Body Found in House Full of Garbage

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Banjo said:
Keep in mind that Oprah also was a victim of sexual abuse when she was a child, and yes, it can be a cycle. It does run in some families until somebody manages to break the cycle.
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except some of these people chose not to break it. The only way to break it is to prevent it from ever happening.
 
No spin because I asked a question. Your response simply dangles. After all, you did say about reading between the line "....unable to not read between the lines." Either you are saying it or you are not.
 
This disorder probably what helped her to help other. I'm sure she is very understanding with other people.

oh, I think one of the reason people leave trash around is because they may actually have a germ phobia. They may not want to get their hand into trash and dirty dishes. None of us do, but we do it anyway (other than it is boring and we rather do other things).
 
kokonut said:
No spin because I asked a question. Your response simply dangles. After all, you did say about reading between the line "....unable to not read between the lines." Either you are saying it or you are not.
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You're reading between the lines, only nothing is there for you to read.

I mostly certainly did not say that Oprah was a child molester. So I am not saying it to start with. You're the one who said it in the form of a question, only it wasn't a real question. Just a rhetorical one. A bad one, I must say.

Therefore, no need for a clarification. You put the words into my mouth. You are the one being dishonest, always been. You made a poor attempt at twisting my words around. You are notorious for putting words into people's mouths here at Alldeaf.

As usual, you're just grasping at the straws.
 
Banjo said:
Keep in mind that Oprah also was a victim of sexual abuse when she was a child, and yes, it can be a cycle. It does run in some families until somebody manages to break the cycle.
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Absolutely. People are getting fat too judgemental regarding issues on which they have very little to no understanding.
 
Banjo said:
I made a response to one of Souggy's posts, I was quite clear on what I said. There is no need to re-clarify what I said. It's you who is putting a spin on my words.

(shrugs)

Hardly dishonest at all.
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Of course your response was clear and concise. Simply because one is attempting to twist your words and insert meaning toserve their own purpose does not mean that it wasn't. The problem lies with the one who is attempting to misrepresent your post.
 
jillio said:
Absolutely. People are getting fat too judgemental regarding issues on which they have very little to no understanding.
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Right. I was just pointing out the hypocrisy.

And who in their right mind would interpret banjo's posts as such? Geez, he saying that Oprah understood that things run in cycles.
 
Banjo said:
You're reading between the lines, only nothing is there for you to read.

I mostly certainly did not say that Oprah was a child molester. So I am not saying it to start with. You're the one who said it in the form of a question, only it wasn't a real question. Just a rhetorical one. A bad one, I must say.

Therefore, no need for a clarification. You put the words into my mouth. You are the one being dishonest, always been. You made a poor attempt at twisting my words around. You are notorious for putting words into people's mouths here at Alldeaf.

As usual, you're just grasping at the straws.
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Thank you for that clarification. The question remains is why she "forgave" that pedo? It's the victims who are the ones to forgive and move on.
 
Bloody hell, kokonut! It's a form of therapy! It's not a formal thing.

LIke... relating to the original topic. Some hoarders get really stressed out and keep doing the same thing over and over again, until someone give them amnesty, which enable the hoarders to let go of his or her stuff (or animals) without fear of repercussions. then usually the said hoarder doesn't repeat it again and keep their life straight.
 
souggy said:
Bloody hell, kokonut! It's a form of therapy! It's not a formal thing.

LIke... relating to the original topic. Some hoarders get really stressed out and keep doing the same thing over and over again, until someone give them amnesty, which enable the hoarders to let go of his or her stuff (or animals) without fear of repercussions. then usually the said hoarder doesn't repeat it again and keep their life straight.
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That's fine and quiet important to do so. Which is why I asked about the "forgiving" part when you said this:

You know society is messed up when Oprah forgives pedophiles, yet condemn hoarders.
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You said it in the plural sense, too.
 
Forgiving is fine quite therapeutic but it's the victims of a crime who are the ones to forgive the perpetrators.
 
kokonut said:
Forgiving is fine quite therapeutic but it's the victims of a crime who are the ones to forgive the perpetrators.
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and who help them do that?
 
kokonut, you didn't see the episode. So why are you launching an inquisition?


He was convicted once. He wasn't a repeat-offender. He doesn't deserve to have his crime forgiven. The crime wasn't forgiven. Doesn't take half a brain to figure out she gave him amnesty for acting upon what was wrongly bestowed onto him by his father (or stepdad, forgot) and so on.

So stop it. I only casually remarked about this because of the double-standards of how people treat "messies" and "clutterers." if you have nothing to say about hoarders, why continue de-railing the thread?
 
Forgiveness to his/her perpetrator starts with the actual victim of that crime.
 
souggy said:
kokonut, you didn't see the episode. So why are you launching an inquisition?


He was convicted once. He wasn't a repeat-offender. He doesn't deserve to have his crime forgiven. The crime wasn't forgiven. Doesn't take half a brain to figure out she gave him amnesty for acting upon what was wrongly bestowed onto him by his father (or stepdad, forgot) and so on.

So stop it. I only casually remarked about his because of the double-standards of how people treat "messies" and "clutterers." if you have nothing to say about hoarders, why continue de-railing the thread?
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It was YOU brought up this Oprah stuff saying she forgave pedoes (in plural, too). So, what I'm I to think but ask questions and more clarifications??
 
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