the 3 wise monkeys. :)
 
souggy said:
Hoarding does not indicate someone is unstable since there are many people from different walks of life.

I wish I know what made this woman tick, like is it a form of OCD-type disorder, an extreme case of OCPD, or an ADD-type with a perfectionist complex... Whatever the case is, we can rule out dementia and few other causes if she has been struggling with this all her life, and is a former psychologist.

It"s not a pretty ending... but you know... everyone got their own personal hell in their own homes.
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A woman that lived in my building was Hoarding . she had 2 bedrooms that could not be walked in as there was so much crap in them ! She was also saving her shit! It was all over her bathroom walls! She would dump a real cheap
prefume all over her apartment to cover the smell of the shit! It was horrible! I did not know how bad it was in there until she moved out!
I would had called the health department if I knew what the place looked like!
 
souggy said:
Right. I was just pointing out the hypocrisy.

And who in their right mind would interpret banjo's posts as such? Geez, he saying that Oprah understood that things run in cycles.
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Exactly. I understood completely your intent. :)

To answer your question, either someone who is attempting to intentionally twist context in order to settle a personal vendetta (overly vindictive person), or someone suffering from sexual dysfunction to the degree that they see sexual meaning in everything. Who knows which one?
 
kokonut said:
Forgiving is fine quite therapeutic but it's the victims of a crime who are the ones to forgive the perpetrators.
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You evidently have a distorted view of forgiveness. Forgiveness is for the victim, not the perpetrator. It releases the victim from living under the power of the perpetrator long after the incident has been finished. It provides the victim with closure and empowerment to resume control of their own life. When a victim forgives, it is for their own benefit, not that of the person who caused them harm.
 
kokonut said:
Forgiveness to his/her perpetrator starts with the actual victim of that crime.
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Not necessarily. There is also such a thing as self forgiveness, and that is what Oprah was referring to with the amnesty granted. You really see things far too narrowly.
 
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