Right...I dont feel sorry for them cuz both did wrong. Yes, it is sad when marriages ends but I feel that if u are gonna seek out companionship from other people other than your spouse, get help or end the marriage. If u dont and the shit hits the fan, I am gonna laugh. I have issues with cheating cuz my ex hubby did that to me and it just really hurts like nothing else knowing that your spouse lied and was with someone else. It would have hurted less if he had been honest with me and ended our marriage instead of lying to both of us and making a fool out of me.