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DogLover

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Hi :wave:

I would like to ask you what do you think of this and do a real friend do this?

To make a story short:

I got call from my friend told me about the person told my friend about me, accused me that I have been harassed other person which I did not do that.

So, I approached this person and ask if I would like to talk to the person about it. I felt that the person should hear my side of story.

The person replied back to me say "I don't want to hear it and don't want to involved. want me to stop bothering other person and leave them alone"

What is hell?! In my mind... If the person don't want to be involved or hear it why the person pass it to my friend instead directly to me?

That means the person is practically involved period because if the person don't want to be involved, should stay inside and keep quiet.

This person, I had not backstab and show respect of this person but the person went around and backstab me. It doesn't make any sense.

What do you think of this story? Is it a real friend would do that? I blunt this person "If you don't want to be involved, then why you tell them (My friend) in the first place?" :shock:

Wow - It is very hard to trust anyone nowadays... What the friendship actually means? :hmm:

Thanks...
 
I don't like friends going behind my back... I tend to cut off those relationships because they aren't worth the trust! Who knows, what else they could be up to behind your back...
 
JamieLynn said:
I don't like friends going behind my back... I tend to cut off those relationships because they aren't worth the trust! Who knows, what else they could be up to behind your back...
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JamieLynn -

Thanks for reply and I know the feelings...

Gotta to be cautious who you talk to or trust toward to. :)
 
Yeah, I know the feeling...I have been there before, damn these people.
 
These people are the people who thinks I am a bona fide asshole. (I hope there is a censorship system implemented.)

Once I get a hint of drama, I cut them off from my life completely. No more issues that way.

As of this week, I have realized I've forgotten their names as well. That is the way I cut them out.

Find better friends. They're one in a million. It's worth the time finding them.
 
I am sorry you went thru. :hug:
Me, too, I don't like anyone to backstab me. I thanked one of ADers for telling me that. Yes, it sure hurts my feelings. They don't know anything about me.
 
Thanks all...

I'd prefer to be around anyone who is able to ask directly and find out what is going on or stay neutral than go out and say something to other person, or do a third-party message to pass to me.

Don't you hate it when a person who don't know you very well and act like know you very well but not?

Again, Thanks..
 
DogLover said:
Thanks all...

I'd prefer to be around anyone who is able to ask directly and find out what is going on or stay neutral than go out and say something to other person, or do a third-party message to pass to me.

Don't you hate it when a person who don't know you very well and act like know you very well but not?

Again, Thanks..
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No, i don't hate it. I laugh at them.
 
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