I need tell you something.

lilylover72 · 09-17-2008, 07:34 PM

I moved to Utah from Colorado because I want to get divorce. I left my husband for good reasons.

I was suffering with him for many years. my love was gone. I cannot stay with him that my love is gone. I don't feel any emotion that I left him. I still feel so sad that I miss my son. I cannot take my son with me or my jerk husband will hurt me. I let him have him and he need learn to be father. Long story. I dont want tell blah blah

I am doing okay.

WhisperHorse · 09-17-2008, 07:38 PM

Aw, I'm sorry.

I hope you will do well, but you can get your son with court? But it's your choose. We're here for you

Pepsi · 09-17-2008, 07:39 PM

I feel bad for you I know how you feel hang in there and everything will work out for you, I hope you don't mind me saying this I think you should have your husband put in jail for trying to hurt you and don't let him keep you from your son.

JClarke · 09-17-2008, 07:53 PM

I am sorry to hear this, I have been seeing some related divorces around the forum lately. What is happening to us?

lilylover72 · 09-17-2008, 08:02 PM

Thank you for support. I want to my jerk husband have full custody of my son. I have a right visit him for hoildays and summer.

LovelyBlkGal · 09-17-2008, 08:06 PM

Oucheis i m sorry heard about happen to ur marriage but good thing that you has to get out of marriage and move on ur new life i can understand how feel and hang in there

Cheri · 09-17-2008, 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lilylover72

I moved to Utah from Colorado because I want to get divorce. I left my husband for good reasons.

I was suffering with him for many years. my love was gone. I cannot stay with him that my love is gone. I don't feel any emotion that I left him. I still feel so sad that I miss my son. I cannot take my son with me or my jerk husband will hurt me. I let him have him and he need learn to be father. Long story. I dont want tell blah blah

I am doing okay.

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. You know where to find me if you need someone to talk to.

NorCal20 · 09-17-2008, 08:09 PM

be strong, ma'am. stand up what you believe in. Dont give up and son needs mother.

Nathan · 09-17-2008, 08:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jacob

I am sorry to hear this, I have been seeing some related divorces around the forum lately. What is happening to us?

Yup me too. Maybe their loves one are not what they seem or their love for others have gone. I understand their pains, been there done that. Life is bitch sometimes

Nathan · 09-17-2008, 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lilylover72

I moved to Utah from Colorado because I want to get divorce. I left my husband for good reasons.

I was suffering with him for many years. my love was gone. I cannot stay with him that my love is gone. I don't feel any emotion that I left him. I still feel so sad that I miss my son. I cannot take my son with me or my jerk husband will hurt me. I let him have him and he need learn to be father. Long story. I dont want tell blah blah

I am doing okay.

I'm sorry about that. We are here for you. However you have the rights to claim your son in court as long you have faith and mothering to your son. Ever if he hits you, it's a one way ticket to jail for him.

JClarke · 09-17-2008, 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nathan

Yup me too. Maybe their loves one are not what they seem or their love for others have gone. I understand their pains, been there done that. Life is bitch sometimes

I agree

LakeTahoe · 09-17-2008, 08:42 PM

Awww I am sorry that you have to go thru that!

David · 09-17-2008, 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lilylover72

I moved to Utah from Colorado because I want to get divorce. I left my husband for good reasons.

I was suffering with him for many years. my love was gone. I cannot stay with him that my love is gone. I don't feel any emotion that I left him. I still feel so sad that I miss my son. I cannot take my son with me or my jerk husband will hurt me. I let him have him and he need learn to be father. Long story. I dont want tell blah blah

I am doing okay.

I wish you all the best.

***Jolie77*** · 09-17-2008, 08:56 PM

It's not going to be easy but, do stay strong, Lilylover

~♥~Pinky~♥~ · 09-17-2008, 09:03 PM

Oh no. I am sorry to hear.

Nathan · 09-17-2008, 09:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by David

I wish you all the best.

Btw David, which reminds me, I was looking for your thread "I lost her..." and can't seems to find it. I assured it was deleted?

hohDougRN · 09-17-2008, 10:17 PM

Lily that so sad to happen to you. lost love and broken heart are the worst things that can happen on earth (yes, even death of loved one in my opinion) I hope you have family or friends to help you to get through this.

Bebonang · 09-17-2008, 10:47 PM

Lily, I am sorry about your bad marriage and losing your son to your husband. I am wondering if you are saying that you are willing to let him keep your son because your son is a male not because your husband threaten you. If you want to keep your son very badly, then you should fight for the right to have your son live with you and still have your husband come and see him on holidays and summer. But if you don't want to keep your son, then that is okay as long as you are fine with the holidays and summer to visit your son. Also one question, do you have family living in Colorado? It is important to have family be there for you and be on your side. Keep your chin up and we are here for you.

Bottesini · 09-17-2008, 11:16 PM

I am very sorry to hear about your problems in your marriage.

Miss-Delectable · 09-17-2008, 11:24 PM

Wish you all the best in starting life anew after divorce.

ArkieGal · 09-17-2008, 11:28 PM

Lily, I am so sorry to hear. I know how much you love your son and you miss him. I hope you will work out to get your son back. That's your choice.

lilylover72 · 09-18-2008, 11:23 AM

Guess what, My mom and i have huge problem that she want me get back to my jerk man. I told her that I cannot because I don't love him at all. She is expecting me stay wtih him for my son's sake. No way That is so crazy because He did hurt me several times. I am finished with him. My son did same thing to me and realize that I have to stop this.

highlands · 09-18-2008, 11:26 AM

lilylover72 , I hope you could sort out your problem in a way you feel comfortable.

Sharky99 · 09-18-2008, 01:25 PM

Lilylover.. I do hope ya will be able to have a fresh start on your new life in your new place and maybe it would be a good idea to have your son with ya instead of your soon to be ex hubby.. he probably wont be a good choice and what if he hit your son out of frustration over ya? It would be possible for that to happen so go get your son brought in your custody full time...

Phillips · 09-18-2008, 01:58 PM

Oh I am so Sorry

If you want talking to me on vp ok

Pm you privately

Sunshinelady · 09-18-2008, 04:51 PM

lilylover, I am glad that you are serious to decided, so you leave both of them. your husband have to learn alone with his son. I don't want see someone get suffering and lonely. it is enough. I agree with you, what your mom said that you should stay with your husband, but your love is gone. "POSSIBLE TO LIVE WITH UR HUSBAND FOREVER, IF YOUR LOVE IS GONE???? NO WAY!!!!!
I am proud of you. oh well, i know divorce always hurt, but in someday will be fine.

Koala · 09-18-2008, 05:32 PM

lilylover, I am sorry about the situation you are in. You are doing the right thing by leaving him if all fails. There is no point staying in a loveless marriage. I wish you all the best for the better future ahead for you and peace. Please be strong and don't let your hubby bother you with anything. Hang in there, girl.

09-17-2008, 07:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
lilylover72 I love purple! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: USA Posts: 2,871	I need tell you something. I moved to Utah from Colorado because I want to get divorce. I left my husband for good reasons. I was suffering with him for many years. my love was gone. I cannot stay with him that my love is gone. I don't feel any emotion that I left him. I still feel so sad that I miss my son. I cannot take my son with me or my jerk husband will hurt me. I let him have him and he need learn to be father. Long story. I dont want tell blah blah I am doing okay.

09-17-2008, 07:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
WhisperHorse Lexi's Mommy Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Michigan Posts: 7,298	Aw, I'm sorry. I hope you will do well, but you can get your son with court? But it's your choose. We're here for you __________________ Proud Mommy of my Alexanderia Gayle Born on May 21, 2008 8 lbs 1.4 oz and 21 1/2 inches She's the love of my life. "Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love."

09-17-2008, 07:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
Pepsi The One and Only Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA Posts: 3,406	I feel bad for you I know how you feel hang in there and everything will work out for you, I hope you don't mind me saying this I think you should have your husband put in jail for trying to hurt you and don't let him keep you from your son. __________________

09-17-2008, 07:53 PM	#4 (permalink)
JClarke AD addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 14,113 Blog Entries: 4	I am sorry to hear this, I have been seeing some related divorces around the forum lately. What is happening to us? __________________ This is not a ASL version

09-17-2008, 08:09 PM	#8 (permalink)
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09-17-2008, 08:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
lilylover72 I love purple! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: USA Posts: 2,871	Thank you for support. I want to my jerk husband have full custody of my son. I have a right visit him for hoildays and summer.

09-17-2008, 08:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
LovelyBlkGal It's me :-P Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Somewhere in OHIO Posts: 4,083	Oucheis i m sorry heard about happen to ur marriage but good thing that you has to get out of marriage and move on ur new life i can understand how feel and hang in there

09-17-2008, 08:42 PM	#12 (permalink)
LakeTahoe ~~JUST ME!!~~ Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Lost somewhere on the Earth! Posts: 12,293	Awww I am sorry that you have to go thru that! __________________ HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

09-17-2008, 08:56 PM	#14 (permalink)
*Jolie77* Love all, trust a few. Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Kentucky, USA (The Bluegrass State) Posts: 5,508	It's not going to be easy but, do stay strong, Lilylover __________________

09-17-2008, 09:03 PM	#15 (permalink)
~♥~Pinky~♥~ Registered User Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,679	Oh no. I am sorry to hear. __________________

09-17-2008, 10:17 PM	#17 (permalink)
hohDougRN GO UTAH JAZZ!! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: utah Posts: 1,609	Lily that so sad to happen to you. lost love and broken heart are the worst things that can happen on earth (yes, even death of loved one in my opinion) I hope you have family or friends to help you to get through this. __________________ *Doug*

09-17-2008, 10:47 PM	#18 (permalink)
Bebonang Registered User Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Manitoulin Island on Lake Huron in Canada Posts: 1,567	Lily, I am sorry about your bad marriage and losing your son to your husband. I am wondering if you are saying that you are willing to let him keep your son because your son is a male not because your husband threaten you. If you want to keep your son very badly, then you should fight for the right to have your son live with you and still have your husband come and see him on holidays and summer. But if you don't want to keep your son, then that is okay as long as you are fine with the holidays and summer to visit your son. Also one question, do you have family living in Colorado? It is important to have family be there for you and be on your side. Keep your chin up and we are here for you.

09-17-2008, 11:16 PM	#19 (permalink)
Bottesini Elf Assassin Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Sneaking up behind you Posts: 5,859 Blog Entries: 2	I am very sorry to hear about your problems in your marriage. __________________ AllDeaf

09-17-2008, 11:24 PM	#20 (permalink)
Miss-Delectable Capt Tony Nelson, Jeannie Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: No.1 Shopping Capital in Australia Posts: 8,855 Blog Entries: 3	Wish you all the best in starting life anew after divorce. __________________

09-17-2008, 11:28 PM	#21 (permalink)
ArkieGal Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Arkansas Posts: 1,029	Lily, I am so sorry to hear. I know how much you love your son and you miss him. I hope you will work out to get your son back. That's your choice. __________________

09-18-2008, 11:23 AM	#22 (permalink)
lilylover72 I love purple! Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: USA Posts: 2,871	Guess what, My mom and i have huge problem that she want me get back to my jerk man. I told her that I cannot because I don't love him at all. She is expecting me stay wtih him for my son's sake. No way That is so crazy because He did hurt me several times. I am finished with him. My son did same thing to me and realize that I have to stop this.

09-18-2008, 11:26 AM	#23 (permalink)
highlands In Love & Happy Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: in an inland city Posts: 4,168	lilylover72 , I hope you could sort out your problem in a way you feel comfortable. __________________

09-18-2008, 01:25 PM	#24 (permalink)
Sharky99 aka NorthStar Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Canada Posts: 3,530	Lilylover.. I do hope ya will be able to have a fresh start on your new life in your new place and maybe it would be a good idea to have your son with ya instead of your soon to be ex hubby.. he probably wont be a good choice and what if he hit your son out of frustration over ya? It would be possible for that to happen so go get your son brought in your custody full time...

09-18-2008, 01:58 PM	#25 (permalink)
Phillips Lets ride horses! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Spaceship Posts: 7,192 Blog Entries: 3	Oh I am so Sorry If you want talking to me on vp ok Pm you privately __________________ *Enjoy life today, Yesterday has past and Tomorrow may never come.*

09-18-2008, 04:51 PM	#26 (permalink)
Sunshinelady I am in area SF Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: California Posts: 1,992	lilylover, I am glad that you are serious to decided, so you leave both of them. your husband have to learn alone with his son. I don't want see someone get suffering and lonely. it is enough. I agree with you, what your mom said that you should stay with your husband, but your love is gone. "POSSIBLE TO LIVE WITH UR HUSBAND FOREVER, IF YOUR LOVE IS GONE???? NO WAY!!!!! I am proud of you. oh well, i know divorce always hurt, but in someday will be fine. __________________ The laughter is the best medicine.

09-18-2008, 05:32 PM	#27 (permalink)
Koala Cuddly bear Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 4,422	lilylover, I am sorry about the situation you are in. You are doing the right thing by leaving him if all fails. There is no point staying in a loveless marriage. I wish you all the best for the better future ahead for you and peace. Please be strong and don't let your hubby bother you with anything. Hang in there, girl. __________________