Why does women have bad names but not men??

Maria said:
Interesting names! :lol:

Oh, well.... we , women are STILL part of men and they can not get rid of us, the women! :giggle: These names are part of men as well. :P
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Bingo! Maria....lol!!
So really, the men are no better than women...grrrr!
lol!!
 
Defee said:
What i really mean is that women is looked down worse than
men, like they are lower than dirt, when men commit the
same sin, so really men are no better than women, heh!
Society is like that, they treat women like dirt when they commit
bad sins but men is just as bad too, but they dont treat men
bad so why the difference???:squint:
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its called sexism, men have more excuses for themselves than women do.

in the same way, hearing people have more excuse for themselves than deaf do, (hearism) like if dog romp loosely in the park (dogs own personality) and if the dog handler is a deafie , hearings scoll the deaf! rather than say something like cute dog, what things are you trying to curb this bethaviour , like hearing to hearing talks about dogs but when they see DEAF person, its like , 'you dont deserve to have a dog, - you must prove you have full control of it/him/her!' that's hearism, attitudes or actions are those against deaf or hoh people on grounds of the hearing ability status. While it may not be explicit, being assumed and inferior as part of [hearing] culture. Similairly having possessing greater command on English among hoh/Deaf crowd have show up certain behaviours which arrogance is a form of hearism, this is actually already coined as audism.
interesting about differing rules and standards of name-calling it really is about rules of gender, and often it serves to keep alive the sexual platform that is men above women, and men will always have excuses to berate women.

However, men DO get thrashed MORE when it comes to sexuality, especially regarding homosexuality, where as lesbians is given a easier time, for some reasons, perhaps pornography is part of it, male domination to enjoy watching 2 women making out to each other is approved while in mainstream society , porn with 2 mens having sex is looked down, even equated with disgust, but or 2 women it is percieved as 2 beautiful lovers, Probably alot to do with popular male fantasy of multiple partners?

I reckon PC talk has alot to do with reproduction of sexism it is just get more subtle and more sophisciated(sp?).

cheers
 
Defee said:
Good question.but if you and your friend or a date, it would be
rude to call the prostitute a name, wouldnt it?
And some people are more sensitive to name calling, ya know?
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I know it would be considered rude, but whether a person does call names or not... which gender would be more likely to be offended by a prostitute that they pass by?
 
VamPyroX said:
I know it would be considered rude, but whether a person does call names or not... which gender would be more likely to be offended by a prostitute that they pass by?
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Oh i get your point...i would say women would be more offended.
I would be offended if i see a prostitute because it is wrong
and sinful for women but men are just as bad...they "whore"
too just like women. Its just the women they look down and
get bad reputation but not men, so why? you understand what
im trying to get my point cross?
 
Defee said:
Oh i get your point...i would say women would be more offended.
I would be offended if i see a prostitute because it is wrong
and sinful for women but men are just as bad...they "whore"
too just like women. Its just the women they look down and
get bad reputation but not men, so why? you understand what
im trying to get my point cross?
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I guess, men taught women how to behave bad. They treated women like shyt or whatever that made women to behave this way. Oh, I know some women don't give a f**k about what men say or think or feel, dependin' how they treat women. If, men treat women nice, then maybe women will say nice things to them. It's all about who they are individually.

Sometimes women decide wanting to be prostitutes just because, their spouses made them do it when their spouses don't work or need their money for drugs. It's all about " abuses " mentally, physically, emotionally or all of them. Sometimes women have no resources to support themselves due to bad history or record, say how many times they quit or are not qualified to get a job. Prostitution is the only last restort - IMO.
 
LOL, I have wondered this for a long time. I think there is no real reason whatsoever other than in the past it used to be so difficult for women, so it appears to continue. I say we should start calling them sluts when you hear them doing dirty behaviors! LOL

Men think women should control themselves, but then how can women control themselves if men want to get laid all the time????? That is puzzling! What other women out there woudln't be called slut? Do you see where I am coming from?
 
Defee said:
Oh i get your point...i would say women would be more offended.
I would be offended if i see a prostitute because it is wrong
and sinful for women but men are just as bad...they "whore"
too just like women. Its just the women they look down and
get bad reputation but not men, so why? you understand what
im trying to get my point cross?
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It's more sinful to create situations where women feel forced to sell their bodies.

It's more sinful to create situations where people starve and/or go without basic necessities.
 
Maria said:
I guess, men taught women how to behave bad. They treated women like shyt or whatever that made women to behave this way. Oh, I know some women don't give a f**k about what men say or think or feel, dependin' how they treat women. If, men treat women nice, then maybe women will say nice things to them. It's all about who they are individually.
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And some women have issues if they are going to let their past experiences with men, cloud their decision-making. I have dealt with many female headcases that simply could not grow up and get over the fact that they've been spending too much time with assholes. I personally give up on women as a result of dealing with these headcases.

Simply blaming men for the plight of women doesn't work. That's even more sexist because it makes the assumption that women are helpless and need to be influenced by men in order to get anywhere.
 
Ok thank you all for your interesting opinions/inputs
but still doesnt quite answer my question..lol!

Men still dont get reputations like women.......*sigh*....
thats my entire point....
 
BradB08 said:
And some women have issues if they are going to let their past experiences with men, cloud their decision-making. I have dealt with many female headcases that simply could not grow up and get over the fact that they've been spending too much time with assholes. I personally give up on women as a result of dealing with these headcases.

Simply blaming men for the plight of women doesn't work. That's even more sexist because it makes the assumption that women are helpless and need to be influenced by men in order to get anywhere.
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I think women want to please their man, but their man lack committment. Women try so hard to please them. There are the opposite type of this, of course.
 
Brad,
Oh, yeah if they want women for their own pleasure, then they better be nice to women or treat them like they are their queen.

Use your new tactics than the " old " tactics, men! Maybe, it does the trick to help women to " think " better and live today rather than in the past... hmm ? :D

Oh, I forgot to add : What happened to communicate skills nowdays ?
 
I'm not treating a woman like a queen.

I don't expect to be treated like a king.

Expecting such treatment shows that you have self-esteem issues and/or you are full of yourself. Self-esteem requires a balance and expecting to be treated like a king/queen or feeling bad about yourself all the time, are the high and low extremes respectively of self-esteem.
 
Woman opression can be traced back to bible.

1 Samuel 18:25-27 Women are rewarded Foreskins
1 Corinthians 11:3-9 Man is superior to Women
1 Corinthians 14: 34-35 Woman remain silent
Espheisan 5: 22-24 Women must obey and sumbit to Men
1 Timothy chapter 2 Women remain shut up.
 
Buffalo said:
gigolo, cheater

The trouble is that men tend to see playing field as something positive as it shouts "manly". I really wish they don't see it that way in this age of HIV/AIDS.

There are negative words for men that has mostly nothing to do with their sexuality like yellow, cowardly, sissy (anything that make them look like feminine), etc.
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Point well made. Anything to do with femininity is considered weak... And if women behave like some men by sleeping around, they get called sluts or worse.
 
BradB08 said:
I'm not treating a woman like a queen.

I don't expect to be treated like a king.

Expecting such treatment shows that you have self-esteem issues and/or you are full of yourself. Self-esteem requires a balance and expecting to be treated like a king/queen or feeling bad about yourself all the time, are the high and low extremes respectively of self-esteem.
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I don't think you understand about women. If, you want women to have their " self-esteem " better, then you have to provide them their needs. Their needs are : support, security and trust. Men need to improve their communication skills in order to help women to communicate better. It's a man's job to provide the needs, not woman's.

But, if you want to give them any shyt, then you are creatin' problems for them to cause the problems.
 
Maria said:
I don't think you understand about women. If, you want women to have their " self-esteem " better, then you have to provide them their needs. Their needs are : support, security and trust. Men need to improve their communication skills in order to help women to communicate better. It's a man's job to provide the needs, not woman's.

But, if you want to give them any shyt, then you are creatin' problems for them to cause the problems.
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I thought it was suppose to be a two way street?

Men want the same thing.
 
Maria said:
Okay, care to tell me which one is MORE vulnerable and fragile - men or women ?
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Nonsense. Both are same. Women should get pass just because they re weaker than men? Shame on you. You should be proud of being strong woman instead of weak woman.
 
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