Why Men-bashing? Women are just as bad!

lanapoo said:
Because you are the one who brought up having sex with younger people even if they're of legal age and I was using porn as an example because a lot of them have younger people in them and old people like to watch them.

So. :hmm: Is that lecherous to you as well?

And having sex with younger people has absolutely nothing to do with the point of this thread, just for your information.
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I was talking about lecherous activity in regards to a very old woman having sex with an 18 year old while still legally married. That did not make a blip on your radar since it wasn't about a very old man having sex with an 18 year old while still legally married.

If it had been about a very old man having sex with an 18 year old while still being legally married, you would be on board right? Because you need a scapegoat for a past experience perhaps?

Scapegoating can cause relationship issues. If a person, male or female, does not appreciate you, move on and find someone who does. That is how you will find happiness. Dwelling on people who have hurt you is not the answer, lumping a group of people together and placing blame on all of them will make matters worse.

Just my 2 cents. I am not trying to brow beat.
 
lanapoo said:
Uhm, what? What does this have to do with... cheating? If I recall correctly, they were already getting a divorce when she started dating her daughter's friend who is of a legal age.
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He's just pissed because if the situation were reversed, he couldn't attract a woman that much younger.:wave:
 
Steinhauer said:
So you have no problem with lecherous old men dating 18 year olds?

After all, it is perfectly legal.


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(this is gonna be fun - lol - no, I am not a mysogonist, I just know women can be just as bad, in some cases worse, then men).
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I'd say that is up to the lecherous old man and the 18 year old. Really isn't any of your danged business.
 
lanapoo said:
I think most men are too scared to comment on this thread because we, ladies, will plow them down and they know it.
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Hah. I'm not scared at all. I just don't care because it takes two to tango. I know women know that too well. As we, men, all are, they (women) are responsible for their poor decision-making in choosing a man. Like I've said in other post; why women keep falling for jerks when there are good guys being readily available for you? Indeed, why? But seriously, women who cheat are just as bad as men.

Men, have you noticed that every time some women say that they want good guys, but really go for men who are "jerks" or "bad guy" in the end?

I always find it so funny that some women would blame men for a lot of things, but won't take responsibility for their poor decisions? It is like trying to blame cocaine when you get arrested for not obeying the law in the first place about not taking drugs. It is a "WTF" moment every time I've heard this from some women and men. Women and Germs, you're responsible for every decision you make for yourself. Every. Decision. Every. Time.

crazy, while I cannot and won't tell you what to do, I don't think it is a smart move on your part in creating a topic like this about women. Whoever made a "men-bashing" topic is not a smart move to make at all either. As much as some women want to deny this, men and women both have their flaws from the beginning.
 
Steinhauer said:
That is what I was saying.

I was not saying that all women are bad. I was not trying to defend bad behaviour (like those defending Hulk Hogan's wife).

The entire point I was trying to make was this:

When a celebrity male is caught cheating, there are certain people that will say "What is wrong with men?" - thereby, lumping all men together as if they all do such deeds as the celebrity did.

When I see a female celebrity being caught in a misdeed, I ask myself, "What is wrong with HER?" I do not think "What is wrong with ALL women".
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There is not a man alive that does not treat his second girlfriend in a way that is based on the way his first girlfriend behaved. If she cheated on him, he treats every subsequent girlfriend as if she is going to cheat on him too.
 
Steinhauer said:
I was talking about lecherous activity in regards to a very old woman having sex with an 18 year old while still legally married. That did not make a blip on your radar since it wasn't about a very old man having sex with an 18 year old while still legally married.

If it had been about a very old man having sex with an 18 year old while still being legally married, you would be on board right? Because you need a scapegoat for a past experience perhaps?

Scapegoating can cause relationship issues. If a person, male or female, does not appreciate you, move on and find someone who does. That is how you will find happiness. Dwelling on people who have hurt you is not the answer, lumping a group of people together and placing blame on all of them will make matters worse.

Just my 2 cents. I am not trying to brow beat.
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Do you know how long it takes to get a divorce? It takes a long time and if I was ever in the progress of getting a nasty divorce, I'd start dating before it was even complete because I'm not going to waste my time waiting for a piece of paper that officially says I'm not hand in hand with a man who broke my heart anymore.

And Hulk Hogan is the one who cheated on his wife. Then their relationship was over from there although they were still legally married. That's when she started dating a younger man. Go her!

If an old man was in the progress of getting a divorce and know that his marriage is basically over, he's free to do whatever he wants. I'm not saying that he shouldn't wait until his divorce is final. I wouldn't even bother him because I know his marriage is over.

You are the one dwelling, not me. If you said all women are bitchy, like I said all men are jerks in the other thread. I wouldn't have gotten on your ass about it because well, duh... Common sense? I know not all men are jerks and i know not all women are bitchy either. Both are equally at fault, just for different reasons.

Take a joke.
 
jillio said:
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There is not a man alive that does not treat his second girlfriend in a way that is based on the way his first girlfriend behaved. If she cheated on him, he treats every subsequent girlfriend as if she is going to cheat on him too.
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Maybe in your situation.
 
Steinhauer said:
That is the general rule. People change, and their interests change too. However, I think I can see why so much anger is directed at men - from women. In serious relationships, when a partner has cheated, there is often times no coming back and there will never be the state of love and trust as there was before. Another general rule is that men crave respect and women crave security. If that is the case, and a woman is felt that there is no security left .... well ...

Just don't forget that there have been loyal and faithful men that have gotten just as burned.
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Back that up with something, please. It appears to be a general rule that only you are aware of.

Judging from some of your posts, you have no clue what women crave. And the jury is still out on whether you know what men crave.
 
One of my friend has domesitc violence...and that's his wife abusing him. I hope he gets divorce from that bitch.
 
lanapoo said:
Do you know how long it takes to get a divorce? It takes a long time and if I was ever in the progress of getting a nasty divorce, I'd start dating before it was even complete because I'm not going to waste my time waiting for a piece of paper that officially says I'm not hand in hand with a man who broke my heart anymore.

And Hulk Hogan is the one who cheated on his wife. Then their relationship was over from there although they were still legally married. That's when she started dating a younger man. Go her!

If an old man was in the progress of getting a divorce and know that his marriage is basically over, he's free to do whatever he wants. I'm not saying that he shouldn't wait until his divorce is final. I wouldn't even bother him because I know his marriage is over.

You are the one dwelling, not me. If you said all women are bitchy, like I said all men are jerks in the other thread. I wouldn't have gotten on your ass about it because well, duh... Common sense? I know not all men are jerks and i know not all women are bitchy either. Both are equally at fault, just for different reasons.

Take a joke.
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Then why didn't she file a long time ago? Why come out with these accusations AFTER she cheated on him? hmmmm
 
Steinhauer said:
Then why didn't she file a long time ago? Why come out with these accusations AFTER she cheated on him? hmmmm
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It came out in private... She KNEW about it and KNEW the relationship was long over before the public caught wind of it. Why are we even talking about Hogans here?
 
iSphere said:
Hah. I'm not scared at all. I just don't care because it takes two to tango. I know women know that too well. As we, men, all are, they (women) are responsible for their poor decision-making in choosing a man. Like I've said in other post; why women keep falling for jerks when there are good guys being readily available for you? Indeed, why? But seriously, women who cheat are just as bad as men.

Men, have you noticed that every time some women say that they want good guys, but really go for men who are "jerks" or "bad guy" in the end?

I always find it so funny that some women would blame men for a lot of things, but won't take responsibility for their poor decisions? It is like trying to blame cocaine when you get arrested for not obeying the law in the first place about not taking drugs. It is a "WTF" moment every time I've heard this from some women and men. Women and Germs, you're responsible for every decision you make for yourself. Every. Decision. Every. Time.

crazy, while I cannot and won't tell you what to do, I don't think it is a smart move on your part in creating a topic like this about women. Whoever made a "men-bashing" topic is not a smart move to make at all either. As much as some women want to deny this, men and women both have their flaws from the beginning.
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Yep - no one is perfect.
 
lanapoo said:
It came out in private... She KNEW about it and KNEW the relationship was long over before the public caught wind of it. Why are we even talking about Hogans here?
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Because you asked me about it.

LOL
 
Steinhauer said:
I was talking about lecherous activity in regards to a very old woman having sex with an 18 year old while still legally married. That did not make a blip on your radar since it wasn't about a very old man having sex with an 18 year old while still legally married.

If it had been about a very old man having sex with an 18 year old while still being legally married, you would be on board right? Because you need a scapegoat for a past experience perhaps?

Scapegoating can cause relationship issues. If a person, male or female, does not appreciate you, move on and find someone who does. That is how you will find happiness. Dwelling on people who have hurt you is not the answer, lumping a group of people together and placing blame on all of them will make matters worse.

Just my 2 cents. I am not trying to brow beat.
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What you are referring to is adultery. Has nothing to do with lechery.:roll:
 
lanapoo said:
Do you know how long it takes to get a divorce? It takes a long time and if I was ever in the progress of getting a nasty divorce, I'd start dating before it was even complete because I'm not going to waste time waiting for a piece of paper that officially says I'm not hand in hand with a man who breaks my heart.

And Hulk Hogan is the one who cheated on his wife. Then their relationship was over from there although they were still legally married. That's when she started dating a younger man. Go her!

If an old man was in the progress of getting a divorce and know that his marriage is basically over, he's free to do whatever he wants. I'm not saying that he shouldn't wait until his divorce is final. I wouldn't even bother him because I know his marriage is over.

You are the one dwelling, not me. If you said all women are bitchy, like I said all men are jerks in the other thread. I wouldn't have gotten on your ass about it because well, duh... Common sense? I know not all men are jerks and i know not all women are bitchy either. Both are equally at fault, just for different reasons.

Take a joke.
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Not waiting to date until the divorce is official can backfire. My friend was separated from her husband since the law in MD that a couple must be physically separated for a year before filing for divorce, when she start dating her current boyfriend. Her ex-husband used her dating him while they were separated as a reason to get full custody of their son. He won because in the eyes of the court, it was considered cheating. I lived separately from my ex hubby for 3 years before we finally filed (laziness) but I refused to bring any men that I was dating home or have them meet my daughter because I knew the potential of him using it against me so I didnt want to risk that. I agree with you that while the divorce is being processed, the marriage is over but gotta be careful because someone could be spiteful.
 
shel90 said:
Not waiting to date until the divorce is official can backfire. My friend was separated from her husband since the law in MD that a couple must be physically separated for a year before filing for divorce, when she start dating her current boyfriend. Her ex-husband used her dating him while they were separated as a reason to get full custody of their son. He won because in the eyes of the court, it was considered cheating. I lived separately from my ex hubby for 3 years before we finally filed (laziness) but I refused to bring any men that I was dating home or have them meet my daughter because I knew the potential of him using it against me so I didnt want to risk that. I agree with you that while the divorce is being processed, the marriage is over but gotta be careful because someone could be spiteful.
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^^^^^ This
 
shel90 said:
Not waiting to date until the divorce is official can backfire. My friend was separated from her husband since the law in MD that a couple must be physically separated for a year before filing for divorce, when she start dating her current boyfriend. Her ex-husband used her dating him while they were separated as a reason to get full custody of their son. He won because in the eyes of the court, it was considered cheating. I lived separately from my ex hubby for 3 years before we finally filed (laziness) but I refused to bring any men that I was dating home or have them meet my daughter because I knew the potential of him using it against me so I didnt want to risk that. I agree with you that while the divorce is being processed, the marriage is over but gotta be careful because someone could be spiteful.
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Wow, ridiculous. Yeah, be careful especially when you have children involved.
 
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