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Yemeni girl, 12, dies in painful childbirth
AMMAN, Jordan (CNN) -- A 12-year-old Yemeni girl, who was forced into marriage, died during a painful childbirth that also killed her baby, a children's rights group said Monday.

Fawziya Ammodi struggled for three days in labor, before dying of severe bleeding at a hospital on Friday, said the Seyaj Organization for the Protection of Children.

"Although the cause of her death was lack of medical care, the real case was the lack of education in Yemen and the fact that child marriages keep happening," said Seyaj President Ahmed al-Qureshi.

Born into an impoverished family in Hodeidah, Fawziya was forced to drop out of school and married off to a 24-year-old man last year, al-Qureshi said.

Child brides are commonplace in Yemen, especially in the Red Sea Coast where tribal customs hold sway. Hodeidah is the fourth largest city in Yemen and an important port.

More than half of all young Yemeni girls are married off before the age of 18 -- many times to older men, some with more than one wife, a study by Sanaa University found.

While it was not immediately known why Fawziya's parents married her off, the reasons vary. Sometimes, financially-strapped parents offer up their daughters for hefty dowries.

Marriage means the girls are no longer a financial or moral burden to their parents. And often, parents will extract a promise from the husband to wait until the girl is older to consummate the marriage.

The issue of Yemeni child brides came to the forefront in 2008 with 10-year-old Nujood Ali.

She was pulled out of school and married to a man who beat and raped her within weeks of the ceremony.

To escape, Nujood hailed a taxi -- the first time in her life -- to get across town to the central courthouse where she sat on a bench and demanded to see a judge.

After a well-publicized trial, she was granted a divorce.

The Yemeni parliament tried in February to pass a law, setting the minimum marriage age at 17. But the measure has not reached the president because many parliamentarians argued it violates sharia, or Islamic law, which does not stipulate a minimum age.

this is precisely why abortion should continue to remain an option. poor girl...
 
Abortion won't prevent child-bride "marriages" and the raping of the poor girls.
 
Abortion won't prevent child-bride "marriages" and the raping of the poor girls.

point is - she was too young to give birth. What about girls of similar age in USA? If she was raped by a family member or others, she would have died if forced to give birth.
 
A child (who becomes pregnant because of incest) or any woman/child who has been raped....abortion is OK in my book....
 
Abortion won't prevent child-bride "marriages" and the raping of the poor girls.

What´s your solution for 12 years old girl if you reject fetus removal?

Yes, I agree with Jiro and rockin'robin on this.


I am being pissed as I read the article... I feel pain for poor girl... :(
 
:eek2::eek2::eek2:!!!

That is just awful.

I agree abortion should definitely be an option for any rape or incest cases.
 
I guess I will never "understand" traditions or whatever you want to call it where parents give their daughters away for marriage! No matter how old the girls/women are. Forced marriage is so WRONG!

Abortion is not going to solve this problem!

I feel so terrible for that little girl... my god! 12 years old! :shock:
 
I guess I will never "understand" traditions or whatever you want to call it where parents give their daughters away for marriage! No matter how old the girls/women are. Forced marriage is so WRONG!

Um... it wasn't that long ago (150-300 years ago) that Europeans had forced marriage as well. All forced marriages are strictly economical. Actually, if you break it down... most marriages prior to 1950s or 1960s were strictly economical.

It is only a recent development that marriage has been romanticized as something two people make a commitment to if they are in "love."
 
Um... it wasn't that long ago (150-300 years ago) that Europeans had forced marriage as well. All forced marriages are strictly economical. Actually, if you break it down... most marriages prior to 1950s or 1960s were strictly economical.

It is only a recent development that marriage has been romanticized as something two people make a commitment to if they are in "love."

I'm fully aware of that :ty: ... I'm just glad that I have the chance to be free and marry whomever I want to live with happily ever after :D

To me it just feels weird to know that such culture still exist whether it is in the Middle East, Africa or wherever around the world. Just the idea that I would have to marry a guy I don't know and then at such young age, being raped / forced to sex is just plain disgusting...
 
I'm fully aware of that :ty: ... I'm just glad that I have the chance to be free and marry whomever I want to live with happily ever after :D

To me it just feels weird to know that such culture still exist whether it is in the Middle East, Africa or wherever around the world. Just the idea that I would have to marry a guy I don't know and then at such young age, being raped / forced to sex is just plain disgusting...

The funny thing about globalization is... we get riled up about things that don't affect us or are of little importance to us, yet we demand sovereignty and respect for our own culture. Yet, when something happen to us, we brush it off.
 
You're correct, souggy. Women were property and marriage was a property arrangement. I'm grateful that I didn't live as a woman back then!

Before we get too smug, note the following:

*The United States teenage birth rate of 52.1 is the highest in the
developed world – and about four times the European Union
average.

*The United Kingdom has the highest teenage birth rate in Europe.

http://www.unicef-irc.org/publications/pdf/repcard3e.pdf

The reason that we're not seeing cases like this one in the U.S. is because of medical intervention. There are girls getting pregnant in middle school in the U.S. In some cases, the father is an adult.
 
I think it's awful no matter where it happens or why. 12 year old girls shouldn't have to deal with pregnancy, rape, marriage, or any of that.
 
either medical in that country isn't great, girl is no condition to carry in womb.

Otherwise, abortion may be different to unknown afterward.
 
point is - she was too young to give birth. What about girls of similar age in USA? If she was raped by a family member or others, she would have died if forced to give birth.
The point is, she was too young to be given in marriage to the guy who impregnated her.

Even if abortion was legal in Yemen, do you seriously believe her husband would have allowed her to get one? If she somehow was able to get an abortion without his permission do you believe he would have let her live?

The focus should be on child brides. Even if they don't become pregnant at a young age, they are abused. How will abortion stop that?
 
What´s your solution for 12 years old girl if you reject fetus removal?

Yes, I agree with Jiro and rockin'robin on this.


I am being pissed as I read the article... I feel pain for poor girl... :(
Sigh . . . the topic is the abuse of child brides. Abortion is no solution for the abuse of girls who are used as property by their families and husbands.

The question is, what's your solution for 12-year-old girls who are sold to older men to abuse sexually?
 
Um... it wasn't that long ago (150-300 years ago) that Europeans had forced marriage as well. All forced marriages are strictly economical. Actually, if you break it down... most marriages prior to 1950s or 1960s were strictly economical.

It is only a recent development that marriage has been romanticized as something two people make a commitment to if they are in "love."
1950s or 1960s? Are you sure you have the correct century?
 
12 years old girl is way too young for a heavy responsiblities of being forced to get married, abused, raped and died. :(
 
1950s or 1960s? Are you sure you have the correct century?

I wasn't talking about forced marriage. More like-- if you want a house or own land, you would need to marry since women weren't allowed to purchase property in certain part of the world. Things like having a bank account required having a man's signature to get your own account and so on.

The only reason why my grandmother married my grandfather in 1942 was because she wanted his war pension (if he was killed in action in Europe) and to be able to get a house in her own name since they required joint signatures at the time-- or at least his name's only.

My mom recall that women weren't really allowed to have their own bank accounts until 1970-something without requiring a husband's or father's signature. She was thankful for the feminist movement for taking off during the counterculture revolution.
 
I wasn't talking about forced marriage. More like-- if you want a house or own land, you would need to marry since women weren't allowed to purchase property in certain part of the world. Things like having a bank account required having a man's signature to get your own account and so on.
I see. You weren't referring to the United States. Thanks for the clarification.
 
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